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re: Not being able to break up with someone
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:08 pm to Hawkeye95
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:08 pm to Hawkeye95
Your friend needs to go to the nearest police station and file a report that states his current girlfriend is not emotionally stable and has a history of suicide attempts. Let them know that her brother committed suicide this past summer and that your intentions are to break up with her, but want her to have the proper help and see what they say. They may turn you away, or they may offer assistance. Either way, he needs to end it with her and find some sort of way to get her into a mental health clinic.
It's a lose/lose for your friend. He either stays and is miserable and does something to set her off one day that could put his life in danger, or he ends it and she ends her life putting her life on his shoulders.
It's a lose/lose for your friend. He either stays and is miserable and does something to set her off one day that could put his life in danger, or he ends it and she ends her life putting her life on his shoulders.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:09 pm to Hawkeye95
It sounds like once he breaks up with her the problem solves itself.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:12 pm to Hawkeye95
This guy is 40? You need better friends.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:16 pm to foshizzle
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This guy is 40? You need better friends.
no shite. But we have been friends for a long time, he is just on a downward spiral. Its not just this, its all sorts of other things.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:23 pm to Hawkeye95
On the plus side....having that downward spiral friend in your life just makes you feel that much better about your life
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:25 pm to Hawkeye95
Sounds like the world is better off with her dead anyway. Let her do it.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:40 pm to Hawkeye95
A few options.
1.Call one of her family members, tell them the situation and that you think someone needs to be there when she gets the news. Have them text you when they arrive and this is one time its okay to break up via text so send her a text, let her know she can call you if she needs to, but at that point its in the hands of the family member.
2. Tell her you have been fighting this as long as you had feelings & attractions to other people, but you are tired of fighting it and that you are gay.
3. Do something really fricking stupid that would make her break up with you.
4. Just cut off all communication with her. Take all the vacation time you have available & get out of dodge for that long. When you come back dont call her, go over, etc. If she comes over, lock doors, hide where she cant see you, etc and if she comes to your work, get a restraining order on her and go from there.
1.Call one of her family members, tell them the situation and that you think someone needs to be there when she gets the news. Have them text you when they arrive and this is one time its okay to break up via text so send her a text, let her know she can call you if she needs to, but at that point its in the hands of the family member.
2. Tell her you have been fighting this as long as you had feelings & attractions to other people, but you are tired of fighting it and that you are gay.
3. Do something really fricking stupid that would make her break up with you.
4. Just cut off all communication with her. Take all the vacation time you have available & get out of dodge for that long. When you come back dont call her, go over, etc. If she comes over, lock doors, hide where she cant see you, etc and if she comes to your work, get a restraining order on her and go from there.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:58 pm to Hawkeye95
Your friend is 40. I imagine he has a job, growing corn or whatever the hell y'all do up there. A man with a job can find a decent woman.
Have him break up with her, then hand her a steak knife on his way out the door.
Her crazy level is so high that she must be almost unicorn level in the bedroom. You may want to hit it right after he dumps her. It may change your life.
Have him break up with her, then hand her a steak knife on his way out the door.
Her crazy level is so high that she must be almost unicorn level in the bedroom. You may want to hit it right after he dumps her. It may change your life.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 1:59 pm to Hawkeye95
3rd page and no request for pics?
I mean...
I mean...
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let the random dude fondle her breasts and arse
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:00 pm to Hawkeye95
life insurance on her
break up with her
profit
break up with her
profit
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:02 pm to Hawkeye95
so this "friend"...hmm...you sure this isnt you?
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:17 pm to lsunurse
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On the plus side....having that downward spiral friend in your life just makes you feel that much better about your life
YES! He and I had very similar childhoods (shitty) but my life is pretty awesome and his is all sorts of suck.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:18 pm to GeauxGoose
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He needs to get out quickly before she stabs him!
This...if she is considering suicide...she is probably considering murder/suicide, too.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:20 pm to Hawkeye95
Let her kill herself, it just affirms her craziness. Win win
Posted on 11/2/15 at 2:24 pm to Jake88
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Tell him he has to get her to break up with him. He has to become repulsive when around her.
Exactly...next party, tell him to go Dane Cook and go shite on the coats (making sure to put something special in the pocket of hers).
Posted on 11/2/15 at 3:05 pm to Hawkeye95
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they broke up 2 years ago and she stabbed herself in front of him.
Was it a real stab or a bull shite flesh wound for attention? Either way, I would have broke up with her anyway because scars are gross.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 3:17 pm to Hawkeye95
Break up with her on the phone.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 3:19 pm to Hawkeye95
My method was simple but the OT disapproves. Walk away.
No goodbye. No closure.
Just disappear.
No goodbye. No closure.
Just disappear.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 3:24 pm to X123F45
I don't disapprove.
I've done that quite a few times and haven't looked back.
I've done that quite a few times and haven't looked back.
Posted on 11/2/15 at 3:27 pm to SEClint
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I've done that quite a few times and haven't looked back.
And how many of those end up killing themselves? Or do you even check? You heartless bastard.
ETA I don't do typing words good
This post was edited on 11/2/15 at 3:29 pm
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