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re: Married people - snapchat?

Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:06 am to
Posted by Hobie101
Member since May 2012
884 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:06 am to
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Right? And then the reasoning. I forgot the password for one so I had to create another one. BUT, on the one account I saw, the other is friended. So clearly had access at the same time! And a third, deleted account


Doesn’t sound very good my friend.
Making a new account instead of recovering password?

The whole idea of the messages going away is silly to me because anything can be easily screen grabbed. Seems like it is tempting people to make poor decisions.
Posted by SPEEDY
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Member since Dec 2003
87057 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:06 am to
quote:

Right? And then the reasoning. I forgot the password for one so I had to create another one. BUT, on the one account I saw, the other is friended. So clearly had access at the same time!

And a third, deleted account.


How did you find all her accounts?
Posted by TheDeathValley
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2010
20093 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:08 am to
Yes and Yes
Just travel stuff
No, too young
Nope
Yup
Posted by Honkus
Member since Aug 2005
56577 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:10 am to
Married folks with a Snapchat? Ok kinda weird but absent any other warning signs no big deal

Multiple accounts? huge red flag!
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60705 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:11 am to
My 15 year old has it and it was a problem at first, copious amounts of time on it. Now it seems he doesnt give much of a shite about it. His friends have resumed regular texting communication for the most part. His group all says it is pretty lame to be on snap all day. There is no reason an adult has a snap account unless they are trying to monitor their kids, but I will tell you that you wont be able to keep up if they are trying to keep things from you, it is a fruitless use of your time. And while I doubt I would ever know if my wife had a secret snapchat account, there is only onw reason to have it.
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
4616 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:12 am to
I guess I’m old. I deleted SC years ago shortly after downloading. I didn’t see the point of receiving a photo that quickly disappeared after viewing. If I want to txt or send or receive a pic iPhone msg is fine.
Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
10601 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:16 am to
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There is a reason I NEVER delete a text message from anyone

But I (and she, if she wanted to), can go back almost 10 years and see strings of conversations with me, my family and my few friends.


same and for same reason.

it's actually kind of amazing (or alarming, maybe) how often something comes up in conversation and either me or the wife has a vague recollection of it before.

it's usually something like "hey do you remember _______?" and it's something or someone we know we talked about, but not much more than that.

Quick text search and boom! "oh yeah, I remember that now"


of course, then we usually both forget why the hell we brought it up and searched for it.


Posted by The Dunder Mifflin
Member since Mar 2018
882 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:17 am to
The wife and I both been having it for the past 10 years. The only reason I still use it is to send and receive pictures of the toddler. It’s much easier than taking pictures or videos that I would have to go back and delete later.

I also use Snapchat a ton for photoshopping dumb pictures for my group message.
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
ATL
Member since Nov 2014
9764 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:17 am to
Obligatory you came to the right place...


If you haven't yet, don't call her arse out. Get your ducks in a row in preparation for a potential separation while, in parallel, digging to get all the proof you can get to prove she's cheating. When you're confident you've got her dead to rights and are prepared financially, drop it on her. Don't be the victim.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
327 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:19 am to
Safari on our mac had been syncing her accounts / passwords, I'm guessing via the apple id logged into both mobile and laptop. She recently got secretive and logged out of her apple id etc there, disconnecting the accounts. But it kept the old saved accounts in the password manager. Found 3 accounts along with the dates that showed the last time the passwords were changed, so have a good idea of the timeline here.

This isn't shocking. It's just confirming what I suspected and it's nice to have validation/closure here. Honestly her behavior and the panic that set in when I confronted tells me everything I need to know.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:21 am
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
327 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to
quote:

Obligatory you came to the right place...


If you haven't yet, don't call her arse out. Get your ducks in a row in preparation for a potential separation while, in parallel, digging to get all the proof you can get to prove she's cheating. When you're confident you've got her dead to rights and are prepared financially, drop it on her. Don't be the victim.


I gathered evidence leading up to this. It's all saved.

From what I have read it's really hard to prove adultery in Louisiana. So I doubt it will be that useful in terms of divorce, unless something tangible is uncovered and not just something shady.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:24 am
Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
10601 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to
quote:

The only reason I still use it is to send and receive pictures of the toddler. It’s much easier than taking pictures or videos that I would have to go back and delete later.



why would you want to delete pics of your kid?
especially if they're still a toddler.

Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
6990 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:20 am to
quote:

It’s much easier than taking pictures or videos that I would have to go back and delete later.


Both apple and android messaging platforms have the option to take a picture within the app and not save it to the camera roll or the gallery. I do it on my android, the only difference is it doesn't go away from the message thread.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:26 am
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14564 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:23 am to
I think people wanting to be secretive have moved on to Telegram.
Posted by N2cars
Close by
Member since Feb 2008
37962 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:26 am to
Dang bud, that really sucks...


FWIW, there are lots of great wonen out there, just move on.
Posted by shotskimakesmysat
Laffy Taffy
Member since Sep 2009
96 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:27 am to
One reason I like snap chat, is that the messages delete. Its perfect for group messages where everyone thinks their picture is important. I do not need the dumb shite I send to people stored forever like they are on iMessage. Every few years, I have to give apple a few more $, to up the storage capacity of my cloud. Its getting out of hand. Snap, just magically gets rid of the storage of my hey look at this dumb shite
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
15793 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:30 am to
quote:

1) Do you have snapchat? Does your partner?


No. We also don’t have Facebook, instagram, or tick tock. We get by perfectly fine.

Not to sound too old, but I personally have no idea or have ever heard of Snapchat.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 8:31 am
Posted by DownSouthCrawfish
Lift every voice and sing
Member since Oct 2011
40599 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:30 am to
quote:

i do have Snapchat, husband does not
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
21830 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:31 am to
Not having Snapchat is never a problem


Having Snapchat could potentially be a huge problem
Posted by Sgt_Lincoln_Osiris
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2014
1152 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:32 am to
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From what I have read it's really hard to prove adultery in Louisiana. So I doubt it will be that useful in terms of divorce, unless something tangible is uncovered and not just something shady.


Lawyer up in silence. If you would have to pay a lot of alimony, a Private Investigator could help prove adultery, but getting out of alimony is about the only benefit for proof in Louisiana.
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