re: My wife lied about her evening with a famous athlete

Were you shocked when junior started dunking in 6th grade?

She's a woman so it was probably some random dude who was lying out of his arse and your wife fell for it

It sounds like you should talk to your wife, because the lack of information has caused you to imagine the worst. Be very honest with her about how you discovered these messages. Tell her exactly what you read and why it’s making you doubt what you have with her.

Then listen. I’m sure she’ll have something to say. If she writes this off as a decision she made long ago, please remind her that it’s new to you. It makes sense for you to be on your own schedule with this.

I can’t tell you what she’ll say or how you’ll feel about it. All I know is that one lie doesn’t mean you’re living a lie. It’s possible she very much regrets the experience. But even if she doesn’t, what matters is that she’s been more than capable of loving and committing to you since that party.

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It sounds like you should talk to your wife, because the lack of information has caused you to imagine the worst. Be very honest with her about how you discovered these messages. Tell her exactly what you read and why it’s making you doubt what you have with her.

Then listen. I’m sure she’ll have something to say. If she writes this off as a decision she made long ago, please remind her that it’s new to you. It makes sense for you to be on your own schedule with this.

I can’t tell you what she’ll say or how you’ll feel about it. All I know is that one lie doesn’t mean you’re living a lie. It’s possible she very much regrets the experience. But even if she doesn’t, what matters is that she’s been more than capable of loving and committing to you since that party.

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don't listen to a word of this. I'd go DM the athletes' ole lady and try to bang her.

Thank you for providing some sensible advice

Who cares. It's in the past. Get over it and keep living your life.

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It doesn’t seem like they had sex,

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She still has the stained panties tucked in a safe place somewhere.

Good lawd how many marriages have been wrecked by Facebook?!?
The American Divorce Lawyers Association couldn't have dreamed a better scam to boost their business.

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I can’t tell you what she’ll say or how you’ll feel about it. All I know is that one lie doesn’t mean you’re living a lie. It’s possible she very much regrets the experience. But even if she doesn’t, what matters is that she’s been more than capable of loving and committing to you since that party.

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if she hid that away in an emotional safe, what else might she be capable of keeping from him?

in that conversation, he needs to ask her if there is anything else that cuck boi needs to know