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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 4:22 pm to Kcprogguitar
She's been hysterical over the whole thing, mainly because she can't believe his stupidity. We've always told him to wear protection, and we've even given him boxes of condoms. His response was, "She said she was on the pill" :banghead:
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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 4:16 pm to Buck Magnum
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He needs to get a job
he has a job at a health club
re: Anyone got a good “off the wall” ice cream recipe?
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 4:14 pm to theantiquetiger
Robins in Henderson used to have a Tabasco ice cream :dunno:
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 4:12 pm to MillerLiteTime
Just got off the phone w/ him. I asked him what his primary motive is, and he basically told me that he doesn't want any kids and is looking for a way to avoid paying child support. He asked about the military because he was hoping that they'd cover the child support. His biggest concern is that once his grandparents find out about it, they are going to cut him off financially because an unplanned pregnancy isn't part of their "plan" for him. I told him that if that's the route he wants to take, I can't help him anymore.
re: I was raised on Steens Cane Syrup. This not a routine LA thing?
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 3:38 pm to DiamondDog
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This is the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard.
there are a few places (Teets comes to mind) that make fresh sausage using Steen's... it's awesome
re: I was raised on Steens Cane Syrup. This not a routine LA thing?
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 3:37 pm to fightin tigers
I'm not a beer drinker... is there any faint taste of Steen's?
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 3:36 pm to MojoGuyPan
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He likes her, he likes the sex with her, now she's the mother of his kids. Love will come as they start their family and raise their kids.
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Being in-love is over rated fantasy crap
and lots of people get married for this exact reason, and end up divorced. Love isn't a guarantee just because you're married and raising children together. I don't recommend marriage to anyone unless they're 100% that it's the person they want to spend the rest of their life with.
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 3:33 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
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Your step-son )and you) sound like a piece of work. The point to decide if you want to be part of a kids life is BEFORE you have sex, not after.
as stated prior, I have nothing to do w/ it. My responsibility was to take care of him and to help raise him when his real father didn't step up to the plate. I've fulfilled by responsibilities. He's a grown man now and needs to make his own decisions and learn from his mistakes. All I can do is provide advice/suggestions, which is what I've done.
Friend,
That's all great, but marriage can't survive without love. If he has no genuine love for the girl, the marriage is destined to fail.
As Always,
Samson
That's all great, but marriage can't survive without love. If he has no genuine love for the girl, the marriage is destined to fail.
As Always,
Samson
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Adoption? Probably not likely if she already has a child. Does she work and could she keep her job having to take care of 3 children?
I think she's also in school. She's more than happy and has no shame getting government assistance, WIC, etc. To make things even trashier (if that's possible), the father of her first child is incarcerated.
no clue. Considering his dad did the same thing to him, I'm sure he is the one who has been planting the seeds of "how can we get you out of this" and "how can we avoid paying child support" :casty:
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 2:57 pm to Oilfieldbiology
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Yet he chose to go live with him?
his dad's parents are the ones with all the $. They pay for his school, apartment, etc.
he's already requested a paternity test.
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It's no wonder he is the way he is. I realize he's not your biological son, but FFS "being a part of his own kids' lives" really shouldn't be viewed as a decision.
I'm just going by what he told me. I can't force him to do what's right; I can only offer advice. Heck, 90% of the kids I teach come from single-parent families with no father figure.
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the answer for any stepson's problem is to bang his Stepmom
he doesn't have one
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 2:48 pm to slinger1317
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She needs to take a paternity test. If the kids are his, he needs to man up and support them. I wouldn't advise him to marry the girl just to save face. He can still help raise & support them and not be married to her.
My thoughts 100%
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Is the GF hot?
Sadly, no. That's another shocking thing. My stepson is a good-looking kid, into fitness, eating right, working out. He's built, six pack, all that. But he sets his standards very low when it comes to females. I mean this chick is OK, but certainly nothing special.
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 2:42 pm to terd ferguson
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Sounds like whoever raised him did a pretty shitty job if he's trying to get out of taking responsibility for nutting in some chick.
Ironically, his dad did the same thing to him. Left my wife (never married her) and just paid child support. Saw him maybe once or twice a year when he came to Louisiana to visit his own parents. His real dad sucks.
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They deserve to have a father figure present and monetary support. He should do the right thing and do both.
which is precisely what I told him. That said, I don't feel that him marrying the girl is a necessity.
re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted by Samson on 4/24/20 at 2:38 pm to Tiger Prawn
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99% chance your stepson wasn't the only guy she was frick buddies with.
well like I said, she views their relationship as much more serious than he does. He tells her he loves her though so he really has nobody to blame but himself for the hole he's dug for himself.
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