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re: My baby momma wants to put me on child support
Posted on 3/7/19 at 9:37 pm to TulaneFan
Posted on 3/7/19 at 9:37 pm to TulaneFan
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any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs.
I don't see a problem with what she is doing. You already give her money so it's not like she's asking for something you're not already providing, she is just making it official. Any smart woman you do the same. That way if you ever decide to be a dick and not take responsibility for your child she has some legal standing to get what she and your child is owed. I say good for her.
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Posted on 3/7/19 at 10:14 pm to TulaneFan
Sick it up....
You getting ready to pay
You getting ready to pay
Posted on 3/7/19 at 10:19 pm to TulaneFan
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so she feels threatened that my son will be forgotten.
Very natural for mom to feel that way
Posted on 3/7/19 at 10:24 pm to Summer of George
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You work a 28 on, 14 off and only make $3K a month? Somethings not adding up
I am shocked he even makes this much. Clearly, he is irresponsible and a moron which is probably very evident in other aspects of his life. What company would be foolish enough to give this dumbass a high paying job?
Posted on 3/7/19 at 10:29 pm to TulaneFan
I'll be honest with you man, you are about to work for those children. It is about to be your life. The little bread crumbs you keep are to me sure you can have a little cubbies hole to sleep; a little food to eat (possible food stamps if you are lucky); and a little spending money to drink it off.
This is Louisiana buddy. It takes men and busts them right in the wallet. I've seen it over and over with guys I know.
Why any man wishes to take the risk this day and age is beyond my ability to discern. Get a vasectomy BEFORE you dig. Don't wait. I pulled out on a girl and she was forcibly trying to make me go inside. I pushed her off and said homie dont plat that. Have not heard from her since. We use to blast every month at least once. I pull out every time. But she right as I was going that last time tried to catch me slipping.
You slipped twice. Damn.
This is Louisiana buddy. It takes men and busts them right in the wallet. I've seen it over and over with guys I know.
Why any man wishes to take the risk this day and age is beyond my ability to discern. Get a vasectomy BEFORE you dig. Don't wait. I pulled out on a girl and she was forcibly trying to make me go inside. I pushed her off and said homie dont plat that. Have not heard from her since. We use to blast every month at least once. I pull out every time. But she right as I was going that last time tried to catch me slipping.
You slipped twice. Damn.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 11:04 pm to TulaneFan
Just put them all up for adoption so they don’t have a trashy life
Posted on 3/7/19 at 11:14 pm to TulaneFan
If you keep him at least half of the time then you should get an attorney.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 11:26 pm to The Torch
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You need to go to Midland son, them young hands out there are making six figs on the regular.
Look at Nabors Drilling - LINK
Cant make 6 figures if you are working 14&14.
I had a job with H&P that I turned down. Hourly was decent but no perdium or mileage. frick that. That 2 week check looks good until you take out 1000 for groceries and gas. I got a better job in midland that pays both mileage and perdium and now I watch those roughnecks soaked in oil based mud every day. They can have that shite.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 12:44 am to TulaneFan
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I don’t make a lot of money baw. I’m still young and fairly new.. haven’t gotten my tankermans ticket yet
Hopefully you’ve learned enough to avoid a third child since you don’t make a lot of money. You obviously didn’t learn after the first child. It’s difficult to understand how you find yourself in the same situation in short order unless you’re really without intelligence.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 3:03 am to fightin tigers
quote:Judging by the OP, I'm going to guess that he wasn't with a woman who would think this far ahead.
Expect she already has a lawyer and has been keeping the proper records for a while now.
Reading this thread made me feel like I walked into a trailer park.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 4:38 am to TulaneFan
How long have you been sharing custody equally while working 14/14?
Is there a large income differential?
Is the kid insured by you?
If the answers are always, no and yes, Offer $250 per month. Judge is likely to accept the precedent established, with small compensation for income differential.
Is there a large income differential?
Is the kid insured by you?
If the answers are always, no and yes, Offer $250 per month. Judge is likely to accept the precedent established, with small compensation for income differential.
This post was edited on 3/8/19 at 4:39 am
Posted on 3/8/19 at 5:06 am to TulaneFan
Your pull out game is weak.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 5:17 am to TulaneFan
If no one has already pointed this out child support is non-negotiable... by law, part of your income belongs to your child. You may have agreed to "help out" with the mother for a certain period of time, but that is of no credit to what you owe...you are just digging your own grave doing things this way... Child Support is actually money that. by law, YOU *OWE* YOUR CHILD, "not" the mother. It must, however, be paid to the individual who has domiciliary custody of the child. You cannot "protect" yourself from child support. And no matter what you've "given" her in the past, the past support you still owe will become retroactive if she ever files for support and you will owe her the full amount of child support, based on your tax returns, from day one of the child's life. As others have mentioned, anything you've "given" her is a gift. Child Support is not like other "legal" requirements like an inspection sticker or a red light that you may get away with. Part of your income is legally your child's money until he is 18. Courts do not play with "fathers" who do not support their child according to Family Court Law. If you are lucky you "may" get a warning the first time in front of a judge if she decides to file...but you have a better chance of leniency with jail time with a manslaughter or second degree murder charge.
Even if the mother has been easy on you, the law says a certain percentage of everything you make is **your child's money**, not hers... and even though she may have waived until now, you will owe retroactively since birth if a judge becomes involved. You cannot give excuses or plead ignorant concerning the law, you will IMMEDIATELY wear an orange jumper if you do not promptly pay. GET AN ATTORNEY, set up a payment schedule, take it to court and get a signed judgment before you bury yourself and destroy any chance of building your future.
Even if the mother has been easy on you, the law says a certain percentage of everything you make is **your child's money**, not hers... and even though she may have waived until now, you will owe retroactively since birth if a judge becomes involved. You cannot give excuses or plead ignorant concerning the law, you will IMMEDIATELY wear an orange jumper if you do not promptly pay. GET AN ATTORNEY, set up a payment schedule, take it to court and get a signed judgment before you bury yourself and destroy any chance of building your future.
This post was edited on 3/8/19 at 5:24 am
Posted on 3/8/19 at 5:31 am to TulaneFan
Honest question time.
How old are you?
What type of training do you have?
Have you hired a lawyer yet?
How old are you?
What type of training do you have?
Have you hired a lawyer yet?
Posted on 3/8/19 at 6:11 am to saintsfan1977
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Hourly was decent but no perdium or mileage. frick that. That 2 week check looks good until you take out 1000 for groceries and gas. I got a better job in midland that pays both mileage and perdium and now I...
How do people who rely on per diem not know how to spell it? Why do you folks not dig in your brain to wonder.. hey, what does that mean?
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The term "per diem" is Latin for "each day.". Typically, per diem refers to a set daily rate that an employer provides to cover expenses. If the position involves travel, per diem pay is often used to cover expenses like the cost of food when one is away from home and/or the cost of a night's stay in a hotel.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 6:16 am to TulaneFan
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Honestly I really don’t deserve it, any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs.
Take care of your son. Giving her money when she asks is shite. You need to be giving the money on a monthly basis. You dont need the lawyer - SHE DOES.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 6:19 am to JPinLondon
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JPinLondon
Et huius docte interpretari latine.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 6:25 am to Dawgirl
Where is the moms responsibility in all this? She allowed herself to be knocked up by someone who wasn’t her husband and then refused to formalize any form of support. If he truly has supported the child, I don’t see the why law should bend him over a barrel for the past 4 years if he can prove he supported the child.
I know that’s not how the law is written but this whole system is absolutely rigged against men
I know that’s not how the law is written but this whole system is absolutely rigged against men
Posted on 3/8/19 at 6:26 am to Dawgirl
quote:exhibit one in regards to my previous posts, your honor
Take care of your son. Giving her money when she asks is shite. You need to be giving the money on a monthly basis. You dont need the lawyer - SHE DOES.
Posted on 3/8/19 at 6:28 am to TulaneFan
Why are you a POS?
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