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re: Is there a more hopeless feeling than being young and having massive amounts of debt?

Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:40 am to
Posted by zeebo
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:40 am to
If it’s massive it’s really someone else’s problem. Money problems are the best problems to have. Health is wealth.
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:40 am to
If he’s pulling in 6 figures he should have 200k paid off in 4 or 5 years.
Posted by Drunken Crawfish
Member since Apr 2017
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:41 am to
I wouldn't know. But losing my car keys/wallet after a night out is a pretty damn helpless feeling.
Posted by momentoftruth87
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:41 am to
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At least for a male. A female can always find some sucker to pay off all her debt for her.


Most young girls are hustlers and always on the move making money. I don't think a lot of them have guys paying for their shite. Most young guys are lazy compared to females.

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Guy that works for me is early 30s engineer, divorced, paying child support for two kids. Also tried to start his own consulting business a while back and failed. That put him owing loans he took out to get everything going. Also, the first year was successful, but got screwed by his accountant and his partner, and owes the IRS close to $200,000 (maybe more). They just started garnishing his wages for the next 15 years minimum.

He lives in a shithole $400/month apartment in a bad area of town just to try and save something. After working all day, he’s pretty handy so spends every night and weekend doing odd handyman jobs for cash so he doesn’t have to eat ramen noodles.

Overall, seems like a nice, humble guy that got taken advantage of one too many times. I’m not even sure I could go on living if I knew there was zero bright spots in my future.


Sounds like great ambition with poor choices.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:41 am to
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terminal cancer

parent with a child dying of an incurable disease

9/11 victims blocked in by fire in a skyscraper

passenger in plane careening from the sky



I can think of many more.


but...but, he lives in AN APARTMENT!!!
Posted by TH03
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Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:42 am to
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If he’s pulling in 6 figures he should have 200k paid off in 4 or 5 years.


A. This is fake
B. He has loans on top of back taxes
C. Probably doesn't make 100k
D. This is fake
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:43 am to
E. Both A & D
Posted by CarRamrod
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:43 am to
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divorced, paying child support for two kids
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That put him owing loans he took out to get everything going. Also, the first year was successful, but got screwed by his accountant and his partner, and owes the IRS close to $200,000 (maybe more)
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They just started garnishing his wages for the next 15 years minimum.
sounds like he made a lot of stupid mistakes. I mena paying child support should eliminate the choice to risk even more to start a business and get put in the hole he is in now.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:43 am to
Sounds like a guy who took an honest shot and didn’t make it. Also sounds like a guy determined to pay his debts by sacrificing what he can.

Seems like an OK a guy to me.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:43 am to
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If it’s massive it’s really someone else’s problem.


A really smart successful guy once told me, "If you owe the bank $50k, they own you. If you owe them $50 million, you own them."

There is a lot of truth to that. The more other folks are invested in your success, the more cooperative partners you'll have.
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:44 am to
I just assume he’s making $100k as an engineer with a side hustle as a handy man.
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:44 am to
Poor life choices
Posted by el Gaucho
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Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:44 am to
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Move to a foreign country when you have 2 kids? Yeah not likely

If the wife has them he won’t have to see them anymore. Win win
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:44 am to
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I’m not even sure I could go on living if I knew there was zero bright spots in my future.


quote:

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.


-Winston Churchill

Although your friend’s debt makes me feel a lot better about the comparatively minimal amount of debt I’ve got.
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
20611 posts
Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:45 am to
Sounds like he needs some advice from people that work with this sort of thing.

Based on the wage garnishment and other debts, there is a chance he could have his child support reduced.

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got screwed by his accountant and his partner, and owes the IRS close to $200,000


There are not many ways in which you owe this type of money to the IRS without having earned substantially more. If he was truly screwed over by his accountant, he could find another CPA firm to look over his records and could have a malpractice suit against his old accountant.

People get screwed over by partners all the time. But, considering everything else, probably wouldn't hurt to have an attorney to look at any business dealings for some relief. At this point he has nothing to lose.
Posted by TH03
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Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:46 am to


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I just assume he’s making $100k as an engineer with a side hustle as a handy man


Well, let's say he does. With child support, his loans, and his back taxes, he probably takes home like $20k
Posted by phutureisyic
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2016
3506 posts
Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:47 am to
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C. Probably doesn't make 100k


If he's an engineer, in his 30's, not making this then something is wrong. Unless he's an electrical or civil engineer of course.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
17116 posts
Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:51 am to
Well, you could owe what he does in debt, but instead of having the salary of an engineer, you could be making $10 an hour.
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:53 am to
Sounds like someone made bad decisions in life and is paying for them now.
Posted by dat yat
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Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 6/11/19 at 8:54 am to
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Guy ... early 30s Banker, divorced, paying child support for two kids.


This was me 2 decades ago, and I've been debt free for almost a decade. Best thing I did was buy a shitty shotgun double and fix it up. The rent helped while I lived there and the profits from the sale set me free.

Your boy has a long row to hoe, but at least he's not an old guy in debt.
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