re: OT advice. First breakup after my marriage

Posted by TheAlmightySmash

New Orleans

Member since Jun 2014

5489 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:23 pm to DirtyMikeandtheBoys

quote:

Apparently everybody who comes here looking for advice is dating a smokeshow....

Welcome to the OT.

Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys

Member since May 2011

19467 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:27 pm to TheAlmightySmash

Well it sounds like the advise is to date average chicks and you won't need to seek advise anymore. I mean it's the only common denominator with all these dudes. Their chicks are all smokeshows.

Posted by SabiDojo

Open to any suggestions.

Member since Nov 2010

84355 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:29 pm to GuiceIsLoose

quote:
she said she didn't think I was ready for a relationship yet even though things were incredible until a week ago or so.

This is bullshite. Cop out. She's seeing someone else.

Posted by CunningLinguist

Dallas, TX

Member since Mar 2006

19158 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:31 pm to GuiceIsLoose

A month and a half does not come close to qualifying as a relationship

Posted by GuiceIsLoose

Member since Dec 2016

73 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:33 pm to SabiDojo

Well she invited me to hangout with her family yesterday on the 4th but yeah it's likely it's someone else. She gave me that line that she's never cheated lol

Posted by GeorgeTheGreek

Sparta, Greece

Member since Mar 2008

68573 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:34 pm to GuiceIsLoose

Dude, you're all beat up about a chick who divorced by 20 and is a dropout. She's not a catch.

Unless you dine on mullet.

Posted by GuiceIsLoose

Member since Dec 2016

73 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:36 pm to Yellerhammer5

I thought she was mature until this last week

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Posted by Jizzamo311

Member since Dec 2008

6416 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:37 pm to GuiceIsLoose

It's over. Just post her fricking pic

Posted by TheIndulger

Member since Sep 2011

19312 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:38 pm to GuiceIsLoose

quote:
I thought she was mature until this last week

If you're actually looking for a relationship (which, in my opinion, you shouldn't be since you just got divorced and should take some time to yourself for a while) you should aim for the mid 20's. 20 is too young

Posted by SabiDojo

Open to any suggestions.

Member since Nov 2010

84355 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:39 pm to GuiceIsLoose

GtG is right, dude. You dodged a bullet if you really liked her.

Posted by Packer

IE, California

Member since May 2017

8686 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:46 pm to Jizzamo311

quote:
It's over. Just post her fricking pic

OP won't because she is probably a heifer or a dude

Posted by rocket31

Member since Jan 2008

41887 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:49 pm to GuiceIsLoose

dating for less than 2 months and youre this possessive/obsessed?

girl sensed your creep/controlling vibes and peaced the f out.

This post was edited on 7/3/17 at 3:50 pm

Posted by GuiceIsLoose

Member since Dec 2016

73 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 3:55 pm to rocket31

Wasn't possessive at all.

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Posted by NoSaint

Member since Jun 2011

12452 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:04 pm to GeorgeTheGreek

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Dude, you're all beat up about a chick who divorced by 20 and is a dropout. She's not a catch.

with seemingly large health issues and family issues.

But doesn't smoke.

Posted by Gris Gris

OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!

Member since Feb 2008

49636 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:04 pm to GuiceIsLoose

So, is this the same girl you got mad at when she wouldn't go home with you?

Posted by deltaland

Member since Mar 2011

100401 posts

Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:11 pm to GuiceIsLoose

When women decide to "stop seeing each other" out of the blue it's because she found someone else. Especially a 20 yr old because they're young and stupid and don't know what they want.