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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:19 am to GeauxxxTigers23
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:19 am to GeauxxxTigers23
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How old is your daughter?
He doesn’t have a daughter.
He has a cheating whore for a girlfriend who is wielding her daughter as a noose to try and trap him.
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:19 am to GEAUXmedic
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This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 6:21 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:20 am to GEAUXmedic
My first wife waited till after we were married. Feel blessed it happened before.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:21 am to fr33manator
quote:This is so correct, yet impossible to understand at this point for the OP. 5 years from now, he'll be saying "Oh... now I see what they were talking about". Happens to the best of us.
You can let this be a millstone around your neck and have it drown you,
Or cast it into the sea and sail on to a port you can call home.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:21 am to GEAUXmedic
A buddy I worked with years ago had this happen to him. He fricked her in the butt and made her get on her knees in the front yard and scream “I’m a filthy cheating slut” before he let her back in.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:21 am to YNWA
There's a ton of coulda woulda shoulda, lessons learned. But what matters is the situation now. Our daughter comes first. I get everything y'all are saying, if I was younger I might be vindictive and immature enough to make a rash decision, but I have to stay mature and focused.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:22 am to YNWA
The chick was already knocked up by another guy when OP met her though. So not even his kid.
Sounds like she has been playing him from day one. Real convenient on her part to meet a guy while pregnant so you have help caring for the kid and a father on the birth certificate.
Sounds like she has been playing him from day one. Real convenient on her part to meet a guy while pregnant so you have help caring for the kid and a father on the birth certificate.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:23 am to GEAUXmedic
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Our daughter comes first.
I’m confused.
Is this your biological daughter?
Yes or no?
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:25 am to GEAUXmedic
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And I told her I forgave her, but I'm not sure why.
Forgiveness is good for you. She doesn't care whether she is forgiven or not, and whatever level of guilt she does feel will not be affected by your forgiveness. Sorry dude.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:26 am to TigahTeeth
quote:aka: Little Rock foreplay.
He fricked her in the butt and made her get on her knees in the front yard and scream “I’m a filthy cheating slut” before he let her back in.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:27 am to lsunurse
Damn its just this cheating whore’s daughter? Not his?
Man you need to completely cut ties. Its awful for the kid but its already gonna be awful for her.
Man you need to completely cut ties. Its awful for the kid but its already gonna be awful for her.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:27 am to GEAUXmedic
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But what matters is the situation now. Our daughter comes first
Dude...
I realize you don’t want to hear this. It’s harsh.
But you need to.
YOU DON’T HAVE A DAUGHTER
You have a son. Take care of him. He’s your responsibility. Not her bastard.
You have the ability to cut ties here and protects your family.
If you let her rope you in you’ll end up on the hook for whatever other bastards she spits out and she will destroy your heart even more.
I realize it will hurt but you need to take your boy and remove yourself from the situation until you are thinking straight.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:27 am to Cosmo
Should you stay, you're going to have a miserable life ahead with her. Even when she is truly nice, you won't even know if it's real or fake.
Make no mistake, she's going to cheat on you again. And if you can't handle it now, you won't be able to later.
Also, when you leave, she's going to strike back. I'd have my bases covered (money, lawyer) before you tell her so.
Make no mistake, she's going to cheat on you again. And if you can't handle it now, you won't be able to later.
Also, when you leave, she's going to strike back. I'd have my bases covered (money, lawyer) before you tell her so.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 6:28 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:27 am to lsunurse
I couldnt in a million years imagine dating a pregnant chick
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:28 am to lsunurse
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The chick was already knocked up by another guy when OP met her though. So not even his kid.
Sounds like she has been playing him from day one. Real convenient on her part to meet a guy while pregnant so you have help caring for the kid and a father on the birth certificate.
I this true? Sucks because it doesn't really matter if you've lived your life raising the child. Still going to hurt as if it's your child. But I think you have to realize this definitely is a chick you need to move on from. Complete outside perspective, so sorry to judge a serious situation, but start over and make sure you don't give crazy another chance to walk all over you. Kid is tough though no matter what the situation.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:28 am to rantfan
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I've seen a judge before tell my buddy "You put your name on the birth certificate, you're the father." No test ordered
Were they trying to force child support or give him visitation. Those scenarios are polar opposite
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:28 am to Breesus
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do not become petty or jealous or angry. The best revenge is a life well lived. Keep your head high and don't let her upset you. She'll get off on it. Be cordial and polite. Treat her like a nice stranger. Don't ever shite talk her to your daughter. Nothing will ruin your ex's life more than you staying respectful, being the bigger man, and completely moving on with your life. She'll get no vindication or justification
Well said, sir.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:28 am to GEAUXmedic
Hate to kick a man when he is down, but the her being pregnant at the time y'all got together should have been a sign. Anyways, I'll pray for you and your daughter. Beating a dead horse at this point but : if you are able to continue to see or have custody of your daughter never speak negatively about her mother. This is what will hurt the most. I've been there and even though I was a young adult, it made things very hard for me. It causes guilt and other issues when the kid is trying to enjoy time with the other parent.
Second - Attorney. Third - remove from accounts. Fourth - if you have a best friend local, go stay with him or maybe your parents. No one is ever to old to go home for a bit. Hope things get better for you Medic.
Second - Attorney. Third - remove from accounts. Fourth - if you have a best friend local, go stay with him or maybe your parents. No one is ever to old to go home for a bit. Hope things get better for you Medic.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:28 am to Cosmo
The kid is only a toddler. I’m sure the mom will have no problem lining up another guy to play father to her. She’s already suckered the OP into that role.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 6:29 am to GEAUXmedic
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my feelings are never wrong, case in point.
You need to reevaluate your life dude.
quote:
does sound crazy... I can't explain what I was feeling, but in my eyes I blindly knew she was the one.
Obviously in hindsight, that's not the truth but when youre in certain relationships and everything is portrayed as everything you ever wanted, you're blinded by love. /Cliche
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