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Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:33 pm to
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33365 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:33 pm to
2 pages and we know she's 24, and not a damn person has asked for pics yet??? This place is turning into a bunch of pussies.

Pics???
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:35 pm to
Cheat on her right away. That way you can at least say you did it first.
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64206 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:38 pm to
ER MD. Works for me. But my GF is in NOLA
Posted by Im Joe Pesci
Member since Jan 2017
8 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:38 pm to
Sorry no pics. But you saw pics you'd understand why part of why this decision is so hard.
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
29644 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:40 pm to
Never said they don't work. Just confused why he needs our help when it really is relationship specific and none of us know his relationship.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
298305 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:40 pm to
I was in a relationship with someone 600 miles away, would fly there twice a month.
Posted by Im Joe Pesci
Member since Jan 2017
8 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:41 pm to
Also this girls's family is from the city I'm moving to.
Posted by BR Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2004
4685 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:44 pm to
Dear Casey....
Posted by Parallax
Member since Feb 2016
1459 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:46 pm to
I did long distance for about 5 months and she was about 4 hours away. We had been dating a year whenever I moved. We had a plan to be in the same place eventually (I think that's important but 4 months may be too early to talk about that), but it ended up falling apart.

I'm still not sure whether trying distance was right or not. We had some amazing times together those long distance months I'll never forget, but that probably made things a lot harder once we split. Plus, it's hard to have a clean split when you're breaking up just because of distance. It took me awhile to get over her and I still think about her some several years later.

Not sure if that'll help any but that's my story.
This post was edited on 1/21/17 at 6:48 pm
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
29644 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:47 pm to
Exactly. It is more likely not to work than work and it will be much harder a year from now. I'd just rip the band aid OP.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18912 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:51 pm to
quote:

Worked for a friend, Louisiana to Massachusetts.... married 5 years dating for 9


Failed for my brother: Alabama to Massachusetts. They ended up married but were divorced within 3 years.

You'll hear both positive and negative stories from various experiences. I dated a girl long distance for a long time. She was marriage material, but we were too young. Ultimately I got tired of being jealous and lonely all the time.

You have to decide if you want to keep dating because you think she might be the one or if you just need to go ahead and rip the bandaid off even though you really like her.
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161246 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 6:53 pm to
Yea it worked for him they dated online a year then he moved North, after 2 years they moved here, now they have a home and kids.
Posted by Mr B Walker
Member since Jun 2015
174 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:03 pm to
get out
This post was edited on 1/21/17 at 7:05 pm
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:15 pm to
End it
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
6052 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:22 pm to
Pics of said girl are necessary for a proper answer.
Posted by Lawyers_Guns_Money
Member since Apr 2015
438 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:45 pm to
It depends on your age and what you are looking for.

An hour is easy. Almost a joke you are even nervous about it. You can see each other every weekend and even a couple nights during the week if you want.

I've been in a long distance relationship that requires flying and it's been easy. With FaceTime and all of that, it's really not a big deal. Granted I don't worry about money so flying several times a month doesn't bother me.

In fact, I'd say it's been better for me. I can focus on my job and other priorities (working out) during the week and then see the lady on the weekend. I feel when you are young it's important to not be completely reliant on somebody else.
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:47 pm to
it's hard.
This post was edited on 1/21/17 at 7:48 pm
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161246 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:48 pm to
Wanna date, ill move to BR
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
196128 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:49 pm to
quote:

it's hard.

TWSS
Posted by CBLSU316
Far Right of Left
Member since Jun 2008
11427 posts
Posted on 1/21/17 at 7:51 pm to
I had a long distance relationship for a year.......she is now my wife of 7yrs
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