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re: Men who leave their family
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:11 pm to shotcaller1
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:11 pm to shotcaller1
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Would your current wife marry a homeless person?
My wife just walked past and asked what I was reading and I posed your question but provided no particular context. Without breaking stride she replied that he would need to resemble a French baguette.
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Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:13 pm to Tester1216
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So many people marry out of lust and lust just does not stand the test of time or life’s disappointments.
Yup. And sex to early in a relationship can be a high indicator of marital dysfunction. Females are forcing men to "earn it". Men are going to be responsible for it, so women need to start getting back to it. Builds a solid foundation of love, and friendship. Not sex.
If a guy isnt willing to stick around for 6 months+ without it then how can one say the relationship is going to last when sex isnt a part of the relationship??
Females have their fault in it too, but females need to be the stronger ones as men cant be naturally. Ie....the "womens movement" gave men what they had always wanted...."sex without consequences".
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:15 pm to fallguy_1978
Both of her parents remarried several times. Her mom is currently single and dad married.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:18 pm to TOSOV
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If a guy isnt willing to stick around for 6 months+ without it then how can one say the relationship is going to last when sex isnt a part of the relationship??
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:18 pm to yellowfin
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Both of her parents remarried several times. Her mom is currently single and dad married.
My dad has had the same girlfriend for 15 years or so. He just won't get remarried. She's 20 years younger than him
Dad was pretty successful in his career and very frugal. He retired in his early 50s. He also inherited a good bit of money. He said he'd rather just leave it to his kids. He also just prefers living alone after being a bachelor for so long.
This post was edited on 12/2/18 at 12:22 pm
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:20 pm to RedRifle
92 up votes to 6 down votes yet just about all of you voted for Trump. So have fun with your feaux moral outrage
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:21 pm to Morty
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92 up votes to 6 down votes yet just about all of you voted for Trump. So have fun with your feaux moral outrage
Leaving your family is morally superior to over 200 murders imo.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:21 pm to TOSOV
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Yup. And sex to early in a relationship can be a high indicator of marital dysfunction. Females are forcing men to "earn it". Men are going to be responsible for it, so women need to start getting back to it. Builds a solid foundation of love, and friendship. Not sex. If a guy isnt willing to stick around for 6 months+ without it then how can one say the relationship is going to last when sex isnt a part of the relationship?? Females have their fault in it too, but females need to be the stronger ones as men cant be naturally. Ie....the "womens movement" gave men what they had always wanted...."sex without consequences".
The difference is respect and out of that comes love. Doesn’t matter when you have sex with someone or how much or for how long. You have to genuinely care for someone and actively devote time. Effort is sexy AF.
I’m far from an expert on relationships and certainly cannot judge anyone for what they do in their marriages, however I have no use for people who do not own up to their responsibilities as a parent.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:22 pm to Tester1216
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No. This is who you marry when you’re looking at superficial attributes. Find someone who genuinely kind and generous with their time and attention. So many people marry out of lust and lust just does not stand the test of time or life’s disappointments.
There are plenty women out there who will love you for nothing but for just wow kind you treat them and knowing that you’ll be a good father to her children.
I'm 35. I'm a pretty handsome dude with his shite together and I spent my entire adult life chasing women because of how good they looked in a dress. I've dated some dimes but I've always been miserable. The vein superficial nature of shallow people. Plus God is a big part of my life and too many women think it's cool to be "spiritual but not religious"
My current gf, who I'm going to marry, she's pretty but she's not someone I would have considered earlier in life. But she has a heart of gold, is sweet, funny, and loves me for me, loves having sex with m, is frugal, has a kick arse job.
She gets in her feelings when she sees my ex's because she doesn't think she is on that level and I tell her bbe these thots can't hold a candle to u.
Proverbs chapter 31 verses 10-31 tells us as men what we should look for in a good woman. This is the first one to meet that and not just lustfulness
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:23 pm to RedRifle
I've seen it both ways. Some men leave and they regret it not long after, I've also seen people stay together for years because of their kids and they were completely miserable.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:25 pm to Morty
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92 up votes to 6 down votes yet just about all of you voted for Trump. So have fun with your feaux moral outrage
Wtf does the president have to do with any of this?
That dude lives rent free in some of your heads
Clinton and JFK banged everything they could. In Clinton's case, some unwillingly.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:26 pm to vodka
You get it my man. Congratulations on the upcoming marriage.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:26 pm to fallguy_1978
I’ve said the same. I love being married but if I ever found myself single I’d never do it again.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:27 pm to yellowfin
Is your wife a stripper?
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:30 pm to LZ83
Not that I’m aware
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:31 pm to yellowfin
Just wondering if she was the one with you in the big jacuzzi tub at Golden Nugget.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:36 pm to LZ83
I’ve always said 95% of my post are bull shite. It’s your job to figure out which ones are not.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:37 pm to yellowfin
And I’m just messing around, I don’t give a shite if you’re married and/or with a stripper. That’s the great thing about being on here.
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:38 pm to fallguy_1978
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Man I was the exact opposite. I mostly grew up in a bachelor pad with no females. Me and my dad had a maid and ate out every meal.
That’s awesome. I lived like that a couple years post college. Was great
Posted on 12/2/18 at 12:39 pm to yellowfin
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I’ve said the same. I love being married but if I ever found myself single I’d never do it again.
I wouldn't do it again either. 0% chance
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