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re: married men with female friends- possible??
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:26 pm to Epic Cajun
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:26 pm to Epic Cajun
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One of the things in this thread he asked was about talking on the phone with them, I probably talk to her once a month on the phone. That's what I think is a bit absurd. We're still "friends" for sure.
my question is wtf are you talking about?
checking up on her kids and husband? like why the frick do you care so much?
i mean seriously what in the hell do you talk about once month?
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:27 pm to LNCHBOX
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That's a little sus if it's purely social and not work related.
Work is definitely a topic of convo because we are in the same field, but we talk about our kids, spouses, extended family, etc... It's not a hidden thing, my wife knows when we talk.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:27 pm to Jake88
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have women friends I share an athletic hobby with. We text a bit, talk about every other day at work
Are they attractive? Have you ever innocently flirted with any of them? Be honest.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 1:27 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:27 pm to Epic Cajun
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Work is definitely a topic of convo because we are in the same field, but we talk about our kids, spouses, extended family, etc... It's not a hidden thing, my wife knows when we talk.
You need a monthly check in call for this?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:28 pm to lsu777
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like wtf you wanting to hang out with or talk with a female about? what in the hell could you have in common
Really? Football, politics, work, current affairs, the weather, movies, books, family, etc…..
Yall act like women aren’t people too.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:28 pm to Oates Mustache
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Are they attractive? Have you ever innocently flirted with any of them? Be honest.
You're about to get a whole bunch of lies
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:28 pm to Jake88
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Tell me you're simple without telling me you're simple.
yea thats it.
some of yall are weird as frick or have weird relationships where yall want to hang out with pretty much everyone else but your wife and kids
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:28 pm to lsu777
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checking up on her kids and husband? like why the frick do you care so much?
Because she's my friend? We have kids that are the same age. I've known her for almost half of my life, if I saw her occasionally we'd probably never talk on the phone, but it's probably been 5 years since I've seen her.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:29 pm to Oates Mustache
quote:They're alright looking. Flirted, no. Have I complemented a time they ran and was impressed, yes. They have little kids. I'm not getting involved with that even if they were 9s.
Are they attractive? Have you ever innocently flirted with any of them? Be honest
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:30 pm to Epic Cajun
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Because she's my friend? We have kids that are the same age. I've known her for almost half of my life, if I saw her occasionally we'd probably never talk on the phone, but it's probably been 5 years since I've seen her.
I feel like you're realizing that your justifications for needing to check in with this girl as often as you do don't really make sense.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:30 pm to dyslexiateechur
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Really? Football, politics, work, current affairs, the weather, movies, books, family, etc…..
Yall act like women aren’t people too.
Quite the opposite actually. Women are people with all that comes with being human. Just because someone is married doesn't mean they couldn't potentially find other people emotionally or sexually attractive. After all, we still have eyes and conversations can still be stimulating with other people. When you get married however, you forsake all other and commit to one. So you see, the issue is not that other women don't have something to offer, the problem for a committed man is that they do.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 1:31 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:31 pm to Epic Cajun
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Work is definitely a topic of convo because we are in the same field
understandable
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but we talk about our kids, spouses, extended family, etc
so....a lady you see 3-4 times a year max...you are getting monthly updates on?
do you do this with other family?
maybe im so busy after work i dont have time to care about this kind of stuff or maybe i just dont like talking on the phone like a female to anyone much less another female
hell me and my sister are pretty close and i dont even talk to her on the phone once a month. text here and there but thats about it.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:32 pm to Epic Cajun
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Because she's my friend? We have kids that are the same age. I've known her for almost half of my life, if I saw her occasionally we'd probably never talk on the phone, but it's probably been 5 years since I've seen her.
wait you have not seen her in 5 years and you are talking once a month
jesus christ brother......move on...she doesnt want you
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:32 pm to lsu777
quote:Your skills in logic are simple as well. Show me where I said I don't hang out with my wife and kids. I'm with them 99.5% of the time I'm not at work.
some of yall are weird as frick or have weird relationships where yall want to hang out with pretty much everyone else but your wife and kids
You're projecting, that's obvious. You're too simple to see how what you believe might not be the only way.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:34 pm to Oates Mustache
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Family dinners are fine. Do you have dinner with just the two of you?
We’ve met for lunch over the years several times, my wife is always aware when we do.
That said, I wouldn’t hang out with them if they lived in town unless with spouses.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:35 pm to cyarrr
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We’ve met for lunch over the years several times, my wife is always aware when we do.
That said, I wouldn’t hang out with them if they lived in town unless with spouses.
It wouldn't feel even a tad weird for your wife to tell you she's going to spend the afternoon having lunch with another guy just to "catch up?"
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:36 pm to lsu777
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like wtf you wanting to hang out with or talk with a female about? what in the hell could you have in common
The overwhelming majority of the people in my office, including some of my business partners, are female. I interact with them on a daily basis in both professional and social contexts. They aren’t aliens. Some are married, some aren’t. I also travel with some of them multiple times per year.
WTF is wrong with you that you cannot interact with females? That is the real question.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:36 pm to lsu777
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this is the part that gets you in trouble on the guys trips look at how many times this ends up being a problem. How many times have you heard about such and such cheated on their trip...it happens all the time. why the hell as a married men would you even want to go to a bar for 1 and 2 why would you put yourself in that position?
This has happened exactly zero times in my friend group but we aren’t trash
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:36 pm to DevilDagNS
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The overwhelming majority of the people in my office, including some of my business partners, are female. I interact with them on a daily basis in both professional and social contexts. They aren’t aliens. Some are married, some aren’t. I also travel with some of them multiple times per year.
WTF is wrong with you that you cannot interact with females? That is the real question.
You are not at all talking about what this thread is about. I feel like you know that though.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:36 pm to lsu777
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so....a lady you see 3-4 times a year max...you are getting monthly updates on?
I haven't seen her in probably 5 years. For 10+ years we talked daily because we worked together, or were in the same classes. We're friends, really at this point she's basically family. I also have male friends that I don't see often and I also talk to them on the phone.
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