re: Men with Secret Lives/Families

OR she didn't want to risk him leaving for Brazil & getting $0 alimony + child support.
Risk/Reward & all...

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well known lsu sports figure pulled this off, but was decades ago....

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I believe Walter Payton did as well. The story goes that the mistress/baby mama showed up at his funereal and there was some altercation with his wife.

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After a little sleuthing it appears I was wrong, it wasn't at his funereal, it was at Payton's Hall of Fame induction ceremony.

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The book reports a story told by former executive assistant Ginny Quirk about the day that Payton was inducted into the Hall of Fame. Quirk says that both Payton's wife Connie and a girlfriend, identified only as Lita, attended the ceremony. Quirk says it was her job to keep them apart.

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Read the story of H. L. Hunt, a mid-20th century multi-millionaire. No way he could have pulled his life off with current day social media and celebrity reporters on ever corner.

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Literally no woman is that understanding/accommodating

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This is not at all the same but one of my friends has a girlfriend back home in the NE but she is totally aware of people he sees here.

I have a neighbor who once had a co-worker from Eunice that found out her husband had a second family. The second family lived not far from Eunice.

All I see is money flowing out of my account at twice the rate. They want money, their kids want money, etc.

At some point a high priced hooker is more fun less bitching.

This is a common thing for many pilots for FedEx in Memphis with routes to South America. Mostly old military guys with enough seniority to maintain the same flight plans/destinations. Collierville wife and kids in McMansions, South American wife and kids living like royalty on American Dollar.

The little things would suck.

Imagine you just go to wife 1 after being with wife 2 for a few days when you were allegedly away on business.

Wife 1 says, "Honey, let's watch the new episode of Better Call Saul. I DVR'd it last night because I knew you were working late in Chicago and would want to see it."

But you just watched it with wife 2 last night. Now you have to sit through it again and pretend to be surprised.

Or wife 1 says, "Hon, I made your favorite. Lasagna!" But you just ate it for three days of leftovers at wife 2's house.

And how do you avoid mentioning some experience--a purchase at Trader Joe's or a doctor visit or seeing a movie-- that is inconsistent with you story of where you've been? "Hon, how did you go see Dr. Butler about your boil when you said you were in Seattle all week?"