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re: Infidelity in a marriage
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:45 pm to Huey Lewis
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:45 pm to Huey Lewis
You gonna murder baw?
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Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:48 pm to Gaston
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Everyone is every action they’ve ever taken. It’s just who you are. You can make up for bad decisions or actions but you aren’t wiping the slate. Be better, or don’t, but frick off with forgiveness. Sure as frick don’t forgive yourself.
What a retarded way to go through life
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:48 pm to Rex Feral
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If your spouse cheated on you
That's the end of trust, and no trust, no marriage.
Works both ways.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:51 pm to Rex Feral
I am generally in favor of leaving a cheater. If you forgive them and stay, they will just do it again. You can't fix a bad moral character.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:52 pm to LRB1967
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You can't fix a bad moral character.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:53 pm to Rex Feral
Women’s memory become short when it’s shite they do. But frick they’ll remember shite you did on the second date 20 years ago to throw in your face.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:55 pm to Rex Feral
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What are y'alls thoughts on this? If your spouse cheated on you and you stayed with her would you feel justified in cheating on them? I think the whole thing is sad. Martha broke the bonds of her marriage, but that doesn't give her husband the right to cheat. It's an interesting dynamic of two people who obviously want to be together and but the trauma from the first affair is too much to get over.
Im 99.99% sure both my wife and I are the extreme loyalist type who just aren’t wired that way. I feel more confident in this after 20 years together. I think of either of us ever cheated on the other and we stayed together it would be with the intent on making it work with each other. So I highly doubt I’d just start looking to hook up while still married.
If it wasn’t working out, I think I would just get the divorce and then pursue other women.
This post was edited on 11/15/24 at 12:56 pm
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:56 pm to JohnnyKilroy
OK, go through life doing terrible things only to be forgiven for them. Do it your way.
Accountability is terrible, I know…but you are everything you’ve ever done. Sorry to break that to you (seems fricking obvious though).
Accountability is terrible, I know…but you are everything you’ve ever done. Sorry to break that to you (seems fricking obvious though).
Posted on 11/15/24 at 12:58 pm to Gaston
quote:no chances at redemption?
but you are everything you’ve ever done.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:00 pm to GreenRockTiger
Be better. When you average it all out you aren’t the worst thing you’ve ever done…and you aren’t defined by the best you ever were either. Make decisions that reflect who you want to be and actively try to minimize falling short.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:03 pm to Gaston
So that’s redemption. Forgive yourself, and learn from it.
So you do believe in forgiveness
So you do believe in forgiveness
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:04 pm to Rex Feral
Young Martha Stewart
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:08 pm to Rex Feral
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She went on about how big of an arse he was and how women should never tolerate a cheater.
Women tolerate cheaters all the time.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:14 pm to tiggerthetooth
quote:possibly in direct proportion to that bank account
Women tolerate cheaters all the time.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:16 pm to Commandeaux
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frick outta here. Cuck Board.
Correct answer.
Someone cheats, they will do it again.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:18 pm to GreenRockTiger
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Forgive yourself
That’s not even a concept…no. I think you mean forget what you’ve done. Accept that you, or anyone else, haven’t always been perfect. Love people based the sum of their actions or choose not to…
It’s existentialism.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:18 pm to Zendog
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Young Martha Stewart
She was a good looking woman when she was younger. Even now, for an 80 year whore, she's held up pretty well.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:19 pm to Gaston
quote:right up my alley
It’s existentialism.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:23 pm to Rex Feral
I could not be with a woman I can’t trust. Without trust, marriage simply won’t work. And that is on top of the whole betrayal aspect of giving herself to another man. So cheating is the Rubicon as far as I’m concerned.
Posted on 11/15/24 at 1:23 pm to Gaston
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you aren’t the worst thing you’ve ever done
Ehhhhhh, infidelity is a pretty fricked up one here. That physical act is animalistic and a huge betrayal of trust, with the potential to mentally frick someone else up forever. You should be judged by this, at least forever in the relationship realm. Cheaters keep cheating.
Awaiting my friend ronricks opinion.
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