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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:09 pm to 50_Tiger
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:09 pm to 50_Tiger
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The big question for me is why anyone in today's world would put their name on a birth certificate of a child that's not theirs?
Because they put women on a pedestal and their heads have been filled with the "man up", "be a good father", "real men do this" talk from society. You can read this tripe in other posts on this thread.
All the while, our societal and legal institutions are allied against men.
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:13 pm to GEAUXmedic
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:16 pm to Mo Jeaux
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their heads have been filled with the "man up", "be a good father", "real men do this" talk from society
You do this when it’s YOUR OFFSPRING.
You don’t pick up some dude’s leftovers.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:20 pm to fr33manator
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You do this when it’s YOUR OFFSPRING.
You don’t pick up some dude’s leftovers.
He already made that choice though.
So he should stop loving someone who hasn't done anything wrong because they don't share the same DNA?
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:21 pm to fr33manator
quote:yeah, but they want you to apply that shite to other guys' kids too
You do this when it’s YOUR OFFSPRING.
You don’t pick up some dude’s leftovers.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:22 pm to fr33manator
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You do this when it’s YOUR OFFSPRING.
You don’t pick up some dude’s leftovers.
Oh, you have no argument from me, but the fact is that this talk is used in respect of single moms' kids too. You should hear what filters down from the pulpits in many churches. It's egregious.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:22 pm to georgia
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So he should stop loving someone who hasn't done anything wrong because they don't share the same DNA?
When their mother clearly has demonstrated she has no regard for his well-being. YES.
100% YES.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:23 pm to Mo Jeaux
quote:examples of said pulpit pimp'n?
Oh, you have no argument from me, but the fact is that this talk is used in respect of single moms' kids too. You should hear what filters down from the pulpits in many churches. It's egregious.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:24 pm to MontyFranklyn
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examples of said pulpit pimp'n?
The rhetoric is the same, but it's expressly directed at single men to "man up" and marry and provide for single moms.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:25 pm to georgia
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So he should stop loving someone who hasn't done anything wrong because they don't share the same DNA?
He can love her all he wants.
If he wants any sort of happiness, any sort of quality of life for him and his son, he’ll cut them loose and stop letting her mom use him as a meal ticket.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:26 pm to georgia
Yes absolutely. Ultimately his responsibility is to his son and himself.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:29 pm to Mo Jeaux
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The rhetoric is the same, but it's expressly directed at single men to "man up" and marry and provide for single moms.
What kind of church preaches this?
This just shows how far the path of degeneracy we’ve gone as a society.
Maybe if the kids were fatherless because their dads had been killed in the war, that would be noble.
Not because the dads are deadbeats and their mom’s can’t keep their legs closed.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:31 pm to fr33manator
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He can love her all he wants.
If he wants any sort of happiness, any sort of quality of life for him and his son, he’ll cut them loose and stop letting her mom use him as a meal ticket.
thats asking a lot of a man that has just lost the woman he thought he was going to marry, if he were that cold hearted I doubt he ever would have chosen to date someone who had a kid already in the first place.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:32 pm to Mo Jeaux
Me in the congregation
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:34 pm to georgia
It def takes a certain someone to give someone an honest chance and fall in love with someone with that kind of "baggage".
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:34 pm to georgia
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thats asking a lot of a man that has just lost the woman he thought he was going to marry,
That’s asking him to be a man. To abandon emotional thinking and start using logic, which he hasn’t for a while apparently, in order to secure a life for his son.
He needs to get over the heartbreak in order to do what he needs to do. He can grieve later. Or celebrate when he isn’t forced to pay child support for a kid that isn’t his and he doesn’t get to see while his ex is screwing other dude’s brains out.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:36 pm to tke857
Geaux seems like an awesome dude, but I can only think of one thing when I read his story.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:38 pm to fr33manator
I think it's too late for him WRT paying child support for his "daughter". I think he has only one year from birth of the child to contest paternity.
He put his name on the birth certificate. The child is a few years old now. So, OP is now on the hook to pay child support and Mom is free to live her life free and open with OP already secured as a meal ticket for the "daughter".
I'll wait for any family law practitioner in La. to correct me if I'm wrong.
UPDATE: I took a minute to research this and came away with the impression that OP must have already signed a Sworn Affadavit admitting that he is the father as a PRECONDITION for being allowed to sign the birth certificate of the child.
So, OP, go ahead and be all the Dad you can be because you are definitely liable for any and all child support under La. law. And if Mom declines to pursue you for said child support the state of La. will pursue you if Mom asks for any welfare or food stamps.
La. Dept of Child Support Enforcement is probably in your future.
He put his name on the birth certificate. The child is a few years old now. So, OP is now on the hook to pay child support and Mom is free to live her life free and open with OP already secured as a meal ticket for the "daughter".
I'll wait for any family law practitioner in La. to correct me if I'm wrong.
UPDATE: I took a minute to research this and came away with the impression that OP must have already signed a Sworn Affadavit admitting that he is the father as a PRECONDITION for being allowed to sign the birth certificate of the child.
So, OP, go ahead and be all the Dad you can be because you are definitely liable for any and all child support under La. law. And if Mom declines to pursue you for said child support the state of La. will pursue you if Mom asks for any welfare or food stamps.
La. Dept of Child Support Enforcement is probably in your future.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:03 pm
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:39 pm to georgia
Exactly. This poor little girl knows him as her daddy. He can leave the mother but still be a father to this little girl. His name is on the birth certificate so I would assume he has legal rights to continue to be involved in her life. The innoncent children involved in this do not need to suffer anymore than they have to.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:40 pm to MontyFranklyn
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