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My baby momma wants to put me on child support

Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:14 pm
Posted by TulaneFan
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2008
14037 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:14 pm
She called me today to inform me of this, saying that she needs to ensure our 4 year old son has everything he needs. My current girlfriend is giving birth to my daughter in May so she feels threatened that my son will be forgotten.

Honestly I really don’t deserve it, any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs. I’ve also kept records of these transactions and receipts of stuff I’ve bought him. Basically she’s just being a bitch.

We have no set custody agreement. I work on tows 28/14. I keep him the entire 2 weeks I’m off and she has him the rest of the time.

TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself? I intend on getting a lawyer. What should I expect?
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53007 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:14 pm to
Trashy board
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20393 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
It sounds like you need to make better choices in life.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14795 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself? 


Birth control, bubba.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?

wear condoms?
Posted by WoWyHi
Member since Jul 2009
23339 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
As much as I think that system is broken, it gives her documented and binding legal rights. You can't just say no after it's done.
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
58078 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?


Posted by mylsuhat
Mandeville, LA
Member since Mar 2008
48940 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
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My baby momma
quote:

My current girlfriend is giving birth to my daughter
quote:

what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
a vasectomy
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
54927 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?



Get a vasectomy.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134865 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to
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I work on tows 28/14

Your new child probably isn't yours so you don't have to worry about child support
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80259 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to
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Honestly I really don’t deserve it, any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs. I’ve also kept records of these transactions and receipts of stuff I’ve bought him. Basically she’s just being a bitch.


It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what’s best for your child. A new attitude about it would probably go a long way.
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 4:24 pm
Posted by Adam4848
LA
Member since Apr 2006
18964 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to
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saying that she needs to ensure our 4 year old son has everything he needs
quote:

so she feels threatened that my son will be forgotten.


Yeaaaaaaaa those contradict
Posted by LSUWoodworker
St George "God's Country "
Member since Dec 2007
18558 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?


condom or vascetomy to start

quote:

I intend on getting a lawyer.


May help but child support in Louisiana is set in law

quote:

What should I expect?



arse rape, lot's of arse rape
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to
Expect she already has a lawyer and has been keeping the proper records for a while now. Including how much you see him and how much you have given.

Expect $1k/month if you aren't at 50/50, plus whatever split in income for all the other childs needs. Since you are 28/14 I would say you can probably go over that.
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 3:18 pm
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
4653 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/26/20 at 12:41 am
Posted by LSUBadger
Member since Jan 2014
2238 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to
The judge is going to apply a set formula based on your gross income and that is what you will have to pay every month. No need to spend a to spend a bunch in a lawyer.

Btw. It would be a good idea to stop having baby’s with every girl you date. shite is going to get very expensive
Posted by idlewatcher
County Jail
Member since Jan 2012
79168 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to
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baby momma

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My current girlfriend


Having 2 kids out of wedlock is awesome. Bravo sir
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
1510 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:18 pm to
Get a lawyer. File a set custody agreement. Stop giving her extra money. It's considered a gift and not child support at this point. If she wants to play ball, play.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124437 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:19 pm to
Post a pic of each whore
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53007 posts
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:19 pm to
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It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what’s best for your child. A new attitude about it would probably go along way.

Look at this beta

You probably go to piano recitals and shite
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