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I’m glad it happened to me...I’m a better person for it.

Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:07 pm
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
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Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:07 pm
I was just watching a video of a woman who said she was molested and raped repeatedly by her biological father. She said that she’s a better person for it and it brought her closer to God. She believes because of it she can relate to other victims and what satan meant for harm God has worked it out for good.


I guess some people are on a different level of spirituality and acceptance.

Not sure I could ever see that situation the way she does. Could you?
This post was edited on 10/1/18 at 9:18 pm
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:08 pm to
frick santan
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64079 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:09 pm to
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Not sure I could ever see that situation the way she does. Could you?




Yes because the alternative is far worse.


I dont see any other way to make it a positive.


It's not like she can go back and make it not happen, she has found a positive acceptance of it. Great for her.

This post was edited on 10/1/18 at 9:10 pm
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
12319 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:09 pm to
Her way of dealing with it would be better than my way.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:09 pm to
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santan


Who?
Posted by PearlyBaker
Member since Dec 2017
441 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:10 pm to
I don’t understand it but hey if that’s her way of getting past something terrible like that I can’t fault her for it.
Posted by heatom2
At the plant, baw.
Member since Nov 2010
13060 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:11 pm to
I don't believe in a higher power, but if it helps her cope then good for her.
Posted by Yellerhammer5
Member since Oct 2012
10978 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:11 pm to
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Who?


Satin
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
60561 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:12 pm to
I am betting that she has just talked herself into that as a coping mechanism....glad the poor girl has found a way to somewhat deal with that, though.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:12 pm to
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I don’t understand it but hey if that’s her way of getting past something terrible like that I can’t fault her for it.



How much therapy you think it took to reach that point?
Posted by Morty
Member since Feb 2018
2252 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:13 pm to
It’s like when the victims say they forgive their attackers. They are not forgiving them to make the attackers lives easier but to make their own lives better.
This post was edited on 10/1/18 at 10:46 pm
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:13 pm to
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frick santan


My 6 year old son is named Satan you damned pedo!
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31284 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:13 pm to
I disagree with her, I think she’d be better off if he hadn’t done that.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
194649 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:13 pm to
quote:

Who?


Satin

myabe it was Santa Anna

he was a sneaky bastard
Posted by Pico de Gallo
Member since Aug 2016
1894 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:14 pm to
You watched an actual video of it happening? That's disgusting.
Posted by JackStraw72
Dallas
Member since Jul 2018
37 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:14 pm to
she can say whatever she wants but she'd be better off if it never happened.
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:14 pm to
quote:

glad the poor girl has found a way to somewhat deal with that, though.


Crazy what me can rationalize when dealing with trauma like that.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72793 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:14 pm to
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frick santan
Your language
a) is appalling
b) is difficult for real Murkins to understand
c) indicates you know secrets about this subject
Posted by Tester1216
South Louisiana
Member since Jul 2018
22149 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:15 pm to
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You watched an actual video of it happening? That's disgusting.


It was a video of her talking about it and sharing her story to victims of abuse.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 10/1/18 at 9:15 pm to
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Satin



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