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re: I'm angry that my sister is dead.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:09 pm to CaliforniaTiger
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:09 pm to CaliforniaTiger
The five stages are real. Try to remember something about your sister that made you laugh or a humorous situation you two shared. Melatonin might help a little and is not a drug. Each stage takes its own time and is different for everyone.
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Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:11 pm to ColdTurkey
I’m sorry about your sister. Anger is a natural part of the grieving process but it sounds like you could use some help managing right now.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:11 pm to ColdTurkey
quote:You are not. You are dealing with grief. I went through a horrible time with it and depression after my parents and fiancé died in my late 20’s. Got on medicine and grief counseling saved my life.
I'm scared to go to a hospital and get look at like I'm crazy
quote:It’s 100% your health, your decisions. If you don’t like a doctor or treatment options, you don’t have to choose it.
with whatever they choose to do
Please get help so grief doesn’t ruin years of your life like it almost did mine.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:13 pm to ColdTurkey
Oh sweet friend. Please reach out to me asap
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:15 pm to ColdTurkey
quote:Sign that it’s time to speak to someone immediately.
it's fricking destroying everything
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:15 pm to ColdTurkey
When I lost my daughter , I went through it. There is not a lot that will help other than talking it out
Trust me. Good luck to you and sorry you lost her.
Trust me. Good luck to you and sorry you lost her.
This post was edited on 3/6/23 at 5:16 pm
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:19 pm to LSUJML
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Do you have a PCP?
If so, talk to them
There are also a lot of counselors & therapists that do tele-health now
You need to talk to someone
I do and she referred to me a place in Monroe that didn't call until late SATURDAY night to schedule appt and everything. I'm going tomorrow. They wrote me something that hasn't worked. Ativan hasn't worked either.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:21 pm to OldmanBeasley
I'm not mad at you I'm sorry I cuss like a sailor when I get like this
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:23 pm to mmcgrath
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They deal with it by going to a doctor or hospital and getting help. Get help, please.
Especially since he’s currently angry. Anger one of the earlier stages of grief. Depression is one of the latter stages, and it’s on the horizon.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:26 pm to HoustonChick86
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Oh sweet friend. Please reach out to me asap
Hey lady. I think I'm losing my shite on the OT completely sober.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:32 pm to ColdTurkey
You need to get professional help sooner rather than later. The longer you go without sleep, the less rational you’ll be and you’ll end up in a vortex that’s going to end badly.
When my first sibling passed away, I was sad, of course, but saw what a great person he was, how many lives he impacted, what a great legacy he was leaving behind, etc. and realized he had a pretty great life big picture. Your sister would want you to be happy. Imagine how you’d feel if the roles were reversed and you were looking down at your sister.
When my first sibling passed away, I was sad, of course, but saw what a great person he was, how many lives he impacted, what a great legacy he was leaving behind, etc. and realized he had a pretty great life big picture. Your sister would want you to be happy. Imagine how you’d feel if the roles were reversed and you were looking down at your sister.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:35 pm to ColdTurkey
Do you want to chat. I can give you my number really quick.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:35 pm to ColdTurkey
I know the feeling my man. Lost my sister to cancer and she had two young daughters. Life just isn’t fair many times especially when crackheads and thieves live on after all the BS they put their bodies through yet living a normal healthy lifestyle still kills you. F’d up.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:36 pm to tigergirl10
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You are not. You are dealing with grief. I went through a horrible time with it and depression after my parents and fiancé died in my late 20’s. Got on medicine and grief counseling saved my life.
quote:
with whatever they choose to do
It’s 100% your health, your decisions. If you don’t like a doctor or treatment options, you don’t have to choose it.
Please get help so grief doesn’t ruin years of your life like it almost did mine.
When I called my dad and told him he blew up because no one told him she was struggling to that damn point. I found out on facebook by seeing her obituary posted by her biological mom. I didn't know where she was for years. We were so close when we were younger and I never knew she was hurting. I would've been there. I begged her to come home in 2021 when she reached out, then she went ghost until she moved back to Nola and had a heart attack. I'm fricking angry. I miss her face so damn bad and there isn't shitni can do about it but let it work itself out?
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:38 pm to ColdTurkey
As others have said, definitely talk to someone. I’ve been on both sides as the therapist but also as someone who lost a sibling.
Psychology Today will give you the options of selecting your area, your insurance, and under “issues” will let you select grief to find someone specifically for that.
I’m sorry. Losing a sibling is hard. And difficult when it feels like everything is geared towards the loss of someone else (I.e. parent losing a child, spouse losing a spouse, etc).
Psychology Today will give you the options of selecting your area, your insurance, and under “issues” will let you select grief to find someone specifically for that.
I’m sorry. Losing a sibling is hard. And difficult when it feels like everything is geared towards the loss of someone else (I.e. parent losing a child, spouse losing a spouse, etc).
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:39 pm to ColdTurkey
So sorry for your loss, I dealt with this too with a close loved one aswell, you're not alone
I feel like the best way to deal with this is to talk to someone who you trust, at-least that's how I dealt with the loss of a loved one. It helps alot, trust me. I talked to a therapist when I lost someone I really loved, and I felt a little better every time I came in for an appointment, and it helped immensely.
Good times will come friend, best wishes towards you and your family
I feel like the best way to deal with this is to talk to someone who you trust, at-least that's how I dealt with the loss of a loved one. It helps alot, trust me. I talked to a therapist when I lost someone I really loved, and I felt a little better every time I came in for an appointment, and it helped immensely.
Good times will come friend, best wishes towards you and your family
This post was edited on 3/6/23 at 5:41 pm
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:44 pm to ColdTurkey
quote:i did it with a combination of Xanax and ambien. I dont suggest you take that route if it's offered.
I don't get how people with chronic insomnia deal with it at all
This post was edited on 3/6/23 at 5:45 pm
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:47 pm to ColdTurkey
Anger is but 1 stage of grief.
Have you already been through bargaining?
Have you already been through bargaining?
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:48 pm to ColdTurkey
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I'm not mad at you I'm sorry I cuss like a sailor when I get like this
That was one of the nicer things said to Oldmanbeasley today.
Posted on 3/6/23 at 5:50 pm to HoustonChick86
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Do you want to chat. I can give you my number really quick.
That'd help. Talking to everyone grieving the same death doesn't work at all.
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