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Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:47 pm to lsu777
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mean wtf are you talking about?
Their kids and your kids?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:48 pm to lsu777
Didn’t we have this thread like a week ago
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:48 pm to lsu777
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this
im talking someone you talk and confide in....someone you hang out with, with your wife or not, someone you play golf with, drink a beer with
seriously what kind of married man would even want to have a true female friend
im talking one you have numbers of, text them in non group text, request advice etc.
I think there's a ton of context that would need to be hashed out. I'm friends with a couple that's about 10 years older than me who basically raised me emotionally during college. I'll ask the wife marriage types and how women may receive communication but she's really like a mother figure to me.
I don't have any women that I confide in about my marriage that there is even a hint of sexual attraction/chemistry with though. Basically, if there's a remote shot that either I or she would attempt to make a pass at the other, I stay away from them.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:48 pm to lsu777
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lsu777
Not agreeing or disagreeing with anything you said, but Jesus you seem like a nightmare.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:49 pm to lsu777
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thats fine... and imo that is more your friends wife
you arent going to hang out with her without your wife
Of course not, I'd never hang out with a sexually attractive female friend without my wife. That's just dumb. Even if I never make a move, what if she does and now it's a he said/she said. Just not worth the risk.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:49 pm to JiminyCricket
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Very important to define terms here. What is meant by the term friend?
I have lots of female "friends" at church, at work, etc. I essentially have none of their phone numbers and do not communicate with them much or at all when we're not at the locations listed above. I think you can have friends in that context.
If by friends do you mean regular communication via texts or social media and people you confide in regarding personal issues? I have none of those. I don't talk to women about my wife or my marriage unless it's saying a positive thing about it. I never vent to other women about my wife.
I'll post what I posted in the other thread.
The situation matters as always here. Are you taking trips with these women without your wife? Having one on one text conversations, Facebook messenger? Do you talk with these women about sensitive topics typically reserved for someone like your wife like love/sex? Go to lunch or dinner with these women without your wife?
These are the very things that foster cheating and one that can start out innocent but then grow. These are the situations you don't out yourself in. Eventually, that relationship moves to the sexual realm of the woman is remotely attractive.
I've asked this question so many times in these threads. I feel like I'm the only male poster here that is with someone I actually love, like to spend time with, like to take trips with, is a true friend.
I can't imagine sitting around with excitement and anticipation at the day I get to run out of the door to get away from my SO. It's really strange to me.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 12:50 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:51 pm to lsu777
I’m a female with both male and female friends. I don’t hang one on one with pretty much anyone anymore because who has time for that? 
All my guy friends have become my husband’s friends too.
All my guy friends have become my husband’s friends too.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:52 pm to Oates Mustache
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I'll post what I posted in the other thread.
The situation matters as always here. Are you taking trips with these women without your wife? Having one on one text conversations, Facebook messenger? Do you talk with these women about sensitive topics typically reserved for someone like your wife like love/sex? Go to lunch or dinner with these women without your wife?
These are the very things that foster cheating and one that can start out innocent but then grow. These are the situations you don't out yourself in. Eventually, that relationship moves to the sexual realm of the woman is remotely attractive.
I've asked this question so many times in these threads. I feel like I'm the only male poster here that is with someone I actually love, like to spend time with, like to take trips with, is a true friend.
I can't imagine sitting around with excitement and anticipation at the day I get to run out of the door to get away from my SO. It's really strange to me.
Pretty much agreed on all points. All it takes is one moment of weakness in the perfect storm of circumstances and you've ruined your marriage. Not worth the risk. Not to mention, what if you rebuff her when she makes a move and then she lies on you out of bitterness. It's just a fire that need not be played with.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:52 pm to dyslexiateechur
When you have a fun husband people want to hang out with both of you 
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:53 pm to Aspercel
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When you have a fun husband people want to hang out with both of you
Plus I actually like and want to spend time with him. There’s a few things, like painting and pottery that I’d ask my girlfriends to go to if he doesn’t want to go but he’s my first go-to.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:53 pm to lsu777
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spinoff- married men with female friends- possible??
Only if she is not attractive/ and do not want to bang...
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:55 pm to salty1
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Found the guy that got married 6 months ago.
Well, we are still in our honeymoon phase. But you’re only off by 27 years.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:55 pm to DevilDagNS
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Not agreeing or disagreeing with anything you said, but Jesus you seem like a nightmare.
anything but...im one of the most normal guys on here. been married for 15 years, 3 kids, great job, great stable normal family, go to church every sunday, workout and fish and spend time with the family.
i just dont understand some of the married guys on here
1) many want to have friends of the opposite sex and think its ok to talk to them through text and shite without wife knowing
2) many of them talk about taking guys trips to vegas and miami or key west or cancun etc and then they wonder why their relationship sucks
3) many on here cant wait to get away from their wife and spend time away and never want to take the wife on a date or take them on a vacation
these are the same ones that whine about lack of intimacy in the relationship
seems there are only about 10 on here who actually like their wives and children and want to hang out with rather than take "fishing trips" to costa rica where no fish are caught but hoping you dont catch something else.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:55 pm to lsu777
Not reading all that but attractive guys can’t be friends with attractive girls.
Not possible.
Not possible.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:56 pm to JiminyCricket
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I texted my buddies wife to tell her which duck calls to get him for Christmas because she didn't know what to get.
Oh, sure. Sure.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:56 pm to Dragula
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Only if she is not attractive/ and do not want to bang...
It's wild too the phenomenon of taboo attraction. They've had cases of people desiring to have an affair and as soon as it's discovered, the attraction and appeal of the relationship goes away. It's like we want what we aren't supposed to have which is just another reason not to open the door to that temptation.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:56 pm to Aspercel
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When you have a fun husband people want to hang out with both of you
im not talking about that....im talking about a friendship with opposite sex where the two hang out...that is weird AF and asking for an issue
Posted on 12/27/24 at 12:57 pm to lsu777
Holy wall of text, Batman.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:00 pm to lsu777
Covered recently, only with ugly women.
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