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re: Morning y'all...need some advice regarding my new belle...

Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:19 am to
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5132 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:19 am to
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she'd probably be very unhappy I posted her photo to an anonymous board


Nothing anonymous here - we all have usernames.
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
3520 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:20 am to
Are you saying that she has just remaibed unmarried or that she hasn't dated since then? It's not too hard to conceive that she may want to take her time on the next one and avoid another divorce. Have some confidence in yourself.
Posted by TigerFanatic99
South Bend, Indiana
Member since Jan 2007
27474 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:37 am to
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you were doing so well until you gave yourself away here. You broke character. Too bad


yep, men who lost their first wife to cancer usually don't talk like that . This was legitimately a good attempt until that.

OP needs to take some time away from posting and study LucasP's post history some and pick up on the control and nuance.
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18044 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 7:55 am to
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I know all women are crazy but she Doesn't seem to be.


Plain and simple, she is hiding it. Women can hide the crazy until they get you locked down. I would rather have one upfront that I know is crazy than one who hides it and kills you in your sleep for leaving the toilet seat up.

Prayers sent.
Posted by Big Jim Slade
Member since Oct 2016
4914 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:00 am to
I assume you've plotted her on the crazy/hot matrix? What zone is she in?
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
30589 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:01 am to
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Shes just reeling you in pal



Yep
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:18 am to
Just have to look at what she was doing during those 13 years. Most of the sane chicks that are single around 30 either spent a bunch of time traveling and living in other countries, or they have moved around for their career.

Personally, I wouldn't wife up a chick that has already gone through a divorce. It shows their lack of commitment, and probably makes it much easier to do the second time around.


Sorry about your wife. Cancer is no fun
Posted by Tiger 79
The Original Tiger 79
Member since Nov 2007
38020 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:27 am to
Some of you may remember I lost my wife in 2010. The OT was very supportive. I started dating within a year and found out a few things. One, don't look for your wife's clone or try to mold that person into her. It ain't happening.

Enjoy the ride, move slow and good luck to you.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:31 am to
I did 4000 in five days by myself. If I had somewhere I needed to be, I could've extended that an extra 1000 in that same time frame.

Doing 7000 in seven days, with two people is completely plausible if you are on a road trip.
Posted by Four Leaf Tayback
Member since Aug 2017
1621 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:32 am to
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think you're overthinking here. After 10 months, you've probably seen most sides of her personality. You may be downplaying negative parts, since you're still in the gushy hormonal stage, but there probably won't be many surprises. Does she have a good social circle? Is she on good terms with her family?


Good social circle and a great family. They're all close. Very much traditional family
Posted by Four Leaf Tayback
Member since Aug 2017
1621 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:39 am to
I really appreciate all the responses, wisdom and encouragement. In 2012 I stopped posting here after I lost my wife because things were just so crazy. I've been back for a few weeks now. TD community is amazing. Funny how on an anonymous board you find some of the best advice on life. A lot good people on here. Appreciate it baws
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:49 am to
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It's like shopping on the clearance rack. You are picking through everyone else's left overs. Find a 25 year old girl that doesn't have baggage with An ex or kids. I would take a 25 yr old OT 6 over a 35yr old OT 8.


A 35 yr old OT 8 would be too good for you with that kind of logic you have.
Posted by Huck Finn
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2009
2455 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:50 am to
And don't let anyone give you crap about posing the question. You obviously see a ton of positives in this girl, huge potential for a life mate, and you're asking for outside opinions on anything you're overlooking. Without posting pics. Good luck to you, man.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27348 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:54 am to
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this sounds improbable

That is averaging 70 mph for nearly 17 hours a day.



It was 6600 miles technically.

And somehow I drew a large penis...








ETA: wife navigated through montana and into Spokane, then Seattle. The dick thing was a complete accident.
This post was edited on 9/22/17 at 8:56 am
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52910 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:54 am to
Are you poor or something? Why are you dating 30 year olds?
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52910 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 8:57 am to
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. Most of the sane chicks that are single around 30 either spent a bunch of time traveling and living in other countries

Yuck. Every time I see chicks on tinder or whatever with those little third world kids hanging off of them I swipe left. No dengue fever for me thanks
Posted by LadyTigress
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2017
632 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 9:00 am to
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And if she was single for a long time that only means God had her waiting to meet you. Don't question Him too much. He knows what He's doing and His timing is perfect.


How refreshing!!
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 9:03 am to
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could she possibly be crazy?


Oh...SHE'S crazy. They all are.

It's just is she too crazy to tolerate.
Posted by Nativebullet
Natchez, MS
Member since Feb 2011
5134 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 9:06 am to
she's been single (red flag) for a long time after her failed marriage. i bet that thing hangs down like a turkey neck by now.



Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79115 posts
Posted on 9/22/17 at 9:08 am to
Assuming this is true

your story made me sad and i hope this girl is not crazy and it works out
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