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re: Opinion: My married longtime ex is texting me A LOT

Posted on 12/25/21 at 11:43 pm to
Posted by soccerfüt
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Member since May 2013
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Posted on 12/25/21 at 11:43 pm to
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A fwb from 23 years ago recently hit me up on messenger. Her husband, who she was engaged to when I was plowing, has cancer. Hadn't heard a word nor laid eyes on her in the past 23 years.

Still looks damn good for her age. Debating.
Posted by NorthTxLSU
Dallas, Tx
Member since Nov 2018
11158 posts
Posted on 12/25/21 at 11:46 pm to
you’ve come to the right place for sure
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3300 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:00 am to
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I’m with a great girl who I love


Contradicts

quote:
this other girl is the standard by which I’ve always compared other girls


And

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would still take a bullet for this girl


Can't have it both ways

And neither can she if she

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married a guy
________
This was pieced together masterfully.
Posted by AcadieAnne
Where I drink and know nothing.
Member since May 2019
873 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:07 am to
This, but a woman should never settle for being a side chick for dick, either. Ain't no pussy or dick in this world worth your self respect. He ain't gonna leave his wife, she ain't gonna leave her husband if he's paying her bills. Don't fall for this shite and settle for being a side piece. Adult up.
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3300 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:12 am to
When we get bored in our marriages, it becomes dangerous. OP, she may have felt like the one at a certain point but she wasn't. You're being used to generate a little spark in her current boring/bland period. Cut it off, block her and enjoy the peace that follows.
This post was edited on 12/26/21 at 12:22 am
Posted by lsuson
Metairie
Member since Oct 2013
12337 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:21 am to
quote:

you’ve come to the right place for sure


Can’t believe it took 4 pages
Posted by lsuson
Metairie
Member since Oct 2013
12337 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:21 am to
This
Posted by tonydtigr
Beautiful Downtown Glenn Springs,Tx
Member since Nov 2011
5164 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 12:24 am to
Well this is a frick up waiting to happen.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11414 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:05 am to
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Block the number and move on with your life


This.
If you dated for 9 years (even from 12-21) and did not get married you were never getting married.
Posted by BrohanDavey
The Land Down Under
Member since Oct 2018
706 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:23 am to
I’ve enjoyed reading this thread and have summarized the thread as such:

1. Your story is bullshite
2. In the event it’s not bullshite, she’s using you for her own self-validation.

If the former is the case, this was all an entertaining read. If, however, it is the latter, my advice to you is to 1) take your respect for the sanctity of marriage seriously and don’t interfere with hers and 2) don’t be some freaking doormat for this broad.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 1:23 am to
quote:

AcadieAnne
hey



Posted by AcadieAnne
Where I drink and know nothing.
Member since May 2019
873 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 2:02 am to
I thought you were already taken? But in any case, I am married, so it’s not going to work out. But thank you for the kind offer, tho. ??
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 2:06 am to
You’re welcome
Posted by Strannix
District 11
Member since Dec 2012
49166 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 3:26 am to
Be very careful with nostalgia relationships, shes showing you now she cant be trusted.
Posted by SmelvinRat
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Posted on 12/26/21 at 3:31 am to
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 12/26/21 at 5:06 am to
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I respect the sanctity of marriage


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I’m with a great girl who I love


If those two things are true, really true, you should shut this shite down now. It’s headed to one place and if you don’t shut it down, a few months from now when you two have have her marriage and your relationship don’t wonder how it happened.

You are headed for some steamy sex and then a harsh reminder of why it didn’t work.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63572 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 5:15 am to
Unless you're married or don't have hair on your peaches, go get your dream girl. Don't let her cheat on her husband with you, but shoot your shot. Unfortunately for you, a true dream girl would never end a commitment as real as marriage, so prepare to lose just in case.
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
7779 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:01 am to
She didn’t meet and marry the guy in 15 months. She was hooking up with him behind your back just like she’s trying to do behind his back with you.

Block her number and don’t look back. That ho can’t be trusted
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
10368 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:06 am to
And if you do make this jump think to yourself this: how long will it be before she is texting another ex telling him the same thing.
One things a certain: If a woman has it in her to cheat on her husband with you then she will also do it to you!
Also, if it’s been years don’t think you both are the same as you were at that point in your lives. Just because you were in love then, don’t mean you would be today. Of course you always have a special feeling for that person, that is normal, but don’t expect some Hollywood ending.
Posted by JDPndahizzy
JDP
Member since Nov 2013
6475 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:10 am to
Dude… fulfill your fantasy and hit it. Report back with how it went. It’s just sex.
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