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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice

Posted on 4/25/20 at 5:49 am to
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 5:49 am to
quote:

He could pull a Rae Carruth.


God damn I remember that case.... dude rolled out of his trunk trying to hid from the cops.
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
38270 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 6:16 am to
quote:

now he's on the hook for the next 18 years


In most states, he's potentially on the hook For longer than that if they go to college.

quote:

He made a dumb mistake not wearing protection with a girl who is basically a frick buddy


He should request a paternity test and if he's the dad, well, this is the risk you take.

Posted by Chef Free Gold Bloom
Wherever I’m needed
Member since Dec 2019
1364 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 6:37 am to
quote:

Advice/suggestions?


Grow up and care for the children you just decided to have?
This post was edited on 4/25/20 at 6:39 am
Posted by LSUandAU
Key West, FL & Malibu (L.A.), CA
Member since Apr 2009
5131 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 7:10 am to
Stay with her through the pregnancy and birth.

Have a paternity test.

If you're the father, either stay with her or live nearby to ensure good split custody arrangement and that they're ok.

Get a fulltime job to support them and finish school part time and/or at night.

Committ to ensuring they always get what they need.

Grow-up and be a man. These kids will need stability...they will need you to have a chance...you will never regret loving them and raising them.
This post was edited on 4/25/20 at 7:13 am
Posted by DrunkerThanThou
Unfortunately Mississippi
Member since Feb 2013
2846 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 7:23 am to
Med school in Shreveport or New Orleans?
Posted by BlindTiger7
Houston
Member since Sep 2016
2804 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 7:50 am to
quote:

He just found out that his girlfriend (who he's not in love with



Lol he's in for a long 18 years

Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 11:19 am to
So have you forwarded these great thoughts to your stepson yet?
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 11:24 am to
quote:

So have you forwarded these great thoughts to your stepson yet?


I just rigged up an RSS feed for my kids, that pushes this shite to their phones. Oldest even gets it in her car. Android Auto. It's like getting Amber Alerts, but for trashiness instead of kidnapping.
Posted by Thewingnut323
Baton rouge
Member since Oct 2018
66 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 11:25 am to
He is 21 and doesn't know how kids are made. How dumb is this kid?

quote:

OK, so my stepson (21) is a student at Texas State


Never mind I got the picture.
Posted by Menji
Las Vegas
Member since Jan 2009
668 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 11:26 am to
quote:

The child graduated LSU last year, was a golden girl, and is headed to med school. I regret not fighting for parental rights.


Protocol violation. Pics needed.
This post was edited on 4/25/20 at 11:27 am
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144688 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 11:29 am to
quote:

my stepson
step kids are trashy

quote:

way to not have to pay child support
trashy
Posted by Chef Free Gold Bloom
Wherever I’m needed
Member since Dec 2019
1364 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 12:34 pm to
quote:

She turned out to be fine.


Hope he doesn’t have any genetic tendencies
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
62959 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 12:38 pm to
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She felt it best to go back to her husband and tel him the child was his.



Well that's pretty fricking shitty on her part.
Posted by SeeeeK
some where
Member since Sep 2012
29160 posts
Posted on 4/25/20 at 12:42 pm to
quote:

So, what are some options?


He is fricked
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
51486 posts
Posted on 4/26/20 at 2:34 pm to
Bump because we need updates on this situation.

Pics of girl, too. You never know. Some guy might find her to be attractive and worth contacting.

Posting pics and updates could actually get your stepson out of this situation.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 4/26/20 at 3:22 pm to
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Pics of girl, too. You never know. Some guy might find her to be attractive



The OT jury, if we could just put eyes on her, would make this the one and only determination.
Posted by LSUandAU
Key West, FL & Malibu (L.A.), CA
Member since Apr 2009
5131 posts
Posted on 10/9/21 at 11:27 am to
Update?
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 10/9/21 at 11:28 am to
Why would he join the Navy? Do they pay for all of your kids shite or something?
This post was edited on 10/9/21 at 11:30 am
Posted by kengel2
Team Gun
Member since Mar 2004
32900 posts
Posted on 10/9/21 at 11:29 am to
I hope he got a paternity test.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
125714 posts
Posted on 10/9/21 at 11:35 am to
Nice bump
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