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re: My baby momma wants to put me on child support

Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:29 pm to
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
38939 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:29 pm to
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The system proves that women has no desire for any sort of true equality.


WHOA. UNNECESSARY.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11586 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:34 pm to
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If he keeps your child half the time and has to keep house and transport and all of that, why are you accepting a dime? Aren't you a strong and independent woman?

Let me guess....he covers the insurance as well.

The system proves that women has no desire for any sort of true equality.


I’m the stepmom. I have no children. He pays this to his ex wife who hates me, so I have no vested interest in her getting paid. I still think what he pays is fair, considering their salaries.
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 5:35 pm
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40141 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:36 pm to
You should take care of your child. Sounds like you are doing that, so I'm not sure what the big deal is.

There are plenty of tables and calculators out there that will show what a judge will likely grant. See if she will accept your word that you will give her that much every month, and just do it, without the need for the court.

Keep good records.

If she does take you to court, again, not much to discuss, really. If you are working 28/14 you aren't getting full custody.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138111 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:38 pm to
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The system proves that women has no desire for any sort of true equality.


WHOA. UNNECESSARY.
most family law is unnecessary and perpetuates female stereotypes

I think the laws are insulting to women
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138111 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:40 pm to
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still think what he pays is fair


You are fine with money going away to your family when both are putting in equal effort to care for the child

We have different definitions of fair
Posted by OleWar
Troy H. Middleton Library
Member since Mar 2008
5828 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:41 pm to
Why have you or your girlfriends not been honor killed by their families?
Posted by reggieray420
Member since Dec 2016
2700 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:43 pm to
Can one of you poor trashy people explain what tows 28/14 is thanks.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11586 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:46 pm to
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You are fine with money going away to your family when both are putting in equal effort to care for the child


The last time I said something about my husband’s child support being reasonable, a bunch of people said he was a deadbeat who isn’t supporting his kid. There’s no win on here.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
119906 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:54 pm to
How about this.

You sit down and come up with an estimate of how much is spent on your 4 year old per month.

Figure out how much of that you spend during the duration he is with you.

The two of you look at the numbers and come to an agreement as to what you will pay her each month.

Factor in the cost of 'Other expenses'.

If both of you come to an agreement, you pay her x amount each month... Then she doesn't have to call you when she needs money. If she needs any more at some point then it's on her. She is misusing the money.
Posted by Shunface
Lafayette County Detention Center
Member since Jan 2013
5199 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:56 pm to
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My current girlfriend is giving birth


quote:

My baby momma wants to put me on child support


I have a feeling in a few years we’re going to have round three of this thread.
Posted by Barbellthor
Columbia
Member since Aug 2015
10610 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 5:58 pm to
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?

You need a time machine and a condom for that.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
46178 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:02 pm to
28 days embarked and 14 days off
mariner standard shift
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138111 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:04 pm to
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There’s no win on here
absolutely true

Still love ya, babe

Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50193 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:05 pm to
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TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?


I mean, that ship sailed when you went with the don't pull-out method.
Posted by OleWar
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Member since Mar 2008
5828 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:07 pm to
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28 days embarked and 14 days off
mariner standard shift


Oh. So he is a sailor. Then my advice is to disappear.

Yeah, Brandy used to watch his eyes
When he told his sailor stories
She could feel the ocean fall and rise
She saw its ragin' glory
But he had always told the truth, Lord, he was an honest man
And Brandy does her best to understand
At night when the bars close down
Brandy walks through a silent town
And loves a man who's not around
She still can hear him say
She hears him say "Brandy, you're a fine girl" (you're a fine girl)
"What a good wife you would be" (such a fine girl)
"But my life, my lover, my lady is the sea"
It is, yes it is,
He said, "Brandy, you're a fine girl" (you're a fine girl)
"What a good wife you would be" (such a fine girl)
"But my life, my lover, my lady is the sea"
Posted by TOSOV
Member since Jan 2016
8922 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:21 pm to
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Get a female lawyer....They fight fiercely for ya...They love fighting other females!

Posted by TSLG
Member since Mar 2014
6724 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:26 pm to
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Looks like the thread was deleted. It was titled "Babysitting 16yo". It was classic WTF.

He had a follow up thread titled "Louisiana Law Question" asking about the specific laws regarding it all. Both been deleted.


That idiot also asked about hidden cameras on the tech board.

It got out of hand after he posted pics.
Posted by BayouCatFan
Member since Jul 2008
4580 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:34 pm to
The first baby momma should absolutely be going for child support. OP is obviously very irresponsible by getting two women pregnant out of wedlock so she needs to make sure its all in writing. The dumb bastard is so screwed because it wont be long before baby momma two gets the same idea because his irresponsible arse will inevitably do something to piss her off as well. I hope this is a troll because nobody should be so fricking ignorant.
Posted by Pitt Road
Mid-Florida
Member since Aug 2017
1057 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:42 pm to
This whole thread was a troll, interesting troll, but troll nonetheless.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77565 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 6:44 pm to
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TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
Get a vasectomy, trashy.
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