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re: Is it okay to pursue a girl already in a relationship?

Posted on 8/21/19 at 2:55 pm to
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19897 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 2:55 pm to
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she then starts dating this other guy ( they're still together now)


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Not sure how to proceed


Why did she start dating the other guy instead of you two dating?
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16797 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 2:56 pm to
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She then goes on to say " you know I think about it all the time, what if me and this guy hadn't started dating... this is in the back of my mind constantly." I never knew she felt that way . Not sure how to proceed. ( No pics)


Tell her you feel the same way.

Of course you, you could end up as the husband who got cheated on for a student. Up to you.
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
38763 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 2:58 pm to
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Why did she start dating the other guy instead of you two dating?


Maybe convenience? She lives 2 hours from me. He's a dweeb anyway though... he's scared to fly so they don't go on trips to anywhere they can't drive to.

But her saying that to me was really strange... like go on and break up with the guy if she's already still thinking of me .
Posted by Ssubba
Member since Oct 2014
7539 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 2:59 pm to
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Are you a writer? Between this and your post-race post, you should be a writer.


Too kind, but I believe I just put too much effort into message board posting.
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
38763 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 2:59 pm to
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She sounds like the type of girl that would post daily baby updates on Facebook


Not at all actually... it's one of the reasons I liked this girl is we both despise shite like this on social media and would send each other nauseating posts from other people on FB and make jokes on it.
Posted by Ssubba
Member since Oct 2014
7539 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:02 pm to
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Not at all actually... it's one of the reasons I liked this girl is we both despise shite like this on social media and would send each other nauseating posts from other people on FB and make jokes on it.


Are you still interested in her? If she isn't married I would lay it out there and put the ball in her court.
Posted by The Funnie Five
Bluffington
Member since Feb 2019
3404 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:03 pm to
If she is willing to branch swing from another guy to you, what would assure you she wouldn't do the same to you and branch swing to another guy?
Posted by NFLU
New Orleans, LA
Member since Aug 2014
5872 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:04 pm to
Cousins don’t count, Spleen.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:07 pm to
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Too kind, but I believe I just put too much effort into message board posting.


Ssubba you get in that girls pants yet?
This post was edited on 8/21/19 at 3:08 pm
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:12 pm to
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I definitely wouldn’t pursue it like I would somebody that’s single, but if she takes her clothes off and asks me to bang her I'm not gonna say no if her bf is some random dude.



This is the right answer.

But just know that 99.99% of the time, she'll go back with him. She just wants to get stranger sex out of her system.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:14 pm to
Are we talking about cheating? If so, I'd be leary of a relationship that started with someone cheating.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59344 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:16 pm to
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I've always been interested in romance (500 Days of Summer and Annie Hall being among some of my favorite movies) so this love story line is in my wheelhouse


Posted by 225bred
COYS
Member since Jun 2011
21085 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 3:39 pm to
It worked for Eric Clapton
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
14937 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 7:54 pm to
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I pursued my wife when she was dating someone else. They had only been dating a short time and had only been on a few dates though, far from an exclusive thing. That guy was pissed though when she told him she was no longer interested.




I met my wife on a blind date. There was mutual attraction. I was in service and made another patrol, submarine duty. I expected to come back to see her. Four months later when I came back to the states she was engaged. I thought, so sad.
Six months later I ran into her, asked her out, she gave his ring back and we started dating. Six months later we were married. Its been fifty-one years of happy marriage. Best life decision I've made by a mile.
Posted by Shooter
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
9348 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 7:59 pm to
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Is it okay to pursue a girl already in a relationship?


Yeah, it's ok if you don't mind getting all your teeth knocked out!
Posted by BurningHeart
Member since Jan 2017
10131 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 8:09 pm to
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Six months later I ran into her, asked her out, she gave his ring back and we started dating. Six months later we were married. Its been fifty-one years of happy marriage. Best life decision I've made by a mile.


So you're a homewrecker
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
178330 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 8:21 pm to
Jim was a lazy piece of shite and trash for always messing with a great employee like Dwight.
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
14937 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 9:20 pm to
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So you're a homewrecker



Nope, Home Builder. We have have had a great life.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135028 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 9:21 pm to
Shooters shoot. If she’s happily in a relationship, she’ll let you know.

If not, she’ll let you know
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80823 posts
Posted on 8/21/19 at 9:23 pm to
Until she's married, she's fair game.
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