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re: Is it upsetting to hear that a couple doesn't want children?

Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:32 pm to
Posted by CptBengal
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:32 pm to
just ignore him, he's literally too stupid to reason with.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:32 pm to
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I can't keep helping you along. I'm sorry.


So you're not backing down from your statements? Cool.
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:33 pm to
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because she'll suddenly decide she likes children and wants one





Solid argument. Hard to refute.
Posted by Pettifogger
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:33 pm to
Oh for sure, it happens to guys too

But the "out" for women is just so much more natural, and often, can involve ending a tortured relationship with the law entirely

Lawyers looking to move in house in their early 30s is almost as common as women getting the baby itch
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:33 pm to
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So you're not backing down from your statements?


Another example. I can't baby-step you through this.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:34 pm to
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Another example. I can't baby-step you through this.


Did your wife teach you to not go on record when someone is clarifying your position?
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:35 pm to
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just ignore him, he's literally too stupid to reason with.




I love LNCHBOX and his childlike retardation. It's usually entertaining, but not when I'm having a real discussion with good posters.
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:35 pm to
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Based on my career, but more so her career, I'd take any bet of any amount of money that in 5 years when she's 32/33, she'll be even more adamant about her not wanting children.


I'll take that bet all day long...30 is where the flip switches for women...lawyers in law firms especially - that job blows and is particularly rough on the ladies.
Posted by Lsupimp
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Member since Nov 2003
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:35 pm to
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We've been together 5 years already




Gee. Five whole years. That's like a lifetime for an aging adolescent. Let's see. At the five year point with Mrs Pimp, I was working in Japan, she was still in undergrad, and we hadn't figured it out either. And then...decades later...

What a youthful boy you are with all your little boy pronouncements to the men of the board on proper living-where to live, what to eat, where to vacation, why not to have kids, ad nauseam. Tell us more about the pitiable lives of the Bourgeoisie...just make sure to let us know when she either leaves you for a better man or you have a kid.Because one of those two things WILL happen. Guaranteed.

Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:36 pm to
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I'll take that bet all day long...30 is where the flip switches for women...lawyers in law firms especially - that job blows and is particularly rough on the ladies.


Deal. We'll bet sex LNCHBOX's wife. If you can last more than 3 minutes you'll have done her a great service.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:37 pm to
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Solid argument. Hard to refute.


there is nothing to refute

the majority of people that say they don't want kids in their 20s will eventually have kids

will it happen to you? who knows, just trying to prepare you

Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:37 pm to
I know I've told you this before, but you remind me of my mother. Like when I read your posts I read them in her voice.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:37 pm to
Is this fricking thing still going on? How are y'all not understanding this, good people have children and shitty people don't. It's pretty simple.
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:37 pm to
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will it happen to you? who knows, just trying to prepare you



You're trying to prepare me for not knowing?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:37 pm to
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Deal. We'll bet sex LNCHBOX's wife. If you can last more than 3 minutes you'll have done her a great service.


Again with the want to bang my wife.

Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86725 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:39 pm to
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You're trying to prepare me for not knowing?


no

I'm trying to prepare you for when you wife comes home and out of the blue hits you with "I want a baby" and all your preconceived notions about your life come crashing down

Posted by Sam4LSU
Member since Aug 2014
142 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:40 pm to
Asking people when or if they'll have children is completely inappropriate. It's not anyone's business what you and your fiancé decide. This question gets asked so frequently without thought. What if the couple can't have children? What if they just had a miscarriage? Just accept that people are morons, I guess and try to ignore their stupidity.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:41 pm to
Just let the dude frick your wife.
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:41 pm to
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no

I'm trying to prepare you for when you wife comes home and out of the blue hits you with "I want a baby" and all your preconceived notions about your life come crashing down


You already said this:
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will it happen to you? who knows,


So why would you prepare me for my wife wanting a child if you don't know if she'll ever want a child and she currently doesn't want a child? Why not also prepare me for her never wanting a child?
Posted by Clark W Griswold
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Member since Sep 2012
10952 posts
Posted on 5/15/17 at 3:42 pm to
There is really no reason to get married if you're selfish and don't want kids. You get married to start a family. It's like buying a house with a 3 car garage when you have no intentions of buying any cars. You might as well rent.

I can understand people not wanting kids in their 20s. You shouldn't even get married before 25 to begin with and everyone should have a few years together before kids. But people who never want kids usually are just selfish people in my opinion. I miss certain aspects of not being a parent but being a parent is the best thing a human can experience hands down.
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