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re: Married people - snapchat?
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:06 am to Highway_Man
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:06 am to Highway_Man
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Right? And then the reasoning. I forgot the password for one so I had to create another one. BUT, on the one account I saw, the other is friended. So clearly had access at the same time! And a third, deleted account
Doesn’t sound very good my friend.
Making a new account instead of recovering password?
The whole idea of the messages going away is silly to me because anything can be easily screen grabbed. Seems like it is tempting people to make poor decisions.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:06 am to Highway_Man
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Right? And then the reasoning. I forgot the password for one so I had to create another one. BUT, on the one account I saw, the other is friended. So clearly had access at the same time!
And a third, deleted account.
How did you find all her accounts?
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:08 am to Highway_Man
Yes and Yes
Just travel stuff
No, too young
Nope
Yup
Just travel stuff
No, too young
Nope
Yup
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:10 am to Highway_Man
Married folks with a Snapchat? Ok kinda weird but absent any other warning signs no big deal
Multiple accounts? huge red flag!
Multiple accounts? huge red flag!
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:11 am to Highway_Man
My 15 year old has it and it was a problem at first, copious amounts of time on it. Now it seems he doesnt give much of a shite about it. His friends have resumed regular texting communication for the most part. His group all says it is pretty lame to be on snap all day. There is no reason an adult has a snap account unless they are trying to monitor their kids, but I will tell you that you wont be able to keep up if they are trying to keep things from you, it is a fruitless use of your time. And while I doubt I would ever know if my wife had a secret snapchat account, there is only onw reason to have it.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:12 am to Highway_Man
I guess I’m old. I deleted SC years ago shortly after downloading. I didn’t see the point of receiving a photo that quickly disappeared after viewing. If I want to txt or send or receive a pic iPhone msg is fine.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:16 am to Lonnie Utah
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There is a reason I NEVER delete a text message from anyone
But I (and she, if she wanted to), can go back almost 10 years and see strings of conversations with me, my family and my few friends.
same and for same reason.
it's actually kind of amazing (or alarming, maybe) how often something comes up in conversation and either me or the wife has a vague recollection of it before.
it's usually something like "hey do you remember _______?" and it's something or someone we know we talked about, but not much more than that.
Quick text search and boom! "oh yeah, I remember that now"
of course, then we usually both forget why the hell we brought it up and searched for it.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:17 am to Highway_Man
The wife and I both been having it for the past 10 years. The only reason I still use it is to send and receive pictures of the toddler. It’s much easier than taking pictures or videos that I would have to go back and delete later.
I also use Snapchat a ton for photoshopping dumb pictures for my group message.
I also use Snapchat a ton for photoshopping dumb pictures for my group message.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:17 am to Highway_Man
Obligatory you came to the right place...
If you haven't yet, don't call her arse out. Get your ducks in a row in preparation for a potential separation while, in parallel, digging to get all the proof you can get to prove she's cheating. When you're confident you've got her dead to rights and are prepared financially, drop it on her. Don't be the victim.
If you haven't yet, don't call her arse out. Get your ducks in a row in preparation for a potential separation while, in parallel, digging to get all the proof you can get to prove she's cheating. When you're confident you've got her dead to rights and are prepared financially, drop it on her. Don't be the victim.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:19 am to SPEEDY
Safari on our mac had been syncing her accounts / passwords, I'm guessing via the apple id logged into both mobile and laptop. She recently got secretive and logged out of her apple id etc there, disconnecting the accounts. But it kept the old saved accounts in the password manager. Found 3 accounts along with the dates that showed the last time the passwords were changed, so have a good idea of the timeline here.
This isn't shocking. It's just confirming what I suspected and it's nice to have validation/closure here. Honestly her behavior and the panic that set in when I confronted tells me everything I need to know.
This isn't shocking. It's just confirming what I suspected and it's nice to have validation/closure here. Honestly her behavior and the panic that set in when I confronted tells me everything I need to know.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:21 am
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to mmmmmbeeer
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Obligatory you came to the right place...
If you haven't yet, don't call her arse out. Get your ducks in a row in preparation for a potential separation while, in parallel, digging to get all the proof you can get to prove she's cheating. When you're confident you've got her dead to rights and are prepared financially, drop it on her. Don't be the victim.
I gathered evidence leading up to this. It's all saved.
From what I have read it's really hard to prove adultery in Louisiana. So I doubt it will be that useful in terms of divorce, unless something tangible is uncovered and not just something shady.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:24 am
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to The Dunder Mifflin
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The only reason I still use it is to send and receive pictures of the toddler. It’s much easier than taking pictures or videos that I would have to go back and delete later.
why would you want to delete pics of your kid?
especially if they're still a toddler.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to The Dunder Mifflin
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It’s much easier than taking pictures or videos that I would have to go back and delete later.
Both apple and android messaging platforms have the option to take a picture within the app and not save it to the camera roll or the gallery. I do it on my android, the only difference is it doesn't go away from the message thread.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:26 am
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:23 am to Highway_Man
I think people wanting to be secretive have moved on to Telegram.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:26 am to Highway_Man
Dang bud, that really sucks...
FWIW, there are lots of great wonen out there, just move on.
FWIW, there are lots of great wonen out there, just move on.
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:27 am to Highway_Man
One reason I like snap chat, is that the messages delete. Its perfect for group messages where everyone thinks their picture is important. I do not need the dumb shite I send to people stored forever like they are on iMessage. Every few years, I have to give apple a few more $, to up the storage capacity of my cloud. Its getting out of hand. Snap, just magically gets rid of the storage of my hey look at this dumb shite
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:30 am to Highway_Man
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1) Do you have snapchat? Does your partner?
No. We also don’t have Facebook, instagram, or tick tock. We get by perfectly fine.
Not to sound too old, but I personally have no idea or have ever heard of Snapchat.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:31 am
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:30 am to dyslexiateechur
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i do have Snapchat, husband does not
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:31 am to Highway_Man
Not having Snapchat is never a problem
Having Snapchat could potentially be a huge problem
Having Snapchat could potentially be a huge problem
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:32 am to Highway_Man
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From what I have read it's really hard to prove adultery in Louisiana. So I doubt it will be that useful in terms of divorce, unless something tangible is uncovered and not just something shady.
Lawyer up in silence. If you would have to pay a lot of alimony, a Private Investigator could help prove adultery, but getting out of alimony is about the only benefit for proof in Louisiana.
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