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re: If you are a swinger, what is the point of getting married?

Posted on 8/14/25 at 5:30 pm to
Posted by N2cars
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 5:30 pm to
I know it's "cringe" to say "cringe" now, but damn, that is cringe AF.
Posted by forkedintheroad
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 5:54 pm to
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Thats why you have a swing partner. An unattached female "friend" who you take to the parties.


I'm pretty sure she'd get kicked out as soon as she starts turning everyone down.
Posted by Finch
Member since Jun 2015
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 6:13 pm to
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Because I like watching my wife, get her pussy eaten and titties sucked by a few other girls at the same time


While their dates make sure all your wildest fantasies are fulfilled
Posted by pelicanpride
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Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:28 pm to
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I don't think that's true at all.


Nothing is universal, but that basic premise has been replicated many times. Just Google emotional vs sexual infidelity men vs women. Here is one of the first things that popped up.

“On average, men report feeling more distress over physical infidelity. In a study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior, researchers asked over 250 college students to imagine their partner either having sex with someone else or falling in love with someone else. A majority of men said the physical betrayal would upset them more.

That finding has been echoed in more recent surveys, including a study of over 60,000 people by Frederick and Fales (2016), in which over half of male participants reported that sexual infidelity felt more upsetting than emotional betrayal… In contrast, women in those same studies more often said that emotional betrayal—when a partner develops feelings or emotional closeness with someone else—was more painful.

In Frederick and Fales’ study, 65% of women said they would be more upset by emotional infidelity than sexual cheating. Many described emotional betrayal as a sign that their partner had already “left” the relationship in some core way—even if they hadn’t physically strayed.” LINK



Posted by Sunnyvale
Member since Feb 2024
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:32 pm to
Ive been thinking of booking a trip to that place in Cancun,

Temptations. I think you can go solo.

I dont think you have to bring somone.


Has anyone Been to Temptations or Desire in Cancun? IF so please post.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:38 pm to
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Ive been thinking of booking a trip to that place in Cancun, Temptations. I think you can go solo. I dont think you have to bring somone. Has anyone Been to Temptations or Desire in Cancun? IF so please post.
why not just get a couple hookers off Santa Clara Street and call it a day ?
Posted by Sunnyvale
Member since Feb 2024
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:42 pm to
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why not just get a couple hookers off Santa Clara Street and call it a day ?



Im not against it.

But, I was hoping to meet people at those resorts and network. Into a something else.
Posted by STLDawg
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:48 pm to
Can’t be swinging all the time
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:19 pm to
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RogerTheShrubber


Temu WikiTiger
Posted by PerryWinkleBlue
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:29 pm to
Point is that your spouse is hotter than you are and has hotter potential “friends”
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:46 pm to
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why not just get a couple hookers off Santa Clara Street and call it a day ?

Had a Vegas trip about 15 years ago. After a couple hours in the VIP room at the Spearmint Rhino, wife had a good time and requested a hot blonde with blue eyes for the room. Called a recommended service from a Plastic surgeon there. Went down to meet her and they'd sent the OPPOSITE. Wife called back and said she wanted ARYAN not AFRICAN. They told her the girl was Italian and I just didn't recognize it. She informed them that I was Italian and knew difference. We took that as a sign and haven't tried again.

I don't know that I've ever seen a real prostitute out in the wild.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 9:36 pm to
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After a couple hours in the VIP room at the Spearmint Rhino, wife had a good time and requested a hot blonde with blue eyes for the room.
Posted by Sunnyvale
Member since Feb 2024
1998 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:26 pm to
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Thats why you have a swing partner. An unattached female "friend" who you take to the parties.



I usually get "friend zoned" pretty quickly so this will be my new angle.

Then I get to comfort her, when she is down emotionally and after the physical discomfort because of the effects of the train getting ran on her.

Then after years of getting ragged out, her body has been slowly breaking down, putting on 5 pounds of weight /year, after 100s of partners and heavy heavy financial debt. We can finally be "more" than friends.
This post was edited on 8/14/25 at 10:45 pm
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:55 pm to
Sounds full proof. What are you waiting for?
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
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Posted on 8/14/25 at 11:36 pm to
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I usually get "friend zoned" pretty quickly so this will be my new angle. Then I get to comfort her, when she is down emotionally and after the physical discomfort because of the effects of the train getting ran on her. Then after years of getting ragged out, her body has been slowly breaking down, putting on 5 pounds of weight /year, after 100s of partners and heavy heavy financial debt. We can finally be "more" than friends.

Damn you're cringey as frick.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 8/15/25 at 12:05 am to
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Has anyone Been to Temptations or Desire in Cancun? IF so please post.


My BiL and SiL went with another couple maybe 15-20 years ago. They enjoyed it but it was also during a part of their lives where they weren’t in a good place.

The one thee couple had the wife go lesbian and the husband went a bit nuts and they divorced afterwards.

My in-laws calmed down a good bit after that. I’ve never asked questions but I’m confident they were in that lifestyle for a bit of time and bowed out.
This post was edited on 8/15/25 at 12:07 am
Posted by RustyDaDog
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Member since Mar 2023
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Posted on 8/15/25 at 1:34 am to
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trust me, y'all don't want pics

I’ve known a few over the years, some hot some not. Some older or middle aged a few 30somethings.

Parties are generally invite only, single women usually get in free and single men are limited to 5/10% of the overall attendance and get charged a good bit more than the couples attending.
Posted by Breesus
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Posted on 8/15/25 at 5:30 am to
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Sounds full proof


Like a good bourbon
Posted by White Bear
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Posted on 8/15/25 at 5:38 am to
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I don't know that I've ever seen a real prostitute out in the wild.


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Had a Vegas trip about 15 years ago.
Vegas is crawling with them.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35522 posts
Posted on 8/15/25 at 5:46 am to
My aunt and uncle were swingers. They used to have couples from out of state come stay with them in their bedroom while their 2 daughters slept down the hall.

He eventually left her for one of their “girlfriends”—a single mom of 5 kids who didn’t have custody of any of them. She ended up coming out as a lesbian.

20 years down the line, they just celebrated their 40th anniversary.
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