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Im 40 and losing interest in alot of things

Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:04 pm
Posted by SmogkDeizKnutz
Member since Feb 2023
413 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:04 pm
Kids/wife are still super important and taken care of.

Things that I lost interest in:
Sports (used to rule weekends with game on drink/cooking)
Cooking (see above)
Dancing/Going Out
Bought a bunch of gear to start fishing, never even went yet.
No motivation or get up and go.

Is this a normal thing? Everything just seems so routine now and just heading down a boring path.

I know 95% of Adulting is work, bills wash repeat, but starting to get old.

This post was edited on 12/10/24 at 4:06 pm
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29864 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:05 pm to
ITT: peptides
Posted by Byrdybyrd05
Member since Nov 2014
26050 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:05 pm to
Blow and hookers
Posted by PetroBabich
Donetsk Oblast
Member since Apr 2017
4920 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:06 pm to
Maybe your just a boring schlub. No shame in it.
Posted by SDVTiger
Cabo San Lucas
Member since Nov 2011
87011 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:06 pm to
You have low T
Posted by bad93ex
Walnut Cove
Member since Sep 2018
30668 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:06 pm to
Get your T levels checked, sounds like depression.
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
5876 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:06 pm to
Male syndrome. You hit a career wall and want to give it up but can’t because people rely on you and don’t want to be a failure so you go into default robot mode
Posted by 21JumpStreet
Member since Jul 2012
14770 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:06 pm to
Same. Google says anhedonia
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
27852 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:07 pm to
quote:

Sports (used to rule weekends with game on drink/cooking)


I’m 38 and don’t watch any NBA outside of my team. The sport I loved most was CFB, but I’m just not too excited about watching a popularity contest played by mercenaries that make way more playing a game than I will sniff in my lifetime.

MLB resembles what I loved as a kid, but again…seeing pampered $750 mil athletes play like shite in the field isn’t really how I wanna spend my free time.

I’m old and cranky.
Posted by Philzilla
Member since Nov 2011
1982 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:08 pm to
Sounds like heart failure.
Though I’m not a doctor, or particularly good a math.
Posted by LSUBanker
Gonzales, La
Member since Sep 2003
2600 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:09 pm to
Start hitting the gym and lifting weights.
Posted by WhoGeaux
Member since Apr 2011
4934 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:10 pm to
Between work, family, and kids sports/activities I don't have much time to allocate to my own interests.

When the kids are grown I'll get back to those things and living like I'm 25 again.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
33985 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:10 pm to
Dumb question given these times, but have you been overly stressed?

I’ve been going through bouts of this as well for a while, usually bad some days at a time and then better for a couple weeks. Seems like stress related, could be other things. Still monitoring.

This post was edited on 12/10/24 at 4:12 pm
Posted by Palomitz
Miami
Member since Oct 2009
2436 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:12 pm to
quote:

Is this a normal thing?


Well, you are getting older.

quote:

Everything just seems so routine now and just heading down a boring path.


Wait until you get to 50 or 60. You're just getting started.

I'm 52 and I lost total interest in being hungover Sat. & Sundays.
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
33847 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:12 pm to
quote:

Google says anhedonia


Yup, it can be a symptom of depression.
Posted by Cocotheape
Member since Aug 2015
4242 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:13 pm to
Move your family across the country away from all family, that spices things up
This post was edited on 12/10/24 at 4:13 pm
Posted by reggierayreb
Member since Nov 2012
17954 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:14 pm to
Just gotta keep grinding bother. It's not easy.




quote:

Bought a bunch of gear to start fishing, never even went


You got some good fishing tackle/rods/reels for sale Baw ?
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
54299 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:15 pm to
Nah, you're good. Went through the same thing a few years ago.

You got the priorities straight (Kids and family first) everything else will fall into place.

Only sport I watch consistently now is CFB and that's it. Quit watching MLB and NBA 25 years ago and quit the NFL a few years ago. That shite isn't important.

I did get back into cooking. I recommend that.
Posted by blueridgeTiger
Granbury, TX
Member since Jun 2004
21699 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:15 pm to
I'm 83 and still enjoy good sex, good Scotch, good Cuban cigar, my Porsche and honky-tonking with my lady. Life is good.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
105398 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 4:16 pm to
One poster suggested yesterday that men these days arent spending time being naked with other men the way they did in the old days. Been really ruminating on this one. Could be something to it.
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