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Is arguing in general frowned upon in today's society?

Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:12 pm
Posted by Futures Bleak
Member since Jun 2014
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:12 pm

I either get called narcissistic or chastised for arguing with peers. Are people today just really just massive pussies who can't handle their reasoning being critiqued?

Has it always been like this?
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45568 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:13 pm to
Dollar General?

Yes
Posted by MasCervezas
Ocean Springs
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:13 pm to
quote:

I either get called narcissistic or chastised for arguing with peers.


Of course they are going to call you that. They are arguing with you
Posted by Marco Esquandolas
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:16 pm to
I argue with most--because I am usually right.

Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70474 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:16 pm to
Go frick you and your opinion
Posted by Futures Bleak
Member since Jun 2014
3545 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:17 pm to

I've had people break down emotionally and come close to physical harming me due to me fricking with their head
Posted by Mullet Flap
Lysdexia
Member since Jun 2015
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:19 pm to
quote:

. Are people today just really just massive pussies who can't handle their reasoning being critiqued?


No, you're just paranoid AF


quote:

Futures Bleak



Posted by MasCervezas
Ocean Springs
Member since Jul 2013
7958 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:20 pm to
Maybe you're just an a-hole. Ever think of that?
Posted by TigerDeBaiter
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:20 pm to
I like a good debate.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71847 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:21 pm to
Maybe you're just terrible at arguing.

People love to argue. It's almost unheard of that people will admit when they are wrong, though. They'll just drop it or change the argument. I don't think that's new.
Posted by Futures Bleak
Member since Jun 2014
3545 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

Maybe you're just terrible at arguing.



How do you come up with this conclusion?

I'm always composed and well mannered when i begin an argument with someone. The point after i prove the person wrong i tend to not let up. Gotta learn to let up on the gas sometimes i suppose
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71847 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:29 pm to
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How do you come up with this conclusion?


If you're always driving the other person to emotional breakdown or to the brink of violence, you're definitely doing something wrong.

People who are not good at debate simply hammer their opponent into submission. That isn't necessarily winning, if the goal is to convince them to change their view or opinion.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:33 pm to
I can't think of a time when society has been more argumentative than it has been now. We love a good argument, we just go to more extreme arguments to support our points.
Posted by Futures Bleak
Member since Jun 2014
3545 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:36 pm to
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That isn't necessarily winning, if the goal is to convince them to change their view or opinion.


Realistically, most people you meet at school or out and about are just blind to logic. Not everyone is going to respond well to an argument that questions their intelligence.
This post was edited on 10/14/15 at 10:38 pm
Posted by StrongBackWeakMind
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:38 pm to
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Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:38 pm to
Most people are terrible at debating, especially when it comes to politics or a social issue. They immediately resorts to ridiculous emotional arguments.
Posted by StrongBackWeakMind
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Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:39 pm to
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Posted by rmnldr
Member since Oct 2013
40402 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:39 pm to
quote:

I like a good debate.


Me too. And people hate me for it.
Posted by Agforlife
Somewhere in the Brazos Valley
Member since Nov 2012
20102 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:41 pm to
Nah it's more of "I reject your reality and substitute my own" from most people. It's tiresome but if it doesn't truly affect my life I let them walk around in ignorance, I have better things to expend energy on.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71847 posts
Posted on 10/14/15 at 10:43 pm to
There are three things I always consider before even starting a debate (not counting on this site).

1. Can the person be honest
2. Does the person respect me
3. Is this topic important (I.e. will "winning" benefit me in any way)

The answer to the first two must be yes. Otherwise, it's pointless.
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