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re: Married men, give advice to the young gentlemen of the OT about women

Posted on 4/6/16 at 1:26 pm to
Posted by OneEyedWillie
Member since Mar 2016
182 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 1:26 pm to
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Watch it.
Learn it.
Live it.
Posted by CocoLoco
Member since Jan 2012
29108 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 1:27 pm to
The frick!?

Posted by retired trucker
midwest
Member since Feb 2015
5093 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 1:35 pm to
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"I wanna have sex but I don't want to do any work"


you don't actually think her attitude is gonna improve, do you?!
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 2:27 pm to
quote:

your advice is to not be an immature moron not ready for a committed relationship.

Au contraire. Do that and have fun with it for as long as you can. I know I did.

Hell, I wasn't ready for a committed relationship till about five or ten years into my current marriage.
Posted by STLhog
Nashville, TN
Member since Jan 2015
17739 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 2:33 pm to
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Au contraire. Do that and have fun with it for as long as you can. I know I did.


Taking advantage of that Lioness shite.

Even if they love each other, sisters will still eat the hell out of each other if it came down to it.

Mother and daughter too I think.

Oh yea and you too, I just finished up with a fierce one, she'd legit have John Bobbitt'd me if I ever stepped out, no doubt in my mind.
This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 2:34 pm
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103262 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 2:35 pm to
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advice


Don't date anyone whose parents are divorced.
Posted by frankenfish
Crofton, MD
Member since Feb 2008
837 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 2:54 pm to
Happily married for going on 16 years. My situation was I couldn't even think about getting married until I had a career and could provide. Get that straight first.

My Dad's best advice was that she'll look just like her mother later in life. This seems to be consistently true.

My Mom's aunt's advice to her, "There ain't ever been but one perfect man and if there were another what the hell would he want to do with you?" This is in line with what others have been saying about not being super critical.

I also think you have to work at staying in love. Things can and do get stale; make a conscious effort to do things that remind yourself why you chose her. There are peaks and valleys but choose to stay engaged.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 2:59 pm to
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1. Once you are married you will think back on every female that you could have had sex with and did not. And you will kick yourself.


this times a million.

I would say learning to communicate is the single most important thing you can do in your marriage.
Posted by madmaxvol
Infinity + 1 Posts
Member since Oct 2011
19247 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:00 pm to
Never marry a woman who doesn't give head.
Posted by 632627
LA
Member since Dec 2011
12843 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:03 pm to
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1. Once you are married you will think back on every female that you could have had sex with and did not. And you will kick


Truer words have never been said
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67249 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:09 pm to
The power dynamic is always established early on in a relationship as are her expectations. From the get go, be honest. When she's wrong, tell her. Pick your battles, but when the chips are down stick to your guns.

That way, when you're married, when you disagree with her, she may get upset at it first, but will get over it quickly because she knows that you aren't opposing her just for the sake of arguing. She will know that you actually know what you're talking about.

Giving in early on to keep her happy just gives her this false assumption that she will always be right. All you have to do is win enough times that the result is in doubt at the start of disagreement.

Doing this will ensure she retains respect for your opinions and learns to express her arguments logically rather than just emotionally bullying you like a child having a tantrum. She will learn that she can trust you because you will tell her the truth no matter how unsettling.
This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 3:12 pm
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19430 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:11 pm to
frick everything with a pulse and never get married and you'll die a happy man.
Posted by jdd48
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2012
22167 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:23 pm to
Never put the P on a pedestal.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:30 pm to
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My mom washed clothes every day.


How fricking dirty were you? Did you own just one pair of draws?
Posted by OneEyedWillie
Member since Mar 2016
182 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:36 pm to
The best advice I was given before marriage,

"don't do anything in the first six months that you don't want to do for the rest of your life"
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28845 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:45 pm to
Women go after what they want. If she's not going after you, at all, she doesn't want you.

If she's only going after you a little or inconsistently, she only likes you a little or inconsistently, which, aside from maybe possible drunk or convenience sex, is not much better than not liking you at all.

Caveat: it's possible that a girl may want you and not express it but then she's probably a social retard, psycho or something else not worth getting close to.
Posted by LSU8654722
Member since Apr 2014
1495 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:46 pm to
Don't let the "fear of consequences" dictate your decisions.

Ex: "I want to do "X" but the SO would kill me."

Unless "X" is a living thing, what is really going to happen? She'll act like a bitch for a little while. Maybe you wont get any for a day or 2. They wont break up with you. (Unless they suck in which they did you a favor)

shite. When you're married; acting like a bitch and not giving you any is pretty common. So, its much easier to make that decision
This post was edited on 4/6/16 at 3:47 pm
Posted by LSU8654722
Member since Apr 2014
1495 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 3:48 pm to
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frick everything with a pulse and never get married and you'll die alone and probably from an STD.


FIFY
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 4/6/16 at 4:00 pm to
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Women go after what they want. If she's not going after you, at all, she doesn't want you. If she's only going after you a little or inconsistently, she only likes you a little or inconsistently, which, aside from maybe possible drunk or convenience sex, is not much better than not liking you at all.

You know, that's a good one.

I have a friend who got his sights set on this one chick, pretty much only because of her looks and nothing else, and he pursued her and pestered her relentlessly till she gave in and married him. It was a disaster. He had to get committed to a marriage to find out she not only didn't really like him, she HATED him. Even after the divorce she just tortured him and took any chance she could to sabotage his life. She was just an evil bitch.

I remember being introduced to her (he was living in Tennessee at the time) and I immediately said "Man, you could do better". He just shrugged it off. Everybody knew it wasn't going to last but nobody knew how much of a mean harpy she would turn out to be.
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