re: Need advice about a situation with my gf

It's been 3 months and she doesn't see you as a long term partner.

It's disrespectful.

I've had females tell me they weren't interested when I had an actual friend I'd never done more than hug staying in my house for a few months while she transitioned out of the corps.

If she doesn't respect you after 3 months then she doesn't see you lasting 3 years

On the bright side at least she told you.

Maybe it's a test to see how you react.

You should never micro manage or completely control anyone, but you also don't want a woman that won't listen and judges you when you tell her you have a real issue with something.

Maybe you're just in her life to teach her this lesson that the shite's not okay and it will save her next relationship when she wises up.

Don't bitch out.

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When you start paying her rent then you can tell her who she can have stay in her place.

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A guy with 2 posts here asking for advice? I’ll pass

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Lurker lives matter.

Become scarce. If y’all normally contact each other in equal proportions, let her contact you 3/4 of the time. If she doesn’t, radio silence until she does. This is like pulling a shrimp away from a redfish - they usually snap at it. In short, make her insecure about your affections.

Threesome with her and her roommate. If she's not down, dump her arse.

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I told her it would be a dealbreaker. She fussed for an hour or so until she realized she could still get double teamed at their hotel, then got over it 

we dated for about 10 months

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You're a bigger man than me.

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Run fast. Run hard. Run deep. Run.

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Yeah, this is the best advice. Even if she agreed to tell this guy to find another place to stay, the fact that she was going to allow it in the first place is a major red flag. Just be glad your finding this out about her boundaries after 3 months and not after 3 years.

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My girlfriend (no pics) and I have been together for a few months and today she told me that an old friend from college is going to be staying with her and her roommate at their place for the next few months because he’s going to be in town for work. I was a little taken aback at first, but then when I asked her more about this guy, she tells me that they did hook up several years back in college, but it was only once. I feel very uncomfortable about the entire situation and I want to know what y’all think I should do or what would be the best way to handle this. I wish this was a troll

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This is highly disrespectful. This relationship may be too far gone because she had to have done smaller disrespectful things to get to this point. Women that are heads over heels in love with you don't do this shite. You should feel uncomfortable.

If you feign that you're ok with this she'll see right through it. If you get angry about it then you're jealous and emotional, and she'll probably still let him stay there to get a rise out of you. Tough spot.

I would calmly disapprove, pull back on communication and begin examining your other options.

I haven’t read all the responses. Does he have a girlfriend? Not that it matters one way or another since he will still frick your gf, but just out of curiosity.