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re: Kids' grandparents asking for medical consent for a few days of babysitting... thoughts?

Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:21 pm to
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
5998 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:21 pm to
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Is one of your in-laws an attorney or are they an ultra-high net worth couple?


Not lawyers, but yeah they have assets, but we also have their only grandkids and there won't be others.

My parents have more assets and we've never been down this road. But then again, my dad had me on a ladder on a front-end loader replacing tin roofing when I was 12... sooooo
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
50815 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:22 pm to
Just tell them if there is an accident, call us
Relax about about being sued gramps
This post was edited on 3/25/24 at 2:25 pm
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
5998 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:22 pm to
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Its always the wifes parents. I dont know why, but its always the wifes parents.


I gave you an up vote, post again and I'll upvote that, too.
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
5998 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:25 pm to
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Please let us have a look at this consent form


Your pediatrician almost certainly has them. All it does is name who you approve to make decisions for specific kids. I would be okay providing a note, I just don't want to fricking go to a notary over something that seems so trivial.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20120 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:28 pm to
Don’t fricking do it
Posted by sabbertooth
A Distant Planet
Member since Sep 2006
5276 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:29 pm to
Your kids wont get medical treatment without it.
Unless documents are witnessed and notarized maybe not even then.
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
14199 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:32 pm to
My parents never thought to ask but it’s really not a terrible idea if they’re keeping them and you’re out of town.
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
5998 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:33 pm to
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Your kids wont get medical treatment without it.


A phone call with us on the end doesn't suffice?
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4055 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:33 pm to
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Not lawyers, but yeah they have assets, but we also have their only grandkids and there won't be others.

My parents have more assets and we've never been down this road. But then again, my dad had me on a ladder on a front-end loader replacing tin roofing when I was 12... sooooo



Trust.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32458 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:36 pm to
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Your kids wont get medical treatment without it.

If there is an emergency situation, they most definitely will.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39582 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:38 pm to
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We have never done this or even considered it, but the in-laws are keeping the kids for the first time in 17 years and have asked for one.


I first read this as they watched your kids one time 17 years ago and got an extra chuckle at the idea of having medical consents for your now adult (18+) children.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175895 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:38 pm to
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I’ve never heard of this, and I’m a woman.
oh Walt
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
5998 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:39 pm to
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I first read this as they watched your kids one time 17 years ago and got an extra chuckle at the idea of having medical consents for your now adult (18+) children.


Our oldest is 16 and I'd leave him alone, but we do have younger kids, too. That, and he can be a butthole to the siblings lol.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
6417 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:44 pm to
Extreme. Like Cajun said, if they need actual emergency treatment, they're going to get it. I never once did it, even when mom and I were overseas for a week at a time.

You say they're not the sex change type, but what about the "get the v4ccine just to be safe" grandmother? That's the biggest risk I'm worried about.

Leave a copy of your health insurance and dental cards, the name of their pediatrician and dentist, the pharmacy you use (CVS, Walgreens, etc.) That should make them feel better than asking you to sign medical power of attorney to make non-emergency decisions for your kids.

I'm getting more creeped out as I type.
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
11281 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:46 pm to
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My same response. I just wanted to see how far off base I was.


The probably saw some random Facebook post about how risky it is not to and some kid died because the grandparents didn’t have it when babysitting

I doubt it’s anything terribly sketchy from their end (not knowing them at all and just projecting my own paranoid parent that will lose sleep over random social stories)
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20120 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:48 pm to
They are looking to cut your son’s dick off so they can brag to their lib friends about their tranny grandson … I mean granddaughter
This post was edited on 3/25/24 at 2:49 pm
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52996 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:50 pm to
They gonna bring the kids to the gender doctor
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
1651 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:50 pm to
Grandparents: "Pull the plug. We have the medical consent forms and can't get in touch with his parents. It's a tough call, but the right decision."

Doctor: "He's got a cold and you've only been here for 20 minutes..."
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
5998 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:51 pm to
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I doubt it’s anything terribly sketchy from their end (


I am 100% positive it's not sketchy, and I agree it's based off something they heard or saw.

The kids ride the bus. Their doctor is literally our friend.
We know all the neighbors. The oldest can drive. I am just not that worried but yeah, we will leave the list.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
21924 posts
Posted on 3/25/24 at 2:53 pm to
My wife and I went on a couple vacations without our kids and had 1 drawn up.
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