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re: My wife wants me to get a vasectomy…

Posted on 10/30/21 at 10:03 am to
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20543 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 10:03 am to
You have 3 kids. How many more do you want? I say it's a no brainer.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
13531 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 10:20 am to
Your body, her choice
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21639 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 10:37 am to
I got snipped because I felt I didn’t want to have any more chirruns with her or anyone else. We talked about it and figured why make her take the pills much longer. Done, kaput, no overtime for me.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
136379 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 10:39 am to
She wants to have more kids, but not yours?
Posted by YeauxGurt
Daigoba
Member since Dec 2011
281 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 11:08 am to
I was in the same position as you. 3 kids, wife "libido" issues. Got the snip. Divorced a few years later. Your marriage issues aren't because of birth control. I remember thinking "what was the point of the vasectomy if we're still not having sex often?"
I will say since the divorce, that the vasectomy has become very convenient.
Posted by LoneStarRanger
Texas/Europe
Member since Aug 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 11:17 am to
Vasectomy is a form of emasculation
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
89142 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 11:22 am to
More like a form of freedom
Posted by LoneStarRanger
Texas/Europe
Member since Aug 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 11:25 am to
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Never slap God in the face like that. I'm done having kids but I ain't fricking with what he gave me. Just one man's opinion. Also 3 kids ain't shite.


Most of the betas here were raised by MTV

Deep down, they know they are lesser men. Snipping their junk. Having few children. A man procreates. It’s in our nature.

Deep down they know, but they are embarrassed and angry, so come here to try and save face
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
26190 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 12:04 pm to
It’s pretty simple: I don’t want to have any more kids and I don’t want to use contraceptives forever. This board is very immature at times.
Posted by MiloDanglers
on a dock on a bay
Member since Apr 2012
6558 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 12:36 pm to
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For some reason women think they hold the lock and key to sex. The best way to resolve this is to remind her that she doesn't. If she wants to withold sex, return the favor by witholding emotional comfort and your presence. You don't have to step out on them or even pretend to, just spend your time doing other things and away from the house. Her mind will do the rest and she'll realize she's being unreasonable and drop her aggression and start being nice.


Or, your marriage will die. Its a legit strategy, but its a true “shite or get off the pot”. You better be prepared for either outcome, because it will only be one or the other.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
55097 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 12:47 pm to
Second marriage - my tubes are tied and he had a vasectomy (both before we got together) super convenient

We just had our first grandchild so we will be grandparents together
Posted by ANewFlame
Member since Jan 2018
216 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 12:59 pm to
I'd hold off. I know cases where the wife needed a hysterectomy soon after the dude took the snip. Wait her out.
Posted by ducktale
Member since Sep 2021
1531 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 1:58 pm to
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In before pweefs arrive and talk about how great their vasectomies were.


Nope, it sucked. One of the worst decisions of my life. Recovery was five times longer than told. And the worst pain you will ever know experience as a man is your ball hair growing back out.
Posted by LoneStarRanger
Texas/Europe
Member since Aug 2018
2404 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 1:59 pm to
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Or, your marriage will die. Its a legit strategy, but its a true “ shite or get off the pot”. You better be prepared for either outcome, because it will only be one or the other.


Because you decided to not wear the pants. You didn’t set ground rules. You became the submissive.
Posted by 62Tigerfan
Member since Sep 2015
5374 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 2:02 pm to
quote:

A vasectomy is a quick 20 minute office procedure.



This baw can do it in 5 seconds. And he rarely snips off the wrong parts.
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 2:08 pm to
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Because Jody is clapping them cheeks on the side


Jody got snipped years ago
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
18863 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 2:11 pm to
Just pull out. It's never steered me wrong.
Posted by ESKFreedom
Member since Aug 2021
152 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 2:14 pm to
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Tell her to tie her tubes. Her baby maker, her incision.


That's what I did.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84369 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 2:45 pm to
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83258 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 2:48 pm to
I got a vasectomy. No noticeable difference in taste.
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