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re: Men with Secret Lives/Families
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:20 pm to forever lsu30
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:20 pm to forever lsu30
I know a woman who has a 2.5 year old with a very rich, married man with his own wife and kids. The family has no idea about the kid or mistress. He somehow pays child support every month through a private account.
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Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:25 pm to Evil Little Thing
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It seems exhausting.
I couldn’t even imagine trying it. Why on earth would any man want to put up with 2 different women bitching at him?
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:26 pm to Pelican fan99
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I've heard of some oil baws who are always traveling that have kids in different countries that their family in the US doesn't know about
This is about the only way i think that a ‘secret life’ could work in this day and age (not that i’d ever want to try it).. if your job take you overseas for extended periods of time, and you kept a low profile on TwitFace or whatever social media.. plus you’d have to make gobs of cash to keep it going.. Even then, seems like the kind of scumbag who would attempt this would never actually acknowledge paternity abroad and support a family, he’d probably just move onto the next unsuspecting international chick and keep his one family back home in the States.
Either way, i agree with most here that it’d be extremely tiring and way too much work to keep it going.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:32 pm to Sweltering Chill
I knew a gentleman that was very successful in the insurance business. Wife, 2 grown kids. Very prominent in the social scene. It was later leaned he had another family in a trailer outside of Belzoni Ms. It cost him his family, his business, and all his savings. He ended up dying penniless
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:36 pm to forever lsu30
It would definitely be hard/near impossible for most men to do this.
But this:
is a stupid reason why.
Whose wife tracks them by their phones? That is some crazy person shite.
And it's quite easy to have different bank accounts.
But this:
quote:
mobile phone tracking & online banking
is a stupid reason why.
Whose wife tracks them by their phones? That is some crazy person shite.
And it's quite easy to have different bank accounts.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:38 pm to TheCaterpillar
well known lsu sports figure pulled this off, but was decades ago....
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:40 pm to Evil Little Thing
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It seems exhausting.
This is always my only thought...I just don't get why you would do it
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:42 pm to secfballfan
My aunt's husband did this. Had 6 kids with my aunt and 2 with his secretary.
However, the secretary knew about his wife obviously and was in on it because he financed their lives. That is the only way it worked.
It all unraveled when I was like 12 so they didn't give me all the details then. Had to ask around when I got older. He actually didn't get caught, he came clean, divorced my aunt, and married the secretary.
Oddly enough, I ended up befriending one of the kids he had with the secretary. I didn't blame him for anything. The guy is crazy successful now too (Ivy League grad).
ETA:
Went like this...
- Had a big family with my aunt
- Kids were all 10+ when affair started with secretary
- Secretary got pregnant, they kept it
- She got pregnant again, they kept it
- He stayed with my aunt for years, until the bastard kids were old enough to ask questions
- He left my aunt and went to live with and marry secretary
- No longer talks to my 6 cousins (he cut them off at 18, which is fricked because he's loaded)
- He's a piece of shite
However, the secretary knew about his wife obviously and was in on it because he financed their lives. That is the only way it worked.
It all unraveled when I was like 12 so they didn't give me all the details then. Had to ask around when I got older. He actually didn't get caught, he came clean, divorced my aunt, and married the secretary.
Oddly enough, I ended up befriending one of the kids he had with the secretary. I didn't blame him for anything. The guy is crazy successful now too (Ivy League grad).
ETA:
Went like this...
- Had a big family with my aunt
- Kids were all 10+ when affair started with secretary
- Secretary got pregnant, they kept it
- She got pregnant again, they kept it
- He stayed with my aunt for years, until the bastard kids were old enough to ask questions
- He left my aunt and went to live with and marry secretary
- No longer talks to my 6 cousins (he cut them off at 18, which is fricked because he's loaded)
- He's a piece of shite
This post was edited on 8/28/19 at 4:46 pm
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:49 pm to TheCaterpillar
If you don't think your wife has a tracker for you on your phone linked to hers, then she either doesn't love you or you are way too naive.
That's what my wife says anyway...
That's what my wife says anyway...
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:54 pm to forever lsu30
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If you don't think your wife has a tracker for you on your phone linked to hers, then she either doesn't love you or you are way too naive.
At first I was like WTF
Then I saw this
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That's what my wife says anyway...
Leave her.
I've never heard of anyone that I'm friends with tracking their spouse. That is not normal and should not be considered acceptable.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 4:57 pm to Pelican fan99
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I've heard of some oil baws who are always traveling that have kids in different countries that their family in the US doesn't know about
Yeah, I knew a kid like that. He was named Brysyn N!dugu. (The ! stands for a clicking noise and the first name rhymes with Tyson.)
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:03 pm to TheCaterpillar
If they track the kids, believe it-they track their husbands.
Women today are better than the FBI with this ninja cell/social media tracking.
Women today are better than the FBI with this ninja cell/social media tracking.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:20 pm to forever lsu30
In Houston, my company employed a Mexican national to work for us in Mexico. Darned fool got killed in an auto accident in Mexico that he caused.
I got to translate some of the early info on him and the wreck and that established that two wives and two families in two different provinces. At first, I was questioning my translating abilities, but all the dictionaries we had didn't make him anything but a bigamist.
I got to translate some of the early info on him and the wreck and that established that two wives and two families in two different provinces. At first, I was questioning my translating abilities, but all the dictionaries we had didn't make him anything but a bigamist.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:25 pm to forever lsu30
My thought is that they are the same women that get abused and keep coming back. They don’t think they deserve better.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:33 pm to forever lsu30
You don’t watch Investigation Discovery?
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:41 pm to forever lsu30
I know a guy I went to high school and college with. His father was married and had two children one of which is my friend. The father was president of a bank or high up in a bank and supposedly traveled a lot. The story I was told was he was married to another woman and had children in another city about 18 miles west of where I grew up. So the husband of two families dies and let’s say it was an interesting funeral to say the least because neither family knew about the other. If I said my friends name a bunch of you people who are in their 40’s and 50’s would know who he is. The father was able to conceal this because there was no social media, internet and he had a boatload of cash. I think, no, I know it would be much harder to pull off in today’s times.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:44 pm to forever lsu30
Swinging, gay dads/husbands always trip me out. I know a couple from an acquaintance stand point and most of them are upper class and good at what they do. They like to do other dads for their kicks though.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:48 pm to forever lsu30
Did they make you buy them?
Posted on 8/28/19 at 5:48 pm to forever lsu30
It's hell coaching two travel ball teams at the same time.
Posted on 8/28/19 at 6:00 pm to forever lsu30
This wouldn’t really fall into the secret part, but I know a guy in my industry who has two families. He was really an all around really good guy and completely faithful to his wife according to his co-workers. Then came time for one of the big industry conferences in Brazil. Apparently the temptation was too much and he met a smoke show Brazilian girl and ended up getting her pregnant. When he found out about it he ended up telling his wife (who by all means is very attractive too). Instead of leaving him, his wife told him that the kid needed a father around and that he needed to split time between his family here in the States and with his new son and baby momma in Brazil...so from what I understand he now spends 6 months working out of the company office in Houston, and 6 months working out of the company office in Brazil. Not a bad setup really.
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