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re: Modern women have really lost their minds with financial dating standards

Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:18 pm to
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
62241 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:18 pm to
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So here’s my question to the OT gentlemen:


Here is a TL:DR response from a SEC OT gentleman

My parents generation
Survived 2 World Wars in their youth / early middle age
Survived multiple economic catastrophes including the Great Depression
Survived several pandemics including the Spanish Flu
Survived food stressed times including the Dust Bowl

My generation
Some learned from their parents about just how hard it can be
Some were spoiled by their parents (often unintentionally) and never knew hardship

Generations since
More and more about the self than the surroundings and media / corporations are replacing real family and friends that had community as now it is all image and material things.

If you want to be rewarded with meaningful physical and emotional relationships you need to reward it, not punish it.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108040 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:19 pm to
I genuinely question the bizarre arse women you’ve been trying to holler at. I don’t know anyone that has those kind of demands.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
38718 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:19 pm to
Men aren't expecting it. It is the competition between women that is fueling it. The male attention is just validation
This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 12:19 pm
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
38984 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:20 pm to
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Generations since
More and more about the self than the surroundings



yeah but we know how to convert stuff to .pdf
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:21 pm to
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I genuinely question the bizarre arse women you’ve been trying to holler at. I don’t know anyone that has those kind of demands.
I’ve been out of the dating game for a while - but not even my daughter or her friends (no pics) have those demands
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39644 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:21 pm to
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game


One of the sweetest, most stunningly beautiful, intelligent women I've ever met told me on the phone 2 months after we met, " You don't have any 'game'. I love that."

We were engaged 3 months later.

Being a playa is overrated.



Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
41547 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:21 pm to
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Which means you are setting a higher standard for men then you believe they should set for you.

If I expect you to look like the top 10, and you expect me to look like the top 10, that makes sense.

If you expect me to look like the top 5... we are starting to see the issue


You ain't got an answer to this yet?



If you're a man, live your life, go have fun. When you turn 30, start seeing much younger women until you find one that's marriage material. Nobody over the age of like, 23.
Posted by RedPants
GA
Member since Jan 2013
6053 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:22 pm to
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Future LSU Tiger


Lay off the algorithms that force feed you the Whatever podcast clips. Good ones are still out there.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
62241 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:23 pm to
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I’ve been out of the dating game for a while


You have multiple progeny, you won the dating game. You and MrGRT are still together, you are just dating the same man who seems to keep the flame alive.

So many of both sexes stop making the efforts.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41064 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:23 pm to
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If the issue is women who have an alleged inflated sense of self worth, wouldn’t the easy solution be to not enable them?


It would be the solution.

But men are hard wired to want sex, by any means necessary. Maybe when the bots become realstic, that will work for some men.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
61004 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:23 pm to
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it's so weird to hear men bitching about women stating who they are and what they want up front. sorry for the efficiency and time savings? would you rather them wait until 5-10 years into marriage to show you their true colors?


The problem isn’t women saying what they want up front. The problem is that what many of them are saying is so far beyond realistic that you’re compelled to laugh at them.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
36475 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:23 pm to
Honestly my daughters been with her guy for 7 years but she’d probably be looking for super broke effeminate dudes who share their feelings if she weren’t.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
62241 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:24 pm to
You appreciate deviled eggs, that makes you a winner in my book!

Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64367 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:24 pm to
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Honestly my daughters been with her guy for 7 years but she’d probably be looking for super broke effeminate dudes who share their feelings if she weren’t


No she wouldn't.
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
43196 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:25 pm to
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Women's list of demands.

Must be tall.
Must be shredded.
Must be rich.
Must be hung like a horse.
Must own multiple homes.
Must make at least 300k a year.
No blue collar guys no matter how much you make.
Must have at least a Masters Degree.
Must provide for my 4 kids from 3 different baby daddies.
Can't be maga.
Must like the Barbie movie.
Must like cats.
Allows me to have Whores, I mean Girls Nights Out.
Doesn't expect me to cook & clean like it's 1957.
And NO I WILL NOT SIGN A PRENUP.


Social media has overblown this. Most women aren't like this.
Posted by olemc999
At a blackjack table
Member since Oct 2010
15297 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:25 pm to
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And their only requirement, no matter what, is thin. They can be ugly, broke, horrible bitchy personality. But thin is the line in the sand


They literally have lower standards and can’t meet them and bitch about the one standard. It’s amazing.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:25 pm to
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You ain't got an answer to this yet?
no I didn’t see it
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:26 pm to
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Being a playa is overrated
agreed, my husband wasn’t a playa either
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:27 pm to
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Women's list of demands.

Must be tall.
Must be shredded.
Must be rich.
Must be hung like a horse.
Must own multiple homes.
Must make at least 300k a year.
No blue collar guys no matter how much you make.
Must have at least a Masters Degree.
Must provide for my 4 kids from 3 different baby daddies.
Can't be maga.
Must like the Barbie movie.
Must like cats.
Allows me to have Whores, I mean Girls Nights Out.
Doesn't expect me to cook & clean like it's 1957.
And NO I WILL NOT SIGN A PRENUP.


A woman with 50% of these demands will be single until she is 40 then will be miserable and start up the dating apps and realize she is low on the totem pole.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39644 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 12:27 pm to
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NO I WILL NOT SIGN A PRENUP.


Nobody's gonna ask you to, honey, so you can rest easy in that double-wide.
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