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re: Mom posts gut-wrenching image of dying daughter and grandfather together
Posted on 1/11/18 at 1:44 pm to tss22h8
Posted on 1/11/18 at 1:44 pm to tss22h8
Many years ago , I watched a documentary called Shoah. It's a 9 hour long, in depth study of the "final solution", or Holocaust. One segment tells in great detail how one death camp executed the task. They would herd the men into the gas chamber first, to eliminate the chance of any serious resistance. To streamline the process, they would stage the women and children on a ramp, just outside of the gas chamber. The chamber wasn't soundproof, so the mothers of the children, some only babies, would hear the men's screams as they were being gassed. There was no doubt they knew they were about to take their children to their death.
I decided I would use that scenario to gauge my own trials through life. A number line principle, so to speak, with I just stubbed my toe at one end, and that holocaust scenario at the other. It often helped me see that my problems were nothing compared to what others may be going through. I can't think of one instance where my issue didn't fall closer to the stubbed toe than not.
Unfortunately for this poor woman, I think her situation is closer to the wrong end of the number line. My prayers go out to her.
I decided I would use that scenario to gauge my own trials through life. A number line principle, so to speak, with I just stubbed my toe at one end, and that holocaust scenario at the other. It often helped me see that my problems were nothing compared to what others may be going through. I can't think of one instance where my issue didn't fall closer to the stubbed toe than not.
Unfortunately for this poor woman, I think her situation is closer to the wrong end of the number line. My prayers go out to her.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 1:48 pm to reggielendale
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One thing I surely would not do is post this kind of crap on Facebook or anywhere for attention
Most likely it was to share with family and friends. Maybe reaching out for comfort. Sometimes all you can do is share your thoughts.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:03 pm to tss22h8
It's been a tough year for me personally in this regard. I truly aspire and am making progress in not becoming too attached to the normal cycles of human birth and death that none of us can escape. While we love others, especially our children ,we have to respect their journey through life and death, understand that it is separate from our own, and be as compassionate to one another in the death process as we are in life. When you are 20 all this seems theoretical, as you get older you learn that nobody can escape the suffering that is life on earth. While we never really learn why there is so much human suffering what we can learn is that we can control our own feelings and emotions about death, and make the death process a time of spiritual growth. Even through our grief it can bring those left behind much closer, and I believe make the journey for the departed, easier.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:07 pm to tss22h8
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gut-wrenching
not really. about the 3rd or 4th time i've seen it today and its really not that bad. Dude looks like he singing to Pearl Jam
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:17 pm to LSUBFA83
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I don't think it's usually for attention. I think sometimes the anguish gets to be too much to bear alone.
I've been to 7 family members funerals within the past 18 months. I often want to talk about losing my sister and dad and grandmothers and others .... but I don't.
People keep telling I need to though.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:26 pm to tss22h8
quote:Not supposed to ask. It's all part of God's plan.
'How could this happen to us? What did any of us do to deserve THIS?"
Fwiw-I am extremely saddened by this woman's circumstances. I can't begin to imagine watching my child and father rapidly succumb to disease.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:27 pm to tss22h8
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The picture also shows the little girl's grandfather, who is suffering from ALS, or Lou Gehrig's Disease,
God...really? Are these people direct descendants from the Romans that nailed Your Son to the cross?
Damn...
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:30 pm to tss22h8
That's awful, but this is an incredibly private moment I would never post on the internet. But to each his own, I guess.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:34 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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That's awful, but this is an incredibly private moment I would never post on the internet. But to each his own, I guess.
landed on her FB the other day...I feel bad for a family to go through that, but I can't stand this "social media era"
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:39 pm to heypaul
I know the family. The man in the picture is the father, not grandfather. Truly a terrible thing, I can't imagine being in the mothers shoes right now.
Posted on 1/11/18 at 2:43 pm to smoked hog
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I know the family. The man in the picture is the father, not grandfather. Truly a terrible thing, I can't imagine being in the mothers shoes right now.
I was wondering....dude looked REALLY young to have a grand daughter.
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