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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:27 pm to dcbl
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:27 pm to dcbl
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he father approached my wife (no pics) after swim lessons, talked about how his brother has autism & suggested getting the girls together for a play date So, my wife texted him and told him to reach out & we would set it up
Ah the Ole play date line. And your wife willingly gave him her number. That’s a red flag brother
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:28 pm to dcbl
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My wife wants to ignore the situation unless he reaches out again, she hates the idea of this being made public and does not want attention brought to herself
This is another red flag
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:30 pm to dcbl
quote:Grow up. Take your wife's advice.
, I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:31 pm to High C
quote:it looks like the first text that she liked was about playdates
Nothing about that text is about kids playing together.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:32 pm to Jake88
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Grow up. Take your wife's advice.
I thought this at first, but the dude who sent THAT text needs to have someone in his fricking face, and likely ratted out to his wife since he's a guaranteed cheating scum bag.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:33 pm to dcbl
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talking about what I might do and taking actions are 2 different things
yes, she is a grown arse woman and can handle this, does not stop me from wanting to do something though...
Then, again, address him directly. None of that other business does anything but be passive aggressive and make it likely he tries to reach out to her again.
But I do think you need to have a conversation with her about shutting that shite down before it gets to that point. Once the inappropriate joke came, she should've responded (respectfully) in kind and like I said earlier ask that he pass her number along to his wife to set up the playdate (if she still wants to do that at this point).
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:33 pm to dcbl
Nah I would have to make as arse out of myself because I would confront him with a WTF? He plays it off, I would tell him , I don’t play that shite. Text her again and it’s gonna be a problem….so be it
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:34 pm to GRTiger
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This post was edited on 12/24/21 at 7:25 am
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:35 pm to dcbl
I get this all day everyday.
Be flattered everyone wants your wife.
I just laugh about it because I dont have a confidence problem.
Be flattered everyone wants your wife.
I just laugh about it because I dont have a confidence problem.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:35 pm to madamsquirrel
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it looks like the first text that she liked was about playdates
Sorry, I was referring to the long one that is obviously a come on. The one about play dates is just a door opener.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:36 pm to dcbl
quote:Pool board
I am pretty sure that his family would have their membership revoked if I took this to the pool board
quote:What? Then who gives a shite?
one of the rules is no alcohol allowed inside
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:36 pm to GRTiger
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I thought this at first, but the dude who sent THAT text needs to have someone in his fricking face, and likely ratted out to his wife since he's a guaranteed cheating scum bag.
If it doesn't affect you, who cares about he and his wife's business. She just needs to tell him to frick off and move on. She can likely never have to interact with this guy again.
Id put good money on everyone here saying to beat his arse or confront him is divorced at least once.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:37 pm to BluegrassBelle
I just handled it in what I think is the best manner
I won’t confront him in person, nor will I take this to the pool board
I just texted him THIS -
if I don’t hear anything else, this is over, if not, well, all bets are off...
I won’t confront him in person, nor will I take this to the pool board
I just texted him THIS -
quote:
Hey _____, DCBL here, ____'s dad from the pool - our kids will not be playing together and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me, leave her alone and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board - I hope we understand each other, thanks
if I don’t hear anything else, this is over, if not, well, all bets are off...
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 12:38 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:37 pm to dcbl
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and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board
PUSSY
I honestly can't think of a more, not only vaginal, but cringe worthy response.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 12:39 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:38 pm to dcbl
The frick
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:39 pm to dcbl
Your wife should have given him your number. Hell, my wife and I have a few pairs of mutual friend couples and we don't have the other sexes numbers, nothing good comes from it.
It's not a trust issue, it's just a temptation issue. Everyone is only human, so don't put yourself in a situation to be tempted.
It's not a trust issue, it's just a temptation issue. Everyone is only human, so don't put yourself in a situation to be tempted.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:39 pm to dcbl
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I am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked
Ok Karen.
quote:
Hey _____, DCBL here, ____'s dad from the pool - our kids will not be playing together and my wife gets all the massages she needs from me, leave her alone and PRAY that I do not take your text to the pool board - I hope we understand each other, thanks
A tad passive aggressive and threatening to go to the pool board is beyond lame.
You should have just walked up to him and said you appreciate that he thinks your wife is hot but to not text her shite like that.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 12:44 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:40 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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PUSSY
coming from Mingo?
I’d bet anything that he has done this before and will do it again
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 12:40 pm
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:40 pm to High C
A male got a female's number under the guise of something innocent so that he could shift the conversation to dick pics and sex soon after. Tale as old as time. A married man doesn't need a married woman's phone number who isn't a family member, neighbor, or family friend. Even family friend is pushing it because your wife should have her number. Your wife should be smarter. Unless she wants this.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 12:40 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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If it doesn't affect you, who cares
Is this argument ever not garbage?
What if he was beating her? You can have a different line, but to eliminate the line altogether is ignorant.
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