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Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:08 pm to LSUJML
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I’d get a test done to be sure before I got emotionally invested
you know he found out on a DNA site, right?
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:08 pm to southpawcock
I do, you're right. My wife made me do it.
Thought it was a joke at first and someone trying to scam us. Then his wife sent me some pics to go check out on her FB and my wife immediately said, "he's your son".
Thought it was a joke at first and someone trying to scam us. Then his wife sent me some pics to go check out on her FB and my wife immediately said, "he's your son".
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:10 pm to LSUJML
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I’d get a test done to be sure
Yep they should definitely do some type of DNA testing to see how much they share. Wish there was some kind of at home test to use.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:10 pm to financetiger
The internet and Ancestry.com replaced uncomfortable phone calls wanting to know family health history.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:10 pm to financetiger
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What should I be worried about?
That your DNA is also going to be used to solve several cold cases from the late 80’s/early 90’s.
Also, the fallout from the OT for not including photos of said “one night stand”.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:11 pm to financetiger
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Wife knows and understands I was very young and never knew. She's not upset at all.

Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:11 pm to LoneStar23
This post was edited on 7/11/20 at 10:29 am
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:11 pm to financetiger
You owe his mom at me minimum $60K for unpaid child support.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:12 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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you know he found out on a DNA site, right?
Yes
I’d want a second opinion, I don’t think that’s too much to ask
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However, Ancestry does not use the standard Y-chromosome and/or mitochondrial DNA methodologies most others use -- so we know less about how they actually analyze DNA.
LINK
This post was edited on 7/10/20 at 6:15 pm
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:12 pm to financetiger
How do you feel about this? Obviously it worked out for everyone involved, but in the end you missed out on your son’s life. I really don’t know how I would feel about it.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:12 pm to financetiger
Big question is what are your thoughts on it? Are you pissed you missed out on his life? Or relieved if you weren’t ready at 19?
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:13 pm to financetiger
If it’s Mingo, DtG, or OweO, sorry in advance.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:13 pm to financetiger
Happened to a buddy of mine after a wild night at the Florabama. He found out when the kid was a teenager. They spent a few holidays together at first but drifted apart and are not in contact much.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:13 pm to LoneStar23
Nah, not ready to do that. My kids are teens themselves.
And this guy already has young children so to make it worse, I'm actually a grandfather.
Trust me, you don't want to see pics of the mom. My wife pulled her up to show her to me and she looks nothing like I remember.
Kid does look like me though. Just wanted some advice from anyone who may have had something like this happen to them.
On one hand if I foster the relationship, this involves grandchildren, holidays, etc.
On the other hand, I barely remembered the mom's name and she didn't even know mine. The man's wife says the child was raised by grandparents and he didn't have a relationship with his mom and says she would never tell her who his father was. I think it's because she didn't know.
Yes, trashy... I know. We were 18 and met at a bar.
And this guy already has young children so to make it worse, I'm actually a grandfather.
Trust me, you don't want to see pics of the mom. My wife pulled her up to show her to me and she looks nothing like I remember.
Kid does look like me though. Just wanted some advice from anyone who may have had something like this happen to them.
On one hand if I foster the relationship, this involves grandchildren, holidays, etc.
On the other hand, I barely remembered the mom's name and she didn't even know mine. The man's wife says the child was raised by grandparents and he didn't have a relationship with his mom and says she would never tell her who his father was. I think it's because she didn't know.
Yes, trashy... I know. We were 18 and met at a bar.
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:14 pm to financetiger
Yeah right every one knows you’re a little virgin nerd
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:15 pm to financetiger
I mean I guess it's better than having Ancestry.com linking you to an unsolved murder but congrats on the sex?
Posted on 7/10/20 at 6:16 pm to Barn_Owl
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so you come to TD asking for advice on this situation? holy crap...ur fuking pathetic.
This is exactly the right place for you. Tell us more.
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