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Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:24 pm to
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19258 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:24 pm to
quote:

come back and demand a blow job
he’s married... the blow jobs have ended
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
1432 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:25 pm to
If there is potential for violence, you should leave. If not, maybe go to a movie or something instead of a hotel? Be calm and honest about where you’re going & why.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38783 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:25 pm to
quote:

I go on a 3 day bender when I feel like that. Hookers, drugs, alcohol, suites, etc. really puts things in prospective


That's what I need-. See you Tuesday night after I get back from wherever let's see where we are at
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38783 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:26 pm to
No chance of violence

Movie night work
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
35749 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:27 pm to
quote:

Marital Advice


Don't do it.

If you do, don't do it a second time.
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38546 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:28 pm to
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She is very unhappy


She has to find happiness within herself first. If she is looking for happiness as a result of others, she is kidding herself.
Posted by Benne Wafer
Member since Jan 2015
400 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:28 pm to
What does "first family" mean?
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:28 pm to
quote:

How long you been married?
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19258 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:29 pm to
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She is trying to make her family happy and me happy, but I disagree with what her first family wants and she is in the middle
you’re kidding right? This is just about every wife. I’ve been married for twenty years and I ignore half of her family drama I only get involved when i absolutely have too
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:29 pm to
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What do you mean it’s toxic?

She's slowly poisoning him with arsenic.
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38546 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:29 pm to
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he’s married... the blow jobs have ended


Must be contagious like the Corona virus, except symptoms first started occurring for me nearly 17 years ago.
Posted by LSUtiger89
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
3639 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:30 pm to
Cause you had some hard times and mad each other? That doesn’t mean it’s over. Marriage is work! Hardest work you will ever do. But no matter how broke something is it can be fixed. It’s really are you willing to put in the time and effort to fix it. You have to take responsibility and realize you are a part of the problem too.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38783 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:30 pm to
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Without sharing what’s going on here, you want get good advice





Her widowed mom is struggling with a move to more suitable living situation because she is leaving last place she was with husband. Me and my wife are leaving our first house that was on verge of hoarder status to something more comfortable. Mom is trying to figure out how to push all her worthless stuff on us or anyone so she doesnt have to move on from it. My wife is agreeing to take things I think neither of us want to ease mom's feelings. We are going to hoarder this place and be miserable.
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
31122 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:31 pm to
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What does "first family" mean?


I'm having trouble following most of his posts. Half thoughts, bad grammar, scattered...
Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
6507 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

Call me when you are unsure how we are going to pay property tax or get food.

quote:

She is trying to make her family happy and me happy, but I disagree with what her first family wants and she is in the middle


If you really want an honest opinion, you sound like an a-hole.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38783 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

What does "first family" mean?





Her mom and sister

She is not respecting our family or that I don't care what her mom or sister think because they are not making decisions for us
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:31 pm to
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She is trying to make her family happy and me happy, but I disagree with what her first family wants and she is in the middle


So there’s no way to compromise through this? All I’m saying is when we draw lines and have absolutes then we have set ourselves up for failure.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38783 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:32 pm to
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You have to take responsibility and realize you are a part of the problem too.


True
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38546 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:32 pm to
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It’s really are you willing to put in the time and effort to fix it.


The thing that most people do wrongly is thinking they need to fix the other person. Wrong. Must fix yourself first. Fighting or disagreements generally occur because most of us are selfish and/or bad communicators —- or don’t communicate with respect to one another.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38783 posts
Posted on 2/16/20 at 2:33 pm to
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So there’s no way to compromise through this? All I’m saying is when we draw lines and have absolutes then we have set ourselves up for failure.



I pushed her to hard - then offered compromise

Too late she isn't playing ball
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