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re: Looking for Parenting Tip
Posted on 7/29/21 at 7:56 pm to saralsim
Posted on 7/29/21 at 7:56 pm to saralsim
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Kids with mental health issues aren’t the punish it out of them type of kids. It doesn’t work. But hard and consistent boundaries are a must.
Right and that comes in part of don’t comprise, don’t be like “yeah you can sleep with one boy but not 2” you have to shut that kinda stuff down and act like a parent, even if the kid hates you today, they will love you again tomorrow. Comprising because you want them to see you as your friend leads them down a path of “f it they ain’t gonna do nothing worth remembering”
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Posted on 7/29/21 at 7:58 pm to chilge2
Take her phone
Posted on 7/29/21 at 7:59 pm to chilge2
quote:Create distance. Get her emancipated, committed, put her in a military school or group home…something.
Yeah, she's had a rough life. Her biological father is a paranoid schizophrenic who's been in and out of prison and rehab her entire life.
She’s gonna drag you, your family, and your assets into her bullshite. And she isn’t even your kid?
No fricking thanks. She can go be a dirt merchant with her real dad.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:00 pm to GUAPLORD
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Her biological father
I didn't see this.
Lost cause. Focus on the others. 2 out of 3 ain't bad.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:01 pm to GUAPLORD
Yeah. Sounds like the apple fell close to the tree. Kinda sucks since you seem to care. Will always be a tough road for her. If she uses her dad as an excuse, then she always will. Good luck with fixing that.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:02 pm to chilge2
So pulling a train at 14 isn’t too drastic?? 
This post was edited on 7/29/21 at 8:05 pm
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:02 pm to Jones
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I would go to a professional for help. not the OT
Seriously. I can think of some stupid shite to post but listen to this guy.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:05 pm to chilge2
Get her into therapy. Something happened and she needs help.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:06 pm to chilge2
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spend the night alone with two boys her age.
Nice a 3 way. Dudes hit a home run
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:09 pm to chilge2
She needs a mental health evaluation. There are several conditions that result in the behavior that you have described.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:10 pm to chilge2
Start getting into all the stuff she’s into, then it won’t be cool to her anymore. You need to start vaping excessively, right now.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:11 pm to LRB1967
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There are several conditions that result in the behavior that you have described.
There is one condition - Satan
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:13 pm to TDsngumbo
quote:Don’t you dump your kids off all day at daycare?
I’d like to know how involved you were when she was younger. We’re you always around or always working?
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:15 pm to tigergirl10
Listen to tigergirl, she's given birth numerous times.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:15 pm to chilge2
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I am unbelievably pissed. Wife thinks I'm being too harsh and that we need to empathize so she doesn't do anything drastic to permanently harm herself.
No way this doesn't end in divorce.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:20 pm to chilge2
There is something serious mentally going on with your daughter. She needs professional counseling. I’m not a counselor, but I have a daughter who is struggling through some mental health issues and what you’re describing... cutting herself, sneaking out, lying, potentially sexually active... are all questions asked on the parent and self evaluation forms.
If she has a doctor she’s been seeing since youth contact them and explain the situation, they may want to see her, but they can certainly recommend a therapist. Depending on what she has she may need to see a few. Just get her the help she needs and eliminate her free time/social outings until you understand the situation.
If your wife continues to be oblivious, she’s probably part of the problem. Good luck and god bless you all.
If she has a doctor she’s been seeing since youth contact them and explain the situation, they may want to see her, but they can certainly recommend a therapist. Depending on what she has she may need to see a few. Just get her the help she needs and eliminate her free time/social outings until you understand the situation.
If your wife continues to be oblivious, she’s probably part of the problem. Good luck and god bless you all.
This post was edited on 7/29/21 at 8:21 pm
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:21 pm to chilge2
I feel your pain brother, my 16 year old son has been lying and vaping. It got so bad last year they wanted to send him to alternative school. I tried to scare him and tell him every one in there was an Aggie fan and he would get butt raped by some hood dude. I have stayed on his butt since, he seems to have calmed down this summer. Maybe he is just saving up for school to start. Although he did back into our garbage can by the road and told his brothers friend and parents that he wasn’t going to tell us and we could find out on our own.
This post was edited on 7/29/21 at 8:22 pm
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:23 pm to chilge2
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Wife thinks I'm being too harsh and that we need to empathize
You need to straighten your wife out. You better get control of your daughter or she will be a homeless meth head. Kids these days get coddled to much
Posted on 7/29/21 at 8:28 pm to Lsupimp
I have been looking at the comments, a lot of people suggest counseling; but sad to say, a lot of counselors today are worthless! Remember, a lot of these so-called professionals today are the same people taught and believe in everything from critical race theory to 27 genders!
I suggest you have a serious heart to heart talk with your daughter on reality of her actions. Your wife also needs to be 100% behind you- if the two of you cannot agree on possible drastic disciplinary actions that may be required, then you will 'lose' your daughter and your marriage will also likely turn to the shitter...
I suggest you have a serious heart to heart talk with your daughter on reality of her actions. Your wife also needs to be 100% behind you- if the two of you cannot agree on possible drastic disciplinary actions that may be required, then you will 'lose' your daughter and your marriage will also likely turn to the shitter...
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