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re: My Wife Cheated on Me
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:16 am to speckledtrout82
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:16 am to speckledtrout82
Guess your interests of women and titties finally caught up to you.
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Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:16 am to speckledtrout82
Never happened.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:16 am to speckledtrout82
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speckledtrout82
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wish I was lying man.
So how did you find out about it?
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:17 am to 777Tiger
quote:It definitely doesn’t provide the leverage it once did, but it can provide some leverage and can influence the decision maker even where the law doesn’t really say it should.
I think this is a troll, but depending on the state, adultery doesn't really matter when it comes to dissolution, old baw is still in for a rough ride financially
Having provided that caveat, you are correct.
This post was edited on 3/22/22 at 11:18 am
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:17 am to speckledtrout82
get with the other parties spouse or significant other.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:18 am to Oates Mustache
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So how did you find out about it?
She began losing interest in me and showing me less and less attention. She had been texting an unsaved number about hooking up and stuff. Still unsure if she was cheating on me with a dude or a chick
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:18 am to speckledtrout82
What did you do to make her cheat?
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:18 am to speckledtrout82
Don’t say a word. Act as normal as you can in a tough situation. Still show her love and frick the hell out of her. All the while gathering info. Securing assets. Such as selling everything you can and liquidating if possible. Flip it into cold hard cash that can’t be tracked. Pictures, proof. Lawyer up then drop the Bomb when you are ready.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:18 am to Deep Purple Haze
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:19 am to speckledtrout82
Start stashing cash. Not in accounts, but actual cash
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:19 am to speckledtrout82
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Still unsure if she was cheating on me with a dude or a chick
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:19 am to speckledtrout82
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My Wife Cheated on Me
Garcia strikes again.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:19 am to 777Tiger
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but depending on the state, adultery doesn't really matter when it comes to dissolution, old baw is still in for a rough ride financially
Makes sense. Declare you want a divorce. Save the money on a PI. She going to get half of the assets anyway. Makes sense 777
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:20 am to FnTigers
quote:Yup.
In
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:20 am to Mouth
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Hold tight for a bit and start collecting and saving evidence. You’re gonna need it in court.
No. No you're not. Louisiana is a no-fault state. They don't give a shite the reason you're divorcing.
1. Identify all threats to your future after the marriage
This should include child visitation, who gets the house, can your wife rack up debt on you before you exit.
2. I hope you are the primary account holder on all CC cards. If so, deactivate them PRIOR to confronting her. Watch you CC debt closely
3. If you can, run a credit report on her. You want to check for hidden financial issues that you can place squarely on her
4. Understand NOW that if you have kids you will likely have 50/50. UNDERSTAND YOUR INVOLVEMENT IN YOUR KIDS LIVES. If you are the primary care giver, fight for domiciliary. If not then at least fight for neither of you to be the dom. It makes a BIG difference with school districts.
5. Accept the fact that you will not be able to control how she handles things post-marriage. She will piss you off with how she handles the kids, the stories she tells them, and how she will blame you for her cheating. YOU WILL BE THE VILLAIN TO HER AND ALL THOSE SHE ENCOUNTERS.
Accept it and know that in the end, she has no sway on what happens in your life. It is actually liberating once you realize this and makes for a much more positive experience for you
MOST IMPORTANT...FILE FOR SEPARATION AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE TO SEVER FINANCIAL TIES TO HER
This post was edited on 3/22/22 at 11:22 am
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:20 am to speckledtrout82
Yep. You've come to the right place for insightful analysis and advice.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:20 am to speckledtrout82
quote:
Still unsure if she was cheating on me with a dude or a chick
well, that's a bit of info you might want to find out before you overreact.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:20 am to WDE24
quote:Proof of adultery allows for immediate divorce instead of the waiting periods of 180 days(no kids) or 365(kids).
It definitely doesn’t provide the leverage it once did, but it can provide some leverage and can influence the decision maker even where the law doesn’t really say it should.
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:20 am to Sus-Scrofa
Are you the wife?
Posted on 3/22/22 at 11:21 am to speckledtrout82
I will approach this as if its real:
1) Act like nothing is wrong.
2) Hire a PI get as much evidence as possible to be able to prove it.
3) Consult with as many attorneys as possible, especially if you live in a smaller town. Any attorney you consult with won't be able to be hired by her...generally speaking.
4) Hire an attorney.
5) Monitor and protect assets as much as you can. You don't want her wiping out bank accounts or accumulating debt in both your names.
6) You'll want to get separated as quickly as possible to protect yourself, so don't drag this process out.
Adultery doesn't give you as much as you think in a divorce in most states. Basically just a quicker divorce and possibly not having to pay any alimony.
1) Act like nothing is wrong.
2) Hire a PI get as much evidence as possible to be able to prove it.
3) Consult with as many attorneys as possible, especially if you live in a smaller town. Any attorney you consult with won't be able to be hired by her...generally speaking.
4) Hire an attorney.
5) Monitor and protect assets as much as you can. You don't want her wiping out bank accounts or accumulating debt in both your names.
6) You'll want to get separated as quickly as possible to protect yourself, so don't drag this process out.
Adultery doesn't give you as much as you think in a divorce in most states. Basically just a quicker divorce and possibly not having to pay any alimony.
This post was edited on 3/22/22 at 11:22 am
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