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re: Impossible to buy old men gifts

Posted on 12/17/24 at 4:38 pm to
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5448 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 4:38 pm to
Give him your time. A couple of hours shooting the shite with my oldest two that I don’t get to see as often as I’d like would be worth more than any material gift.
Posted by TechBullDawg
Member since May 2014
2095 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 4:38 pm to
Pick him up early Saturday morning, go for an all day ride in the countryside. Let the the wind blow you. Stop and eat wherever. Talk about life and thank him for everything. Best gift you could give him.

At least that's what I would do if my dad was still here.
Posted by Purplehaze
spring, tx
Member since Dec 2003
2322 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 4:40 pm to
For us old guys in our 70's, we have plenty of old-style pictures in photo albums. I am currently copying those pictures and adding captions so I can install it into my own electronic picture frame. So do Dad or Mom a favor.
Get them an electronic picture frame and the install all of those pictures into it. Do them in albums with captions. Then set it up somewhere convenient to run the pictures automatically. Show him how to recharge it. Copy those same pictures to your own resources. You will really appreciate it when they are gone.
Posted by Fencepimp
Brusly
Member since Jun 2022
1093 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 5:00 pm to
Just enjoy your time with him.
Posted by Eternally Undefeated
Member since Aug 2008
934 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 5:11 pm to
When I asked my Paw Paws what they wanted for Christmas (or any other occasion to buy presents), they would always say, "Just get me some socks, tee shirts or underwear." It frustrated me because I wanted to get them something nicer.

Now that I have reached the ages my Paw Paws were, I realize that it would not hurt my feelings to get nothing for Christmas, but that I really wouldn't mind getting "socks, tee shirts, or underwear".

Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
57030 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 5:14 pm to
Very nice long shoe horn. There are some expensive ones out there. I mean the type that is 18 inches to two feet
Posted by POTUS2024
Member since Nov 2022
20943 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 5:29 pm to
quote:

fareplay

is there anything in your life that doesn't result in you complaining like a little bitch?
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33237 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 5:41 pm to
If your Dad is anything like me (I’m 73) he probably doesn’t need or want anything you can buy.

My son is very well off and always wants to get me something. I’ve told him that all I need is to see him, his wife, and their two daughters. If they want to give me pictures in nice frames, fine.

Just go and spend time with your Dad and if you have kids - bring them along. I assure you it will make him happier than getting anything from a store.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100731 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 5:41 pm to
I bought my dad who loves fishing a smart bobber. It’s a bobber cork with built in sonar that sends the imagery to your iPhone so when you cast your line it shows where the fish are under it

Like 150 bucks. He will probably snag a tree and lose it day 1
Posted by hawgndodge
Member since Jun 2009
5353 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 6:06 pm to
Beef. Buy him a quarter of beef. Good quality, farm fresh beef.
Posted by Unobtanium
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2009
1854 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 6:24 pm to
I'm the same age as your dad, and if he says he doesn't want anything, take him at his word.

What he would like is your time - as other posters have mentioned, sit down and listen to him tell stories, make a picture book and get him to tell you about his parents, friends, war buddies, etc. If he drinks, buy a bottle of his favorite hooch, but only if you drink it with him.

Giving him your time is the greatest gift of all.
Posted by Larry_Hotdogs
Texas
Member since Jun 2019
1915 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 7:51 pm to
quote:

Festus


That ain’t gay, baw. Raising good people is a tough task. I’m going to think about that for my dad.
Posted by Trevaylin
south texas
Member since Feb 2019
9734 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 8:09 pm to
buy him a memory gram ap.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72999 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 8:15 pm to
quote:

My father is 66
Born in 1958 (unless his birthday is between 12/18 & 12/31).

He’ll like this.



Or this, if you’ve got more scratch-

Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
22962 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 8:20 pm to
My dad is 81. He gets a basket full of snacks to nibble on while watching TV. He loves beef jerky, nuts, Reeses cups, raisins, fruit, and peanut brittle
Posted by WMTigerFAN
Ouachita
Member since Feb 2005
4937 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 8:21 pm to
Ammo
Posted by Stumpknocker
SWLA
Member since Mar 2021
790 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 8:22 pm to
A smile & a few kind words….
Posted by double d
Amarillo by morning
Member since Jun 2004
17063 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 8:52 pm to
quote:

Take him out to dinner at his favorite place


This. My wife and her siblings started doing this for their parents. Each month we take them out as a family outing and rotate which couple pays for the parents meals. They have said it is the perfect present for them having everyone together once a month.
Posted by Nephropidae
Brentwood
Member since Nov 2018
2738 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:16 pm to
I think that’s awesome. Mine are young now, but I can imagine getting a personal hand written note (or even semi long form email or even text) would outweigh any material gift by far.
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
2718 posts
Posted on 12/17/24 at 9:22 pm to
I’m tired of getting all kinds of things except for the things I ask for. Women are exceptionally terrible at this. I tell them what I want and they say they “didn’t feel like giving me that”.

So they go out and get me something I didn’t ask for that they felt that I would like more. No, No, No,…………

Don’t ask me what I want if you are just going to “get me something YOU think I would like more”.

If I want or need somethingI lI’ll just go out and buy it myself instead of having to wait until after Christmas to fix up my tractor or motorcycle or truck.
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