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re: My friend is very bitter about the lack of sex in his marriage

Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:51 am to
Posted by tbabino
Member since Aug 2014
1537 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:51 am to
betcha bottom dollar she has just flat out fallen out of love with him. same thing happened to me. virtually hopeless situation.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:51 am to
Sex doesn’t stop after marriage. It slows down after kids though.
Posted by Golden Goose
Member since Jan 2020
57 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:51 am to
I would just start playing around on her.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
19192 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:54 am to
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Probably some underlying communication issue, or they simply arent right for each other. The no sex, is simply a symptom of something bigger.


Exactly correct. I have a friend in the same boat but he is too scared of being alone to realize that once his kids are grown, he and his spouse will have absolutely nothing in common with each other. Zero communication and sex on the installment plan.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68469 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:54 am to
I just laugh at the people who say "I don't know why she cheated on me!" or "She's just frigid and doesn't put out anymore!"

All the while they forget they have gained 40 pounds, stopped taking her out to dinner and watch football every Saturday and Sunday instead of taking a few hours to spend time with her.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15408 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:54 am to
They have two children, the youngest is 3, and both work.
Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:54 am to
As Ron White would say:

I am a pretty good dog, but if you don't pet every once in a while it is hard to keep me on the porch.
This post was edited on 1/21/20 at 9:24 am
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
19192 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:54 am to
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I just laugh at the people who say "I don't know why she cheated on me!" or "She's just frigid and doesn't put out anymore!" All the while they forget they have gained 40 pounds, stopped taking her out to dinner and watch football every Saturday and Sunday instead of taking a few hours to spend time with her.


Some are like that, that's true. It isn't all though.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68469 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:55 am to
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It slows down after kids though.
I can understand this to a degree because you both are so exhausted from taking care of the kids at the end of the day that you just have no energy. But it should never completely stop or be just a few times a month. If it gets to that point, it's an issue
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68469 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:56 am to
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Some are like that, that's true. It isn't all though.
Yeah I didn't mean to speak in absolutes because some people just cheat because they are terrible people.
Posted by Landmass
Member since Jun 2013
18067 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:56 am to
Maybe he should start fricking her.
Posted by Golden Goose
Member since Jan 2020
57 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:56 am to
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All the while they forget they have gained 40 pounds

To match the 60 pounds and flabby tits she has put on?
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
15779 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:57 am to
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they have gained 40 pounds


I've gained 40 lbs of muscle.

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stopped taking her out to dinner


I did, because i cook romantic meals for her.

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watch football every Saturday and Sunday


We watch football together, its actually her that likes it more than me.

Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68469 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:57 am to
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To match the 60 pounds and flabby tits she has put on?

It goes both ways.
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
19192 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:59 am to
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Yeah I didn't mean to speak in absolutes because some people just cheat because they are terrible people.


True and some don't satisfy their spouse because they have either fallen out of love with them or simply don't care about them.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15408 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:00 am to
Both my friend and his wife as very fit. Neither has let themselves go over the years. He claims she sabotages their sex life, by doing shite like cleaning the house at 8:00 at night, then claiming she's exhausted and has the all to familiar headache.
Posted by Spitcup
Irredeemable POS
Member since Nov 2019
265 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:01 am to
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and both work.


Who’s her side dick at work?
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10181 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:02 am to
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The no sex, is simply a symptom of something bigger.


Oh there’s sex happening, but it ain’t him she’s fricking.
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:03 am to
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Yeah, theyre toast.

Probably some underlying communication issue, or they simply arent right for each other.

The no sex, is simply a symptom of something bigger
all this
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20352 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:05 am to
Tell your, um, "friend" that the lack of sex for him means she is getting the BBC on the side.

Sorry, baw.

I mean, sorry for your friend, baw.
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