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re: Man receives sex act while blacked out, gets accused of sexual assault

Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:15 am to
Posted by TheHiddenFlask
The Welsh red light district
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:15 am to
I was accused by a girl I didn't even sleep with. We got drunk at a bar, made out, she crashed in my bed, but both of us remained fully clothed the whole time because she said "I'm too drunk".

I probably would have been kicked out of school if her sorority sister wasn't blowing my fraternity brother on my couch. Luckily, that girl has a soul and said that absolutely nothing happened. I still hate that bitch. Nothing ever happened to her.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:17 am to
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Literally anyone (especially female) can ruin your life simply by getting pissed off and accusing you of something. It's insane.


it is and it pisses me off

in the case of rape or sexual assault, its is never "innocent until proven guilty" its always "guilty until proven innocent"

the burden of proof is on the accuser in all other cases, but not in sexual assault, its "hey he raped me, now he has to prove he didn't" instead of "hey he raped me, he is my evidence"

and then when proven innocent, nothing happens to the accuser of the false claims? its such utter bullshite

and it pisses me off that the women who are actually sexually assaulted, don't speak out louder about these false claims because they are diminishing what happened to you!

This post was edited on 6/11/15 at 11:19 am
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:19 am to
Looks like this is what lays at the bottom of why this bitch chose to ruin this poor guy's life.....

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This is one of the few cases where we have an actually good idea of what happened the night in question. Doe accompanied the accuser (who was Doe's girlfriend's roommate) to her dorm room. The accuser performed oral sex on a blacked out Doe (Johnson notes that even the Amherst hearing found Doe's account of being blacked out "credible"). Doe leaves. The accuser then texted two people: First, a male student she had a crush on — whom she invited over after a heavily flirtatious exchange earlier in the evening. Then, a female friend.

The accuser said during her hearing that she only texted one friend to help her handle the assault as she felt "very alone and confused." But her texts with her female friend give no indication of an assault. Rather, the accuser texted her friend "Ohmygod I jus did something so frickig stupid" [sic throughout]. She then proceeded to fret that she had done something wrong and her roommate would never talk to her again, because "it's pretty obvi I wasn't an innocent bystander."

She also complained that the other man, who had come over after the alleged assault, had taken until 5 in the morning to finally have sex with her.

The accuser found herself friendless after the encounter, when her roommate discovered what she had done.



I find it very odd that a woman who was just "raped" would immediately call another guy to come over and frick her that same night. frick this lying bitch.
Posted by Armymann50
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:20 am to
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guilty-until-proven-innocent
New standard in Merica
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:21 am to
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in the case of rape or sexual assault, its is never "innocent until proven guilty" its always "guilty until proven innocent"

the burden of proof is on the accuser in all other cases, but not in sexual assault, its "hey he raped me, now he has to prove he didn't" instead of "hey he raped me, he is my evidence"



Bingo. And from what the story says of the adjudication process at this college, they make it virtually impossible for the accused to defend themselves.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
63388 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:22 am to
I know a guy who was asleep when a woman who wanted to date him had sex with him. She got pregnant and he is still paying the bills for the kid.
Posted by JETigER
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Member since Dec 2003
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:23 am to
maybe his hand fell of the side of the couch or a pillow and coincidentally hit her in the back of her head?

If a girl is doing a blowjob and the boy's hand makes contact with the back of her head it is rape.

any boy must get consent before putting his hand on the back of a girl's head while she is blowing him or its rape.

Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:25 am to
I'll start taking the feminazis seriously when they actually start going after these false sexual assault claims

I know they won't, but they should because it diminishes real rape and the affects that it has on its victims
This post was edited on 6/11/15 at 11:26 am
Posted by PuntBamaPunt
Member since Nov 2010
10070 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:26 am to
They shouldn't be having premarital sex anyway.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
74690 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:28 am to
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by Salmon
I'll start taking the feminazis seriously when they actually start going after these false sexual assault claims

I know they won't, but they should because it diminishes real rape and the affects that it has on its victims




I was just thinking the same thing. You'd think victims of real rape would be up in arms over crap like this.
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1597 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:28 am to
That's a nightmare. I hooked up with a crazy chick who fed me vicodin like skittles after the bar. Luckily, the next morning I woke up to 4 used condoms next to my bed.
Posted by bobaftt1212
Hills of TN
Member since Mar 2013
1421 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:28 am to
No chance in hell I would go to a school like that.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:30 am to
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Luckily, the next morning I woke up to 4 used condoms next to my bed.



well at least she practiced safe rape with you,
Posted by Darth_Vader
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Member since Dec 2011
74690 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:32 am to
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That's a nightmare. I hooked up with a crazy chick who fed me vicodin like skittles after the bar. Luckily, the next morning I woke up to 4 used condoms next to my bed.


From a parent's perspective this makes me realize that just as I'll one day have to warn my daughter about going out to the bars and getting drunk in college, I'll also have to give my son the same warning.
Posted by Armymann50
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22482 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:33 am to
Good reason to get clipped young.
Posted by Captain Fantasy
Member since Mar 2013
1597 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:34 am to
Honestly, I didn't think twice about it until reading this thread. Wouldn't be a bad discussion to have.
Posted by Tiger n Miami AU83
Miami
Member since Oct 2007
45656 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:34 am to
I'm a single dude that sleeps around. I've had buddies ask me why I do some of the things I do with women and it's because there are way too many u just can't try and if you are going to sleep around, you take precautions.

1. No girl I sleep with knows my last name or how to spell my first.

2. I will not tell them where I work.

3. My phone number won't lead to my name by basic searches.

Just have to be safe. A couple of years ago, I had a girl I hooked up with once threaten to show up at my work and stuff. Actually asked me to give her money not too after she got pissed enough. I don't take chances anymore. As far as I'm concerned, all bitches are crazy and a threat to my money and career unless proven differently.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:35 am to
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No girl I sleep with knows my last name or how to spell my first.

2. I will not tell them where I work.

3. My phone number won't lead to my name by basic searches.


I'd bet the girls attorney could find out everything about you in under 2 hours.
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:38 am to
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I'm a single dude that sleeps around. I've had buddies ask me why I do some of the things I do with women and it's because there are way too many u just can't try and if you are going to sleep around, you take precautions.

1. No girl I sleep with knows my last name or how to spell my first.

2. I will not tell them where I work.

3. My phone number won't lead to my name by basic searches.

Just have to be safe. A couple of years ago, I had a girl I hooked up with once threaten to show up at my work and stuff. Actually asked me to give her money not too after she got pissed enough. I don't take chances anymore. As far as I'm concerned, all bitches are crazy and a threat to my money and career unless proven differently.


I'm in the same boat, but damn, dude. I think I'm just going to shift to the sex contract. I couldn't imagine having to use a burner phone just to date.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
74690 posts
Posted on 6/11/15 at 11:45 am to
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Honestly, I didn't think twice about it until reading this thread. Wouldn't be a bad discussion to have.



Well the sad truth of the matter is this story is not that isolated. I've seen a number of other similar stories lately. One that comes to mind is the idiot chick that drug a mattress around campus of some college for like a year or something to "protest" her alleged rape that was very much like this.

Bottom line is if you're a parent of a boy who will be entering college in the coming years, you'd damn better sit him down and warn him about the risks of being falsely accused of rape. Just as parents need to warn their daughters about not being put into a "bad situation", now we have to warn our sons as well. All it takes is one crazy or vindictive bitch to ruin your son's future and turn his life into a living hell.
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