re: My Wife Cheated on Me

Posted by A Menace to Sobriety

Member since Jun 2018

32004 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:29 am to speckledtrout82

Send me her pics and number and then I can get this situation under control.

Posted by TDsngumbo

Member since Oct 2011

48840 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:29 am to speckledtrout82

Get proof before you let her know. Without proof you have no leverage in the divorce proceedings.

Posted by Bistineaubengal

Member since Aug 2008

839 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:29 am to speckledtrout82

Paging Tchoupitoulas Tiger

Posted by 777Tiger

Member since Mar 2011

88075 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:30 am to A Menace to Sobriety

quote:
Send me her pics and number and then I can get this situation under control.

haven't you done enough already Jody?

Posted by martiansgohome

Ankara

Member since Feb 2004

4679 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:31 am to Fun Bunch

I'd add one thing:

Find a therapist. Ole girl is likely to gaslight the f out of you when she gets exposed. An objective third party may really help you ride that out and shorten the time you need to move past it all.

Posted by charminultra

Member since Jan 2020

2779 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:34 am to speckledtrout82

why did you make this thread with 0 context. how long ya been married? how many kids? how long has this been going on? seems like a troll with no context

Posted by tigergirl10

Member since Jul 2019

10669 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:34 am to speckledtrout82

Take all the money out of your joint accounts. Hire a top lawyer. Find someone better. Very sorry this happened to you. She is trash.

Posted by Masterag

'Round Dallas

Member since Sep 2014

19899 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:36 am to speckledtrout82

quote:
My wife just cheated on me with one of her co-workers. She doesn't know that I know. How do I approach this situation to get her arse?

research and interview lawyers to find someone who your values align with that can get results for you. document as much as you can and don't do anything that suddenly makes her out to be the good guy. you have the moral high ground, keep it. and keep your dignity.

Posted by RoyalWe

Prairieville, LA

Member since Mar 2018

4228 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:37 am to speckledtrout82

Why in the hell did I read this thread if you're not going to provide any additional information real or not? Conclusion: bullshite.

Posted by GeauxxxTigers23

TeamBunt General Manager

Member since Apr 2013

62514 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:38 am to MorbidTheClown

quote:
yeah, that's where the troll fell of the bridge.

Him jumping the shark so early ruined my afternoon fun and I’m mad about it.

Posted by caro81

Member since Jul 2017

5987 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:39 am to speckledtrout82

Posted by Breauxsif

Member since May 2012

22291 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:40 am to speckledtrout82

6 pages deep already and it’s only been 34 mins

Posted by jchamil

Member since Nov 2009

18742 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:40 am to charminultra

quote:
why did you make this thread with 0 context.

Never mind, you answered yourself

quote:
seems like a troll with no context

Posted by BeachDude022

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Member since Dec 2006

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Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:43 am to speckledtrout82

Clean out all bank accounts, then file for divorce.

Posted by PhillyTiger90

Member since Dec 2015

11607 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:45 am to speckledtrout82

Try to get screenshots and lawyer up baw

Posted by WhoDatNC

Member since Dec 2013

13885 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:45 am to speckledtrout82

You know the rules here.

Posted by felps22

Youngsville

Member since Aug 2011

474 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:46 am to speckledtrout82

ruin her credit and bounce

Posted by 3nOut

I don't really care, Margaret

Member since Jan 2013

31717 posts

Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:52 am to Fun Bunch

quote:
Adultery doesn't give you as much as you think in a divorce in most states. Basically just a quicker divorce and possibly not having to pay any alimony.

a (former) friend of mine just got divorced. cheated on his wife 4-5 times. bought 2 of the girls cars. spent $20k on a vacation with one of the side pieces. bought a BMW in the middle of the divorce. all of this was presented during their mediation.

dude got the house, extended custody, and 50% of their business (has to buy her out of the rest.) He did get raped in child support though, so i'm happy about that.

normally i'm all about the dude getting fair process in these but i was shocked.

i think his wife just gave up and wanted it over.