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re: Mom posts gut-wrenching image of dying daughter and grandfather together

Posted on 1/11/18 at 1:44 pm to
Posted by Tigerhead
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 1/11/18 at 1:44 pm to
Many years ago , I watched a documentary called Shoah. It's a 9 hour long, in depth study of the "final solution", or Holocaust. One segment tells in great detail how one death camp executed the task. They would herd the men into the gas chamber first, to eliminate the chance of any serious resistance. To streamline the process, they would stage the women and children on a ramp, just outside of the gas chamber. The chamber wasn't soundproof, so the mothers of the children, some only babies, would hear the men's screams as they were being gassed. There was no doubt they knew they were about to take their children to their death.

I decided I would use that scenario to gauge my own trials through life. A number line principle, so to speak, with I just stubbed my toe at one end, and that holocaust scenario at the other. It often helped me see that my problems were nothing compared to what others may be going through. I can't think of one instance where my issue didn't fall closer to the stubbed toe than not.

Unfortunately for this poor woman, I think her situation is closer to the wrong end of the number line. My prayers go out to her.
Posted by noonan
Nassau Bay, TX
Member since Aug 2005
37017 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 1:48 pm to
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One thing I surely would not do is post this kind of crap on Facebook or anywhere for attention


Most likely it was to share with family and friends. Maybe reaching out for comfort. Sometimes all you can do is share your thoughts.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86509 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:03 pm to
It's been a tough year for me personally in this regard. I truly aspire and am making progress in not becoming too attached to the normal cycles of human birth and death that none of us can escape. While we love others, especially our children ,we have to respect their journey through life and death, understand that it is separate from our own, and be as compassionate to one another in the death process as we are in life. When you are 20 all this seems theoretical, as you get older you learn that nobody can escape the suffering that is life on earth. While we never really learn why there is so much human suffering what we can learn is that we can control our own feelings and emotions about death, and make the death process a time of spiritual growth. Even through our grief it can bring those left behind much closer, and I believe make the journey for the departed, easier.

Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38241 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:07 pm to
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gut-wrenching



not really. about the 3rd or 4th time i've seen it today and its really not that bad. Dude looks like he singing to Pearl Jam
Posted by heypaul
The O-T Lounge
Member since May 2008
38452 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:17 pm to
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I don't think it's usually for attention. I think sometimes the anguish gets to be too much to bear alone.


I've been to 7 family members funerals within the past 18 months. I often want to talk about losing my sister and dad and grandmothers and others .... but I don't.

People keep telling I need to though.
Posted by King George
Member since Dec 2013
6119 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:26 pm to
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'How could this happen to us? What did any of us do to deserve THIS?"
Not supposed to ask. It's all part of God's plan.

Fwiw-I am extremely saddened by this woman's circumstances. I can't begin to imagine watching my child and father rapidly succumb to disease.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
117287 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:27 pm to
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The picture also shows the little girl's grandfather, who is suffering from ALS, or Lou Gehrig's Disease,


God...really? Are these people direct descendants from the Romans that nailed Your Son to the cross?

Damn...
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85576 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:28 pm to
frick. This. Thread.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:30 pm to
That's awful, but this is an incredibly private moment I would never post on the internet. But to each his own, I guess.
Posted by htran90
BC
Member since Dec 2012
32409 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:34 pm to
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That's awful, but this is an incredibly private moment I would never post on the internet. But to each his own, I guess.



landed on her FB the other day...I feel bad for a family to go through that, but I can't stand this "social media era"
Posted by WicKed WayZ
Louisiana Forever
Member since Sep 2011
34319 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:37 pm to
That's fricking bullshite
Posted by smoked hog
Arkansas
Member since Nov 2006
1895 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:39 pm to
I know the family. The man in the picture is the father, not grandfather. Truly a terrible thing, I can't imagine being in the mothers shoes right now.
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
67256 posts
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:43 pm to
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I know the family. The man in the picture is the father, not grandfather. Truly a terrible thing, I can't imagine being in the mothers shoes right now.


I was wondering....dude looked REALLY young to have a grand daughter.
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