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Just helped a coworker confirm she was being catfished/scammed

Posted on 1/4/19 at 10:58 am
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 10:58 am
A coworker of mine solicited some advice from me regarding a conversation she was having with someone from a dating website.

Cliffs

Dude claimed to be a marine living in Baton Rouge but currently stationed as a "peacekeeper" in Turkey

Coworker saw obvious red flags but wanted to confirm with me due to my experience in IT and military. I helped her confirm this was a scam


Apparently the scam goes like this:

1. Chat up a girl on a dating website and build relationship
2. Use our societal reverence for military members to extract carepackages or explicit photos for blackmail

Red flags rasied by her
1. Claims to be Marine living in BR but raised in Germany (explaining broken English)
2. Claims to be in a warzone within Turkey and unable to be on the internet much
3. strikingly handsome man, like GQ model type handsome

Red flags raised by me

1. Dude said he was a "Marine Officer" but his profile pic showed him wearing the rank of E-5. I understand about "non-comms" but no real self respecting enlisted guy claims to be a "Marine Officer" when they are really a Sergeant

2. Another photo showed a guy dressed in MCCUUs standing outside wearing no rank, blurred name, and no cover

a quick google shows the Army Criminal Division investigating online romance scams
Army CID website

before you ask...no pics...Can't comment on looks because she might be on TD as well.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:00 am to
Mkay
Posted by Slagathor
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:00 am to
Apparently the scam goes like this:

1. Chat up a coworker that trusts you on a dating website and build relationship
2. Use our societal reverence for military members to extract carepackages or explicit photos for blackmail
3. When coworker comes to you for advice, that's when you pounce.

ETA: before you ask...no pics...Can't comment on looks because she might be on TD as well and I'm smashing it.


This post was edited on 1/4/19 at 11:05 am
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:01 am to
Thanks, I for one have lost a lot of money to models with broken english hitting me up on social media.
Posted by stapuffmarshy
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:01 am to
You are so brave.
Posted by Bunta
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:02 am to
quote:

before you ask...no pics...Can't comment on looks because she might be on TD as well.


No pics? Normal.

Not even a description?
Posted by LSU Wayne
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:02 am to
congrats?
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:02 am to
How hard up is she to get catfished? Usually it’s thirsty guys falling for that.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
17711 posts
Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:02 am to
quote:

You are so brave.



it's more about sharing the information in case others have a similar experience. I'm not a "look at me, I'm so great" type of guy
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:02 am to
Is she fat and desperate? She sounds fat and desperate.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:03 am to
quote:

Can't comment on looks because she might be on TD as well.

I assume this means she's ugly, fat, or both, which means the only red flag that matters
quote:

3. strikingly handsome man, like GQ model type handsome
Posted by NYCAuburn
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Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:03 am to
quote:

Apparently the scam goes like this:

1. Chat up a coworker that trusts you on a dating website and build relationship
2. Use our societal reverence for military members to extract carepackages or explicit photos for blackmail
3. When coworker comes to you for advice, that's when you pounce.


Seems like a good way to make a move on a weak co worker....
This post was edited on 1/4/19 at 11:04 am
Posted by NYCAuburn
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Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:05 am to
quote:

How hard up is she to get catfished? Usually it’s thirsty guys falling for that.


And women who are fat, ugly or both
Posted by Jack Daniel
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:06 am to
Thanks?
Posted by arkiebrian
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Posted by LCA131
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:06 am to
quote:

Just helped a coworker confirm she was being catfished/scammed


GREAT WORK, Jimmy Olsen.

Now get the frick back to work before I fire you and the fat loser on a dating website.
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
18245 posts
Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:08 am to
quote:

it's more about sharing the information in case others have a similar experience. I'm not a "look at me, I'm so great" type of guy


In 1997? There are nigerian princes who think this shite is weak. Your coworker sounds lonely and is trying to advertise to you that she's striking out in the love department, private.
Posted by Cump11b
Member since Sep 2018
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:11 am to
quote:

A coworker of mine solicited some advice from me regarding a conversation she was having with someone from a dating website.


quote:

before you ask...no pics...Can't comment on looks because she might be on TD as well.



Textbook frendzone... someone get this baw a beer and some new truck nuts


Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:11 am to
A very similar scam happened to my secretary (trust me, you do NOT want pics) a few years back.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17711 posts
Posted on 1/4/19 at 11:12 am to
quote:

Textbook frendzone... someone get this baw a beer and some new truck nuts



I'm quite happily married baw
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