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re: I'm Going To Break A Girl's Heart Tonight
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:50 am to OMLandshark
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:50 am to OMLandshark
It shouldn't be acceptable. Choosing to get married later or have kids later is cool. Being immature at almost 30 isn't. I think 23 is the cap on the kid mentality. Time to move forward. Not attacking you. You just brought it up, and it's a huge pet peeve with me. I see more and more 20 somethings who act like teenagers. Drives me nuts.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:50 am to TigerHam85
A word that is not used often enough
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:53 am to drunkenpunkin
Not everyone lives their life the same way, and as far as I can tell no one has proven a way to live is the right one.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:53 am to fightin tigers
I just want an update damnit.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:54 am to drunkenpunkin
Who said anything about being immature? Being 27, having a good job, and not wanting to get married is not immature.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:56 am to TheIndulger
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Who said anything about being immature? Being 27, having a good job, and not wanting to get married is not immature.
I don't understand why some people feel there's a reason to judge how anyone else wants to live their life. Marriage is a big decision and if you don't feel ready for it, it is the mature decision to not get married. That doesn't make you immature.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:57 am to bamafan1001
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Your logic doesn't compute. You say sex before marriage is to determine if you are sexually compatable but you had sex with your first wife before yall were married correct? Why did you still marry her if you weren't sexually compatible?
In the beginning it was great. Both still learning and enjoying that dopamine rush and she still wanted to please me.
We abstained for several months before we got married. And after we got married it just got to be less and less and less.
I wish my marriage hadn't turned out like it did. I wish I had been a better person and she would have tried harder through the rough spots. I wish it was all different.
But it isn't. And it wasn't.
That being said...I really do hope that someone awesome comes along and shows me the light and makes all these ashen words fall away.
Someone that makes me a Better man and who I make a better woman.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:57 am to TheIndulger
He did. Please read. I said knowing you're not ready for marriage and kids is one thing but saying 27 is the new 22 is silly. He has since retracted. But, that's a common attitude I see in 20 some things. Peter Pan syndrome. I have a cousin who is 28, a career (good) student, still lives at home and parties all the time. That's ridiculous.
This post was edited on 11/13/14 at 9:58 am
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:59 am to uway
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A great marriage is one of the best things you could get in life. Why should it be easy to get? Oh you want a lifelong partner who will love you, support you, share your dreams and visions, make you a better person, be a great parent to your offspring, etc and you want to not have to work to get that? Good luck with that.
And where do they make these wonderful women?
Posted on 11/13/14 at 9:59 am to drunkenpunkin
I have faith in my generation that once they roll into their 30s, they'll grow up quickly. I don't see what the big deal is still having a ball in their 20s so long as they're not hurting anyone or the country as a whole.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:00 am to CurDog
quote:He's been getting stabbed. Why you think he's dumping the girl?
so what went down with this? did lucky get stabbed?
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:01 am to drunkenpunkin
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But, that's a common attitude I see in 20 some things. Peter Pan syndrome. I have a cousin who is 28, a career (good) student, still lives at home and parties all the time. That's ridiculous.
You seem very judgmental.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:01 am to fr33manator
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And where do they make these wonderful women?
most are coming from Philippines lately.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:02 am to fr33manator
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And where do they make these wonderful women?
They're out looking for wonderful men?
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:02 am to fr33manator
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Someone that makes me a Better man and who I make a better woman.
Make yourself the better man....the rest will happen naturally.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:03 am to drunkenpunkin
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I have a cousin who is 28, a career (good) student, still lives at home and parties all the time. That's ridiculous.
You sound bitter and jealous. Sorry for partying...
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:04 am to OMLandshark
You sound independent. But many still live at home in their mid-late 20s. Growing up in stages is one thing. Making smart, calculated choices is a great thing and builds a foundation for a successful life. But, there are way too many that have an immature attitude. They are also the worst coworkers. They tend to spend more time trying to look busy rather than working. This is an ongoing topic of conversation among my friends. Common nowadays.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:04 am to CptBengal
Real talk.. Find happiness through yourself, not others.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:04 am to drunkenpunkin
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but saying 27 is the new 22 is silly. He has since retracted. But, that's a common attitude I see in 20 some things. Peter Pan syndrome. I have a cousin who is 28, a career (good) student, still lives at home and parties all the time. That's ridiculous.
Why?
Should he be looking to provide a home, job, and then kids to some whore who slept her way through college and has no discernible skill?
Why should he do that?
Why shouldnt he live his life as he chooses. Isnt that what you moronic feminists always crow on about "my life, my choice"
get fricked.
Posted on 11/13/14 at 10:04 am to SouthOfSouth
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I don't understand why some people feel there's a reason to judge how anyone else wants to live their life.
Your viewpoint is becoming more common, because more and more people are delaying marriage and kids.
I guess you could have children and still see your neighbors behaviors and beliefs about life as completely irrelevant, but I don't see how you could love your kids and remain indifferent to what kind of world they will grow up in.
We are still a community even if people don't realize it anymore.
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