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re: Opinion: My married longtime ex is texting me A LOT
Posted on 12/26/21 at 9:50 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
Posted on 12/26/21 at 9:50 am to LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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LSU Grad Alabama Fan
Just make sure to give her life advice in post secks cuddles, amirite?
Posted on 12/26/21 at 9:51 am to crazy4lsu
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Y tu mama tambien.
I've seen that movie. Lead actress has really nice tits.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:00 am to LSUJD_04
It always amazes me how these threads go 5, 10, 15+ pages.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:07 am to LSUJD_04
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I respect the sanctity of marriage
No you don't
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:29 am to LSUJD_04
If you lived nearby instead of 1000 miles away, she wouldn’t be doing this.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:29 am to LSUJD_04
She’s using you for attention and validation because her marriage isn’t working out. Don’t be her Jody. If you do get together and she leaves him, you will always be looking over your shoulder.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:39 am to LSUJD_04
She sounds like a girl who isn’t faithful. That doesn’t sound like the girl every one wants, it sounds like a girl who wants everyone, if you catch my drift.
Block her and forget about her.
Block her and forget about her.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:41 am to greenbean
The hilarious part of your statement is that there is a group of people who probably agree with you.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:43 am to LSUJD_04
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I would still take a bullet for this girl without even a thought
I came back to say this is pathetic
Posted on 12/26/21 at 10:54 am to LSUJD_04
Either ignore her or tell her you are going to be coming thru town next week and just to see her reaction. Do one or the other, get off the pot.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 11:14 am to LSUJD_04
It’s the trap of all traps. You’ll trap yourself.
She is on a pedestal because she really never aged in your mind. And when you talk or text with her you remember when things were good. Not bad. You think of 25 year old her (or pick an age) and you are thinking through that lens too. She’s a time capsule and you are her time capsule. A box each person can open and remember a time that you weighed less and didn’t groan when you get out of bed.
You can be friends but no more. After a day of catching up what else would you have to talk about.
It’s regret. Regret is dangerous. I’m married with a son. Wonderful home and wife and family. But there is still two that got away from single days. I ran into one at a bar before Mrs Alum. Had a brief talk with her. I rehash that talk in my mind all the time. Because she was the one, until I met the one. She was divorcing at the time and this was a girls night out for her to celebrate a shitty marriage. I had a speech ready to go. Was gonna give her MY number and not ask her. (This was back when you wrote numbers on napkins). Shooters shoot. And at that moment I passed like James Harden in a game 7.
I say all that to say regret is a nasty word in this sense. Do I regret my wife? My son? The home we’ve built that I’m sitting in? No. But if I could go back in time and re do that conversation and take my shot, you would erase all of it. It’s an evil game we play with ourselves. I talk to them both on Facebook DM. My wife is aware that I do. I never erase them and I have a device that always open to my Facebook. So my wife knows if she suspects, she can read it.
We are all knocking on 50 now. But my mind has 22 year old girls in mind when I picture them. It’s a lose lose.
She is on a pedestal because she really never aged in your mind. And when you talk or text with her you remember when things were good. Not bad. You think of 25 year old her (or pick an age) and you are thinking through that lens too. She’s a time capsule and you are her time capsule. A box each person can open and remember a time that you weighed less and didn’t groan when you get out of bed.
You can be friends but no more. After a day of catching up what else would you have to talk about.
It’s regret. Regret is dangerous. I’m married with a son. Wonderful home and wife and family. But there is still two that got away from single days. I ran into one at a bar before Mrs Alum. Had a brief talk with her. I rehash that talk in my mind all the time. Because she was the one, until I met the one. She was divorcing at the time and this was a girls night out for her to celebrate a shitty marriage. I had a speech ready to go. Was gonna give her MY number and not ask her. (This was back when you wrote numbers on napkins). Shooters shoot. And at that moment I passed like James Harden in a game 7.
I say all that to say regret is a nasty word in this sense. Do I regret my wife? My son? The home we’ve built that I’m sitting in? No. But if I could go back in time and re do that conversation and take my shot, you would erase all of it. It’s an evil game we play with ourselves. I talk to them both on Facebook DM. My wife is aware that I do. I never erase them and I have a device that always open to my Facebook. So my wife knows if she suspects, she can read it.
We are all knocking on 50 now. But my mind has 22 year old girls in mind when I picture them. It’s a lose lose.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 11:19 am to Centinel
Loved saying that phrase when playing soccer with the Hispanic immigrants growing up.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:50 pm to LSUJD_04
You could ask her to stop, you know. You're enjoying it, and are here to brag.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:21 pm to LSUJD_04
Change your phone number and don’t share it with her.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:22 pm to LSUJD_04
This happened to me and got back with the ex and after a few years went separate ways again.
In the end it was more like, oh yeah. There was a reason we broke it off before.
In the end it was more like, oh yeah. There was a reason we broke it off before.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:24 pm to IMJ127
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She's just trying to see if she can get a rouse out of you. Women hate to be forgotten and ignored. She wants to know if she has you whipped and as soon as she realizes she does, she'll ghost you and continue with her life.
God damn this is accurate
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:28 pm to LSUJD_04
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this other girl is the standard by which I’ve always compared other girls.
I had one of these. I orbited her from afar for about 10 years. Eventually we
Married and divorced. I now have to deal with that count due to child custody. If she’s finally coming around and becoming available, then she wants you to be captain save-a-hoe. The red flags are up dude. Don’t do it. IMHO.
Edit: if she can’t honor a marriage once, she can’t honor a marriage ever. She could be (on some level) lining up a safe landing before she leaves the current gibs. She’s not the unicorn of your memory/imaginations and you probably aren’t as special to her as you think. Maybe she thinks you are at this exact moment, but clearly “until death do us part” didn’t last that long for her. I’m sure she meant that when she said it to her husband, just sometimes “forever” only lasts a short while.
Edit: if she is the gold standard then I can’t tell you to not try if you must, but I see red flags (not to mention the logistics). If you do give it another go, then do not treat it like destiny and fast track the relations. It’s NEW, and judge the relationship as such. Don’t ignore any warnings in your gut as you see them. If you’d ditch anyone else over these warnings, then ditch her as well.
This post was edited on 12/26/21 at 1:43 pm
Posted on 12/26/21 at 2:15 pm to LSUJD_04
Marriage might be going to shite. And is just wondering what, she messed up with you.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 9:16 pm to LSUJD_04
If she was that special you would have locked it up in 9 years of dating. If she’s married and texting you she was probably cheating on you during the 9 years of dating.
Posted on 12/26/21 at 9:43 pm to LSUJD_04
Not my business and you asked, but a drowning person will grab tight and drown the people that try to save them.
And there is an old Proverb story about the dog who had a bone and saw his reflection in a pool of water. Grabbed at the reflection and lost his bone.
Who knows...kinda sounds like ya'll may be a perfect fit. Good luck.
And there is an old Proverb story about the dog who had a bone and saw his reflection in a pool of water. Grabbed at the reflection and lost his bone.
Who knows...kinda sounds like ya'll may be a perfect fit. Good luck.
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