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My younger cousin has a baby and is feeling the pressure to commit.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 6:54 pm
Posted on 12/23/17 at 6:54 pm
I told him:
"Just because you are having a kid by her doesn't necessarily mean you HAVE to be with her"
His mother overheard me and to her chagrin said:
"Don't tell my son that nonsense"
I said if he feels like he's going to be miserable getting tied down to someone he really doesn't have feelings for, it's only going to lead to disaster....for all three of them.
Right or wrong here?
I've been through the shotgun commitment thing before, and it's dreadful.
"Just because you are having a kid by her doesn't necessarily mean you HAVE to be with her"
His mother overheard me and to her chagrin said:
"Don't tell my son that nonsense"
I said if he feels like he's going to be miserable getting tied down to someone he really doesn't have feelings for, it's only going to lead to disaster....for all three of them.
Right or wrong here?
I've been through the shotgun commitment thing before, and it's dreadful.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 6:55 pm to Tarik One
Marry her until the kid is 18.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 6:55 pm to Tarik One
Doesn’t really matter. They are already forever connected because of the child.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 6:56 pm to Tarik One
He sounds like a real winner. Should try and plant his seed as many places as possible
Posted on 12/23/17 at 6:56 pm to Tarik One
quote:this is why western civilization will fall
"Just because you are having a kid by her doesn't necessarily mean you HAVE to be with her"
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:02 pm to Tarik One
You are a pussy and are giving little bitch advice. It’s time for your cousin to man up. You should try it some time
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:09 pm to Tarik One
Since this sounds like a Trailer Park Boys episode, give the kid this advice
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:12 pm to Tarik One
It's a tough situation. No right answer. This is why the rule since time immemorial was you wait until after marriage to fornicate. But the baby boomers knew better and now look at the world they've made.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:13 pm to Tarik One
I wish every set of parents stayed together, but reality is divorce is through the roof.
If you avoid future divorce, i say do so.
Now, he better be a man, dad, and father, however.
If you avoid future divorce, i say do so.
Now, he better be a man, dad, and father, however.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:19 pm to Tarik One
Why in the hell would he get a chick he doesn't really care for pregnant? He's probably lying to you bc she is probably ugly, even to y'alls trailer park standard. So, to try and seem "cool" to you, he tells you he really doesn't have feelings for her. However, he knows he really loves the ugly chick, but just can't bring himself to admit it to you.
Damn your cousin is a dumbass duck.
Damn your cousin is a dumbass duck.
This post was edited on 12/23/17 at 7:24 pm
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:20 pm to Tarik One
Don't ever get married. That shite is for simps. The feminist courts will rape his dumb arse the second she gets bored and wants out.
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:21 pm to Tarik One
This has to be a troll, right?
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:24 pm to saint tiger225
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Why in the hell would he get a chick he doesn't really care for pregnant?
Where did OP say the doofus did not care for the baby mama?
Posted on 12/23/17 at 7:26 pm to Hangit
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Where did OP say the doofus did not care for the baby mama?
quote:
if he feels like he's going to be miserable getting tied down to someone he really doesn't have feelings for
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