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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice

Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:24 pm to
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
37531 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:24 pm to
Posted by scott8811
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
12363 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:25 pm to
general OT advice is PIIHB, but it seems a bit late for that
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:25 pm to
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I think he and you both are pieces of shite for trying to avoid taking care of the children he created.



how the frick am I a part of it? He lives with his real dad in an entirely different state. I offered the advice I could: I told him his best option is to keep going to school, provide for the kids, and be part of their lives. I did tell him that I did NOT recommend him getting married to a woman he's not in love with. He asked for some other suggestions, so I came to what I felt it is the best place: the OT.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
39773 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:26 pm to
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Girl from Texas, young, has a kid, now knocked up with twins.. She's Mexican right?


It’s Texas State. Of course
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13595 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:26 pm to
Friend,

He would say, “Marry the mother of your children before they are born bastards. Then be sure to have them baptized as soon as possible. There is a natural order for love, marriage, and children. Outside that order, all falls apart, but there is forgiveness in the waters of baptism.”

Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
39773 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:27 pm to
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Couldn't just spend the $50 on Plan B?


Probably bad for the other baby’s breast milk
Posted by Polycarp
Texas
Member since Feb 2009
5670 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:28 pm to
Is he %100 sure they are his? ask for a paternity test, why not?
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
8243 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:28 pm to
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has about 1.5 years left until he graduates.


Whats his major?
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20123 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:28 pm to
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I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support


quote:

He is considering maybe joining the Navy once he graduates.



Yeah that’s not gonna work out like he’s thinking.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm
Posted by slinger1317
Northshore
Member since Sep 2005
6524 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:28 pm to
She needs to take a paternity test. If the kids are his, he needs to man up and support them. I wouldn't advise him to marry the girl just to save face. He can still help raise & support them and not be married to her.
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
58313 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm to
What advice are you looking to get? The advice should have been to wear a condom and not date a women with one kid already
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm to
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Girl from Texas, young, has a kid, now knocked up with twins.. She's Mexican right?



Puerto Rican I think?
Posted by Spawn
Berlin
Member since Oct 2006
7815 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm to
Kenny Chesney - There Goes My Life

Show him this it will make him feel better...

or maybe not.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
171659 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm to
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Puerto Rican I think?


That counts
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
39773 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:29 pm to
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all honesty, there's a decent chance they arent his as I doubt a frick buddy who let's him raw dog it probably isnt exclusively sleeping with him. Absolutely get a paternity test before anything horns


From what OP has said in this thread it sounds like he thought he had a frick buddy and she thought she had a life partner.
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30859 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:30 pm to
He needs to find out if the kids are his. They can do genetic testing during pregnancy to see if the twins have any health issues. He also can find out the sex and if he is the father. Exciting!
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 2:31 pm
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:30 pm to
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Puerto Rican I think?



Well...he definitely has some fights and arguments ahead of him no matter.
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:31 pm to
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unless he gives up parental rights


from what I understand, he can't do that unless another man is willing to step up and adopt or claim responsibility
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
70266 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:31 pm to
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Puerto Rican I think?


This should have been disclosed in the very first post. This changes so much of the advice you've been given so far.
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
148054 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:32 pm to
Thank you for your words

Warm regards,
WCA
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