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re: Not enough talent: Being honest with your kids.

Posted on 10/22/18 at 11:14 pm to
Posted by BeepNode
Lafayette
Member since Feb 2014
10005 posts
Posted on 10/22/18 at 11:14 pm to
The formula seems pretty simple to me.

If he enjoys doing it then be glad that he has a hobby and continue to support it if you can.
Posted by RedlandsTiger
Greenwell Springs, LA
Member since Jan 2008
3121 posts
Posted on 10/22/18 at 11:41 pm to
quote:

Let the kid play the game he wants to play. No one said you had to be good at something to enjoy doing it.


This.

Sports are a big slice of life. Sometimes you win and most of the time you lose. It's how you deal with the losses that define you. Sometime these over achievers become All-Americans. Let the kid chase the dream. I love it that his dad supports him.
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 10/22/18 at 11:55 pm to
Let him play and try out, the reality is most of the kids playing travel ball are not going to make a high school team, so if he doesn't make it he wont be alone.
Posted by pioneerbasketball
Team Bunchie
Member since Oct 2005
139098 posts
Posted on 10/22/18 at 11:58 pm to
You can't coach determination
Posted by Maytheporkbewithyou
Member since Aug 2016
13854 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 12:00 am to
Dude, if he's not good enough then he won't make the team. That'll be the moment he knows it's over.....if not before.
Posted by FLAK88
Gonzales La.
Member since Jan 2015
494 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 5:46 am to
Tell his dad that his son has a 0.5% chance of becoming a major league baseball player
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68460 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 6:16 am to
quote:

Let the kid play the game he wants to play. No one said you had to be good at something to enjoy doing it.

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Posted by pilsnerpusher
Member since Sep 2009
1424 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 6:17 am to
It's your job to try to help him gain the tools to make realizing his goals possible. My 2 cents would be to spend more time improving his general athleticism and less time with the batting coach. He needs the weightroom 3 times a week as well as plyo-agility-speed training 2 or 3 times a week. Improve his general athleticism and you will see him improve as an overall baseball player.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69665 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 7:03 am to
If h doesn’t make it

Find a jiu jitsu or wrestling school (freestyle not Wwe)

His athleticism will go up

Posted by EveryoneGetsATrophy
Member since Nov 2017
2907 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 7:05 am to
RUDY....RUDY......RUDY.....RUDY
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20256 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 7:25 am to
I was a late bloomer. I was a backup in all sports when I was 14, one of the smallest kids in my class, the youngest kid in my class, etc. Then I grew almost a foot between my 9th and 10th grade years, started on every team my junior and senior years, and I was the only one in my entire class that got offered a scholarship (football). I kept growing in my freshman and sophomore years in college, and went on to be All Conference. I bet people thought the same thing about me that you think about him at 14.
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 9:02 am to
If he continues to work, he is still at the age where he is developing the necessary skills to play. Failure to make the team can be used as motivation. Encourage him to ask the coach what he needs to work on in order to make it the next season. This shows maturity and initiative to the coach, and he will not forget it.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107467 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 9:49 am to
Hold him back in school this year. I had a dozen friends growing up who's idiot parents held them back in the 5th or 6th grade for the sole purpose of giving them a better chance to make a high school team. Sad.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
11110 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 10:10 am to
Does the kid have any interest in computers? Let him learn the human body,(not the porn side, the muscles sides) and start evaluating what makes a great pitcher and a great hitter. Then start recording his friends and his own moves and then work to improve them.

Posted by crispyUGA
Upstate SC
Member since Feb 2011
16217 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 10:24 am to
Let the kid play the sport he loves until he can’t. Eventually he’ll get cut or he’ll graduate. No reason in pushing him to track or swimming if he doesn’t enjoy it or even enjoy it as much. My father and my football coaches tried to convince me to quit baseball so that I could focus solely on football; I was much better at football and our baseball team was really bad. Baseball was the first game I fell in love with, though, and I still love it. I was going to play as long as people would let me. I played in a wooden bat league during college, too.

Let him hold on to the dream while he can. If he doesn’t make JV then be there to support him and help him find something new. He might surprise you and make the team, though.
Posted by Captain Crackysack
Member since Oct 2017
2231 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 11:37 am to
quote:

distance running of course). 

chicks dont wanna frick the distance runner. Stick with baseball
Posted by bamafan1001
Member since Jun 2011
15783 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 11:46 am to
So you are going to throw cold water on this kid’s confidence? Are you trying to prevent him from feeling bad for not making the team??
Posted by The Korean
Denham Springs, LA
Member since May 2008
1645 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 12:33 pm to
If he is 14 and love the game, let him play it and have fun for as long as he can. To him now, it's not a job or chore to do. Let him have fun, especially if he enjoys it. He'll look back regardless if he is good or not and have fond memories.

Natural selection will weed him out, hell, it may even make him better if he needs to work hard to make teams and improve. Once that time comes, he will learn a life lesson of how to deal with shite life give you.

I do see your point, one of my kids has teammates who are on travel teams and in no reality will they amount to a decent college level player. If you hear them and the parents talk, you swear the Pros have them on speed dial already. Talking to the Dad sometimes I want to say, you know your kids on the team because you pretty much fund it out of your pocket. It's a pay to play system, but I don't.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 12:44 pm to
I think more kids need reality checks. You HAVE to bust your arse if you want to be an elite player. You HAVE to do more than the required practice. fricking kids on my sons team think he gets special treatment, for some crazy reason, because he plays a desirable position...no little shite, it’s because you NEVER put in the work. I just wish, one time, a coach would be honest in front of the parents...hell, ever.
Posted by 4shore
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
109 posts
Posted on 10/23/18 at 1:08 pm to
Michael Jordan didn't play varsity Bball till he was a junior.......
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