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re: My fiancee called me out for mansplaining?
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:48 pm to StringedInstruments
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:48 pm to StringedInstruments
quote:
Dude - you’re consumed by her frame and you have zero standing as a masculine presence in your relationship with her.
In all honesty, don’t run. You’ll only stumble into another relationship that ends up with the same kind of bullshite problems.
The problem is you. Work on you, and you’ll see her realign herself to you.
It's easy to say this without offering a proper response. Something clearly hurt her and I wanted to know why/how so that I can avoid hurting her further. What should I have said? She didn't question my masculinity and I didn't wimp away; I apologized for hurting the person I love and expressed what bothered me about her response.
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Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:49 pm to mattytiger123
you're getting legit advice in this thread
take it from me it will get worse
it does not get better
take it from me it will get worse
it does not get better
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:49 pm to mattytiger123
It's too late. She knows you're a cuck now.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:51 pm to mattytiger123
Easy call. Its just pms.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:51 pm to TH03
Yep. His fate is sealed. Poor bastard
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:53 pm to mattytiger123
quote:
What should I have said?
Okay...after reading a lot of this thread, I think you’re trolling. If so, it’s excellent and don’t blow it when you’ve come this far.
But to answer your question...nothing is a decent option.
Better option would be to be amused by it. Or agree with her and amplify it a few notches.
“Well it takes a man to splain it considering it was my gender that invented the term.”
But you can’t even begin to think about your relationship in such a way because (and I assume probably correctly here) you’d worry so damn much about offending her that you’d never make light of her shite test. She threw shite at you and your fee fees got hurt, so you responded by projecting your confusion, sadness, and weakness onto her and it pissed her off.
Don’t fricking apologize when you didn’t do anything wrong.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 9:54 pm
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:53 pm to 3nOut
Bitch get onto me for Mansplaining I just say So? I'm A MAN! I am what I am. Comes with the territory.
Never apologize for who and what you are. If she can't handle that, she should pack HER shite and go. That's not to say you should run her over or mistreat her. But if you cannot be who you are with her, then you do not need to be with her.
Never apologize for who and what you are. If she can't handle that, she should pack HER shite and go. That's not to say you should run her over or mistreat her. But if you cannot be who you are with her, then you do not need to be with her.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:55 pm to Bushmaster
Yeah the crocodile tears at the end to cap it off so he couldn't get a word in to explain himself were masterful.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:56 pm to mattytiger123
It sounds like she’s probably frustrated and dealing with someone in her life who is making her feel inferior as a woman, and you did something condescending, and the two merged and she had a breaking point.
Would you still be making this thread if she said “ you’re being a condescending dick and I’m tired of you talking to me that way”? Or did you just get triggered by her calling it mansplaining?
Would you still be making this thread if she said “ you’re being a condescending dick and I’m tired of you talking to me that way”? Or did you just get triggered by her calling it mansplaining?
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:57 pm to georgia
quote:
and you did something condescending,
He did?
Posted on 12/5/19 at 9:59 pm to mattytiger123
Dating brings out their best.
Marriage brings out the rest.
Marriage brings out the rest.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:01 pm to mattytiger123
quote:
mansplaining
No such thing
There's explaining things then there's being a condescending a-hole/bitch.
Both sexes are equally capable of doing each.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:02 pm to TH03
By attempting to explain something to her that she has a DEGREE in? Absolutely.
Go into your cardiologists office and start explaining to him what open heart surgery is and see how well that’s received.
At bare minimum not “remembering” what your fiancé’s level of expertise is is ridiculously disrespectful. If you love someone then you make the time to remember what they are good at.
Go into your cardiologists office and start explaining to him what open heart surgery is and see how well that’s received.
At bare minimum not “remembering” what your fiancé’s level of expertise is is ridiculously disrespectful. If you love someone then you make the time to remember what they are good at.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:07 pm to mattytiger123
Dump her arse
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:09 pm to mattytiger123
Not reading all 10 pages but couple questions....
Does she suck dick good?
Does she let you put in her arse?
If answer is yes or no, get the frick out.
Does she suck dick good?
Does she let you put in her arse?
If answer is yes or no, get the frick out.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:09 pm to LouisianaLady
quote:
She used a word that most people roll their eyes at, so that sucks..
But maybe if she is otherwise a reasonable and sane woman, you should reflect on whether you as a person are condescending to others without realizing it.
It sounds like maybe he’s a little douchey explaining art to an art major. And probably does it in other ways....
But also sounds like she’s having issues somewhere else. Boss? Coworkers? Parent?
Regardless, won’t lecture about whether to run but would suggest thinking about how well you know each other and how well you communicate before pushing further along
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:11 pm to mattytiger123
Happily married man here. Married for 10.
You need to gtfo of that relationship and do it fast. Red flags everywhere.
You need to gtfo of that relationship and do it fast. Red flags everywhere.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:13 pm to mattytiger123
No one should brag about being able to kick a stranger's arse on the internet by citing their belt in a martial art. You sound like a child.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:42 pm to mattytiger123
quote:
I commented on the facial structure of a boy in some obscure Central American painting, saying it greatly resembled the socialist realism found in Soviet paintings. I then began to explain what that was, just because I felt like it wasn't common knowledge and I forget that she was an art major -- we didn't know each other in college... she snapped at me and said that she knows more about socialist realism than me
Next time leave out part of this and you'll catch even more.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:43 pm to mattytiger123
Yes run!!! PA student as well, I will be honest most female PAs are full of shite and always trying to “prove themselves” bunch of try hards. Once again I would run for the hills buddy. I love in the PNW too so good luck to you.
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